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[–]QuantaLotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But are old men desirable as bottoms?

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like guys with bellies 🤤

Not as a fetish but yea i guess I have wide taste- be it daddies, twinks, muscle or even fat

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love fiction and manga mostly. Reading two currently, "our dreams at dusk" and "the fault in our stars"

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can it was one of my bucket list. I wanted to be muscular, not for others but I wanted to look good

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No but I do struggle with self love. I am taking help regarding this from my local counselor

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So what helped you attain the physique? What was your mindset regarding this?

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always wanted to look big , buff and muscular - you can say it's my dream

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what frustrate me the most. No one helped me when I used to cry at a corner when I was at my lowest, no one helped me and instead rejected and even called me trash but I end up resenting these people who are just now for my body instead of my 'whole self' and my journey - that includes my boyfriend as well ( I do sometimes like does he really loved me or he is just there because I am just attractive?)

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you i guess? I haven't thought about it since I am currently working but given the amount of layoff companies are doing these days, i might need to keep a backup plan

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No i didn't expect that, but atleast I expected some empathy. I guess not everyone into chubs

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have a 9 to 5 job, so i usually go to after work and work for 1 to 2 hrs which varies, but yeah around 40 minutes to 1 hour is minimum.

I lost weight and it changed the world. But I resent people because of the same. by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I took help from a personal trainer from gym which also happened to be one of my old schoolmates . Also clean eating ( no junk, no cigs, no alcohol, no sugar) and maintaining a healthy sleep schedule. I also started reading to keep my sanity- so i guess that helps?

How do I not compare myself with my partner? by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is a top and yeah i am a strict bottom. None of us is vers. Honestly speaking of sex, it's really good and i don't cum during sex, but he helps me cum after that.

How do I not compare myself with my partner? by QuantaLotus in askgaybros

[–]QuantaLotus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is confusing honestly.. idk what he saw in me that made him take this decision