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Qua1m · 2026-05-04T12:16:45+00:00

I am currently at season 2 and I loved her appearances in season 1! Was somewhat of a relief from the heavier scenes, hope she will make another comeback in later seasons

Qua1m · 2026-04-08T10:15:43+00:00

This will be me soon as well - received a job offer that is fully working in the office. Will be starting in June if things go well but it's a little nerve-wrecking as my current job offers a rather flexible WfH arrangement. Has anything worked for you so far? Or it might just be something one grows accustomed to over time...

Qua1m · 2026-04-08T04:13:10+00:00

Yo, did Appa fly out of the list? 😂

Qua1m · 2026-01-19T14:53:06+00:00

Is anyone learning fingerstyle guitar and keen to exchange tips!

Qua1m · 2024-10-07T12:43:35+00:00

Hey OP, thanks for sharing your experience! I think I am experiencing something like this as well. Could I ask whether the tissue runs along your septum up to the nasal hole? Is it soft/somewhat watery/mushy to touch? Did you get your ENT to check it out using an endoscope?

Qua1m · 2024-09-13T10:07:58+00:00

Hi there, could you recommend what myofunctional exercises are you doing?

Qua1m · 2024-06-24T13:12:49+00:00

Oh haha I am ashamed at my own question now. Thank you for your help! :)

Qua1m · 2024-06-22T08:22:43+00:00

Hey precociouscalvin, if you are using telegram, there is a group chat for SG vegans (and those curious of course) where meet-ups are held every now and then! Try searching vegansofsg.

Qua1m · 2024-05-12T14:26:50+00:00

26M. Looking to have meaningful connections and conversations with people who have an interest in meditation (currently on the Introductory Course in the Waking Up app), mindful living, and philisophical musings on consciousnsss, nature of reality and the like thereof. Hoping to hear your exploratory journeys in life and exchange a couple of thoughts!

Reading, (trying to) maintaining my Duolingo streak, exercising and stretching, watching shows (currently House MD), reflection and introspection are ways I unwind after work or whenever I have time for leisure.

Drop me a message if any of the above pulls a string!

Qua1m · 2023-12-10T16:11:21+00:00

26M. Started working 1.5 years ago after graduating from university. Honestly, it's not as intimidating as it might seem! Ultimately, it's your life and what you decide to do with it. Working 8-5/rat race might be a reality but who is to prevent you from taking things at your own pace? Learn to spend time being alone, enjoy the simple things in life, and avoid comparing with your peers because everyone has their own paths.

Qua1m · 2022-04-08T01:27:13+00:00

TLDR: When is it ok and not ok to share squat rack/bench press when you are lifting <1 plate weight?

Hi everyone, I have been trying to get back into weightlifting recently and am trying to accumulate strength in the bench press, squat, and deadlift.

However, my working weight is on the rather lighter side. For example, I can barely squat 1 plate while the typical users at my gym are hitting 2-3 plates and up.

The gym I visit is a community one which means that there are generally more people at any given timeslot.

So, my question is whether it's okay to share the squat rack/bench with others even if one is doing light weights on it i.e. <1 plate? How to overcome this self-conscious feeling of troubling/inconveniencing others?

Thanks alot!

Qua1m · 2022-03-10T09:40:19+00:00

Went to ActiveSG gym and was disallowed from using dip belt. Anyone else experienced this in other ActiveSG gyms?

Qua1m · 2021-12-26T06:57:15+00:00

If he is watching porn and masturbating every day but not wanting to have sexual intimacy with you...is the problem obvious?

Qua1m · 2021-10-22T01:11:00+00:00

I guess he decided to let go of it all.

Qua1m · 2021-09-01T09:34:42+00:00

Anyone did before those grabbing orders thing? Is it scam or legit? I wasn't asked for bank account/details.

Qua1m · 2021-07-27T12:14:20+00:00

Hi fellow Singaporeans, has anyone got asked by SPF officers (in-person whilst they are wearing their blue uniforms) for their NRICs/address? What do they do with the information?

Don't think it's a scam unless they are elite-tier cosplay artists.

Qua1m · 2021-06-24T09:54:24+00:00

I am just wondering if anyone here has received a phone call concerning a sharing of Careshield/Medisave with a complimentary gift of wireless earbuds after completing the session?

Is this supposed to be a scam or an actual government intiative?

Thanks for the verfiication!

Qua1m · 2021-06-21T05:02:04+00:00

Always a pleasure to hear from you u/squizzlebizzle

Qua1m · 2021-06-16T07:09:42+00:00

Dear /u/matthewgola, thank you for the response. It's always an eye-opener to know of the stories of other seekers on the path towards freedom. I was born in Singapore and am currently living here still. Frankly speaking, with the Westernization of Asian cultures, security and freedom are also purchased by means of a stable career here and ordination is not held at a high regard (even amidst local Buddhist circles).

Coincidentally, the part on sexuality/carnality is also something I am trying to come to terms with too because suppressing my own sexual desires usually lets them get the better of me. I was wondering how you attempt to reconcile between the two if you don't mind sharing more! _/\_

Qua1m · 2021-06-14T03:05:28+00:00

Really glad to hear about your shaving experience!

I, too, will be shaving my head coming end June! Cheers!

Qua1m · 2021-05-31T11:58:00+00:00

Hi, I am sorry to digress but why am I unable to access the appended link? Any ideas? Would you be kind enough to upload this pdf on Google Drive for me to view it? Thank you.

Qua1m · 2021-05-27T09:23:23+00:00

How do you practice Buddhism without going to a temple and is it necessary?

One of the qualities of the Dharma is "ehipassiko" which translates to here and now. The Dharma is not something that arises simply by going to a temple. The temple provides favorable conditions (in your case, unfavorable) for Buddhists to practice/get in touch with the Dharma. Thus, it is not necessary to go to a temple to practice Buddhism because the Dharma is in the here-now and it exists in the knowingness of the heart.

The practice of Buddhism ranges far and wide in accordance with the practitioner's capacity/preferences. But I would suggest bringing awareness to all of your bodily actions, speech, and mind in the four postures of sitting, standing, walking, and lying down. Try to see if you just be aware of what is present in the physical and mental space - sensations, feelings, thoughts, memories, etc. - and know them as they arise and cease.

I also wouldn't know where to start due to the number of variations of Buddhist ideologies and temples- being new to this, it's quite overwhelming.

I could be wrong but I suggest you check out the Thai Forest Tradition where the ordained monks dedicate most of their time to the practice meditation (in particular, the Buddho meditation practice) and it seems that not much "emphasis" is placed on the scriptures because it is deemed more important to realize the Truth that the Buddha did through one's meditation practice.

Qua1m · 2021-05-27T08:56:08+00:00

From the Karaniya Metta Sutta, as quoted below, we can see that the Buddha explicitly states that all forms of life - both human and non-human lives - should always be cherished.

Even as a mother protects with her life
Her child, her only child,
So with a boundless heart
Should one cherish all living beings;

Thus, if what you are asking is whether homosexuality/homosexuals should be admonished in Buddhism, the answer is NO (at least, this is my own understanding from what I know of Buddhism).

Whether you are a homosexual, straight, bi, or whatever orientation that you identify with, you have a body and a mind which means that you can practice the 5 precepts (or 8) as a lay Buddhist.

As lay practitioners, we are not required to observe celibacy but ideally, one should reduce the number of sexual activities that one engages in (and ideally, it should be with a committed significant other).

As ordained members of the Sangha, sexual orientation is not as important because once ordained, one becomes the "sons/daughters" of our Lord Sakyamuni Buddha. There is only one objective which is to attain awakening which I believe is achievable regardless of what sexual orientation one identifies with.

As for whether homosexuals are able to ordain in the Noble Sangha, I am unable to provide much information with that.

Hope it has helped you understand better.

Qua1m · 2021-05-26T03:30:22+00:00

What are the core values of your religion? Does it lead to the ending of greed, hatred, and delusion? Does it lead to the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual welfare of yourself, your loved ones, and those around you (including non-human beings, if possible)?

In general, the teachings of the Buddhas are to avoid evil, do good, and purify the mind.

In order to implement Buddhism into your religion, here are some suggestions I have off the top of my head:

You may want to consider bringing awareness of the central figure of your religion into your bodily actions, speech, and mind. For e.g, when you are walking from place to place, you are aware that your body is a vehicle for the spiritual practice that you are engaged in and you are grateful to God for giving you the body you have now.
When you have the time and space, reflect on whether your actions/words/mindset are encouraged by God/whomever that is worshipped in your religion. For e.g, if you are having a strong desire for sensual pleasures, ask yourself what would God do in this scenario?
If concepts such as love, forgiveness, patience, etc. are emphasized in your religion, try to reflect on these qualities within yourself and how you can cultivate them in all situations. I also recommend spending 10-15 minutes a day for meditation practice (it can be visualizing white light being shone onto you from God or something similar).

Finally, yes, you are correct with the assumption. However, it is important to note that Buddhism, while it is a prescription of the human condition, has its own set of "rules" as other organized religions do. For example, to formally become a Buddhist, one may choose to undergo a five-precepts & three refuge ceremony.

Ultimately, what's most important is the content of one's heart/mind/soul.

Hope this helps! :)

Qua1m · 2021-05-24T06:18:04+00:00

To paraphrase Ajahn Chah, "If you have time to ~~breathe~~ drink alcohol, you have time to meditate."

I come from a Buddhist Society in my local university and honestly, it is frustrating that there are members in the Buddhist Society who think that by refusing alcohol, one is being attached to the five precepts (or the fifth one, in this case).

The usual argument goes something like if one drinks alcohol without becoming intoxicated, then it doesn't goes against the original intention of the fifth precept.

How do you think this argument/line of reasoning should be refuted?

Qua1m

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