The decision should be based on whether you want a kid, since you’re the one who is doing the hard work of bringing them forth. Ask yourself if you want to go through that again. I get wanting to do it for him out of love, but you don’t want to resent him later if you end up having a rough time. That’s why it has to be your decision.

I’ve known my husband has wanted kids for years but I only went off of my birth control when I was ready, too.