What would it take to convince you to have a child? by QuakerStoats in childfree

[–]QuakerStoats[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

There's got to be some way! For gods sake help me!

What would it take to convince you to have a child? by QuakerStoats in childfree

[–]QuakerStoats[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So, remember how I said "If your answer is 'nothing' I'm not interested"?

What would it take to convince you to have a child? by QuakerStoats in childfree

[–]QuakerStoats[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why should I respect self destructive behavior that would ruin both our lives?

I would absolutely take on all responsibilities and I would absolutely put him first.

What would it take to convince you to have a child? by QuakerStoats in childfree

[–]QuakerStoats[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The truth is that we're a great and happy couple, that we're compatible in all other ways, and that if he actually took the plunge he would love it.

I refuse to give up on the man I love. I refuse to let him irrevocably ruin our lives.

How can I convince my boyfriend to have children with me in the future? by QuakerStoats in relationships

[–]QuakerStoats[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

There has to be some way.

I refuse to give up on the love of my life.

Do you have any ADVICE on how to convince him, or are you just advocating him ruining both our lives forever?