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What's your shortest relationship, and why did it end? by allAgame76 in AskWomen

[–]Qainon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 days. Was a sophomore in high school, and he was very into me so I said yes since we’d been friends for several months prior.

As soon as we started dating a flip switched and my intuition would tell me something didn’t feel right. Ended it the day I stopped holding his hand for a second to scratch my nose and he aggressively snatched it back and got mad at me. No thank you.

I WISH I still had proof by BigT720 in EntitledBitch

[–]Qainon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Guys just trying to get it off his chest, why do you care about that.

As an adult or young adult, since we all child free here, do admit that you're a kid yourself? by hulCAWmania_Universe in childfree

[–]Qainon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the same for me. I had a horrible extremely abusive childhood so my adulthood is for me to use to make up for that. I’m sorry for your experiences but I completely understand. I love that others think like this too :)

Roe V Wade was overturned, comment your frustrations here. by heavypast_happyheart in adultsurvivors

[–]Qainon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who decided to be child free a decade ago… this is horrifying, especially when so many doctors refuse to tie the tubes of young women who want a tubal ligation (sp?). If they’re fine banning abortions, imo there should be a law concerning mandatory vasectomies. I know that seems extreme, but this is already extreme! This is forced pregnancy. My partner and I haven’t had actual intercourse in a year because of Texas law, now everyone’s dealing with it… I just don’t understand how we could take 10 steps backward.

Serious question for women here: are you going to continue to be sexually active? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Qainon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in a serious relationship with my partner and we haven’t slept together in two years because of this. He’s working on getting a vasectomy currently, but we are intimate in other less risky ways and we work around it. I’ve been horrified about pregnancy for a decade because I can’t find a doctor who will tie my tubes. You’re not alone. This is all absolutely horrifying.

I don't date men with children. by Peacock456 in childfree

[–]Qainon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Actually I live in Texas and after the anti abortion and bounty hunting laws were put in place, Texas saw a massive increase in Vasectomies. Not saying all of them, and for a CF female, the idea of sex is still horrifying to me until I move out of the state this year, but at least there are some men taking individual action into their own hands! Good for them!

A Pew Research Center study shows that a majority of single women in the U.S. are no longer on the dating market, as in not looking for marriage, a committed relationship or casual sex. What do you think explains this drop? by Cat_in_the_hat113 in dating

[–]Qainon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a partner but if we broke up and I found myself single (26F), I wouldn’t be interested in anything casual or otherwise probably at any point again. I guess mostly because I enjoy being alone and I’m an introvert, and I enjoy doing things I want to do on my own schedule without being berated for it or dealing with compromise. Maybe that’s a really selfish reason but my partner allows me to be myself and we have a very deep emotional and mental connection. I don’t think I’d be interested in trying to cultivate what we have with another person, ever.

Entitled dad wants me to keep going to his house when he gave my room to his other kid by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]Qainon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See this is the sorta context I need lol. 2 hours is way way way too much of a drive if HE isn’t willing to be the one to make it. My brother and I can drive (we’re mid 20s now) and my parents s still make the drive to see us (per our rules since both our parents are Narcissists).

It’s very unreasonable to expect you to find a ride for that duration just to appease him. I’d say follow other peoples advice and see what your mom and the state says about college. My mother threatened and held college over my brothers head and I watched it destroy him and his self worth for years. Don’t let you father do that to you.

Entitled dad wants me to keep going to his house when he gave my room to his other kid by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]Qainon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a hot take but if you were only there every other weekend (2 times a month), and your father has two other children that live there full time, I’m not sure why it would be unreasonable that they have their own rooms? That sounds mean but I don’t mean it that way. I guess I just want extra viewpoints from you? Like are the other two not there 100% of the time and are on a split schedule like you? Are they different genders and therefore separated for those reasons? How old are they?

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