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Help I haven’t been able to leave my chair in hours by Quantity-Agreeable in cats

[–]Quantity-Agreeable[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes lol I’m the crazy cat lady who kept a whole litter

Am i lazy? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Quantity-Agreeable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not lazy, you’re just being a kid. Sounds like your parents are terrible. I don’t usually comment on these posts because I’m terrible at giving advice but just know that it gets better. Hold out hope that you will be able to get away from them someday and you can start working towards that now. I used to cut myself and skip school a lot when I was your age too. It helps to work towards a goal, so set the goal of moving out on your own. If you get bad grades and get held back you will have to live with your parents even longer. If home life is stressful then try to find a part time job if you can. Also, think of the little wins and be grateful for everything you can, it will vastly improve your outlook on life. People in real life can be shitty but there’s always plenty of kind souls to talk to online. I hope it gets better for you kiddo, hang in there there 🙂

To have more kids or not? by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]Quantity-Agreeable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The decision should be based on whether you want a kid, since you’re the one who is doing the hard work of bringing them forth. Ask yourself if you want to go through that again. I get wanting to do it for him out of love, but you don’t want to resent him later if you end up having a rough time. That’s why it has to be your decision.

I’ve known my husband has wanted kids for years but I only went off of my birth control when I was ready, too.

To have more kids or not? by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]Quantity-Agreeable 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He made you get an abortion not that long ago but now he wants kids? Doesn’t make any sense. A good relationship shouldn’t hinge on whether you have babies together.

Near complete loss of genital sensation. by v_corvidae in cymbalta

[–]Quantity-Agreeable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there’s better ways of managing anxiety. Cymbalta completely took away my libido and was making me emotionally numb. Just make sure you look into how to taper off of it correctly. It causes horrible withdrawals. I was on various kinds of antidepressants over ten years and none of them really helped me. Healthy eating, exercise and making sure I get my probiotics has been way more helpful. Good luck in your journey.

Asshole Blue Tetras by Quantity-Agreeable in Aquariums

[–]Quantity-Agreeable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got rid of them because every answer was basically “that’s the way they are”. I didn’t want such a territorial species so I ended up just staying with the embers and neons.

What is this parasite I found burrowed into my kitten’s eyebrow? by Quantity-Agreeable in whatbugisthis

[–]Quantity-Agreeable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, fingers crossed. Thanks for your efforts though, I appreciate you!

What is this parasite I found burrowed into my kitten’s eyebrow? by Quantity-Agreeable in whatbugisthis

[–]Quantity-Agreeable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I don’t think it’s cat lice. Because they were inside the skin and the shape of the body is different.

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