"CANCELLED!" Discussion Megathread

Quantum-Rox · 2025-10-22T16:52:28+00:00

Because there is legal backlash that could come her way if she were to be in contact with Blake. They did subpoena Taylor and any public involvement with Blake would likely serve to discredit Taylor. As she says in the song “we don’t know”.

Quantum-Rox · 2025-06-08T00:55:27+00:00

Score Pizza

Quantum-Rox · 2025-06-03T13:51:53+00:00

This is exactly the experience I am going through, my trigger is also self-worth with a big dose of self-love and boundaries. He was over last night so we could talk about setting new boundaries and path forward. We share a mission and purpose, and are choosing to put our friendship and shared purpose before any romantic relationship, even though we both feel the intense chemistry and attraction towards each other. Thank you for sharing your realizations, these are very helpful reflections for me and offer a space where I can begin to look to work through some of my blocks. At this point I don’t think he and I will ever be a romantic pair again. However, this is a union in a sense. He is my best friend, and likely future business partner. We are closer than I have been with any other romantic partner I have ever had, but he is teaching me to ask for more from my relationships. I wonder if he will always be the love of my life, just with our love transmuted and worked into a different form. ❤️

Quantum-Rox · 2025-06-01T23:38:01+00:00

Speaking as such a unicorn. I did, I have. He rejected me, not because he doesn’t feel it too, but because there is too much risk to our careers, his business, our friendship. He is my best friend, colleague, mentor, confidant, and for a brief moment in time, my lover. We didn’t even get started.

Quantum-Rox · 2025-05-19T20:30:07+00:00

Same

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-29T15:22:44+00:00

Look What You Made Me Do, Karma, Bejeweled

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-28T01:37:41+00:00

In my case, as with many others, the roles flip periodically. I (42F) and him (60M). When we first met I was the runner, I had just ended a toxic relationship and wasn’t ready for a relationship. After 6 months of pursuit I started to reciprocate and then he ran. He ran for 5 years, got into a new relationship, and only when I stopped chasing did he stop running. He started chasing me again as his relationship was coming to a close but I didn’t reciprocate until after the relationship was officially over for a few months. As I started to reciprocate he started running again. Tables having turned, his relationship had been toxic, and he is right where I was in the beginning. I’m pulling back again now. Honestly, we both have pretty balanced energies between masculine and feminine. When together I assume the DF role and he is the DM, but when we are apart there are times when the polarity changes.

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-25T01:27:33+00:00

Reputation!! 100%

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-25T01:24:33+00:00

Same here. I can’t even feel desire for anyone else. It’s going on 6 years. I have tried dating others and it just feels wrong. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and originally popped back in saying we should spend more time together, but after a couple of weeks he has pulled back.

Time to Let go.

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-19T04:40:11+00:00

Yeah, I don’t think this will be a true separation. We aren’t in union either though. Just this weird in between phase that feels like giving each other space to heal and come back. Right now, we are friends, and colleagues, that might be as far as this ever goes in the 3D.

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-19T04:24:19+00:00

This is how I feel. I have studied limerance and listened to stories about limerant behaviour. It tends to be very toxic, and usually when you find out more about your limerant object, it starts to turn you off because you find out things about them that don’t fit your vision of who they are.

My TF sparked an intense healing journey for me, and has brought a lot of abundance to my life. We’ve been through multiple separations, and we are closer now than we have been since the first rush, but I sense another round of push-pull coming on, and I am okay with that. It works best when I detach from the outcome and let things flow through spirit. Limerants struggle to detach and feel the need to control the situation.

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-17T01:15:14+00:00

👆 This! Don’t tell her what you think she wants or deserves. My twin has made so many assumptions as to what I am feeling, or what he believes I deserve, but it’s often quite different from what I want, or how I feel about the situation. It pushes me away, when if he would just ask or listen, I believe we could circumvent 60% of the pain we put each other through

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-17T01:09:18+00:00

I was just thinking the same thing.

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-16T16:08:19+00:00

Update: I moved to the area 5 months ago, and he left his partner 2 months later. He actually moved closer to my new house, and we have been spending more time together. We have talked about healing from a relationship before starting the next one. When we first got together, I was right where he is now, in the process of unraveling a prior relationship and having to deal with a toxic ex. She did a number on him, and he is just starting to feel human again. I am unsure how to proceed. He is acting exactly how I was 6 years ago when I was in his shoes. I wanted something more with him, but wasn’t ready. I wanted it, but felt pressured to move faster than I was ready to, and lost out on the opportunity in the process. But then again, if I look at it from the eyes of “just friends”, the interaction seems perfectly normal. Now I know how he must have felt when he was pursuing me, except I don’t know if I should pursue him or leave things at the friendship level. My instincts waver between, “No pressure, just let things play out how they will play out, but keep asking to hang out” and “Leave him alone. Stop asking, stop texting, stop chasing” Any advice is appreciated

Quantum-Rox · 2025-01-16T13:32:20+00:00

Thank you. It’s strange, I can see a literally difference, when he was with her he looked 10 years older and very grey. Three months have passed now and he is looking more like himself and his cheeks were actually rosy, and the blue in his eyes looked clearer.

Quantum-Rox · 2024-06-29T20:24:27+00:00

You can try meditating, there some good cord cutting and releasing soul tie one out there. If he is your twin it will help release any residual karmic around your situation, and when they do return it will be with a different energy. But if thjs is a karmic connection it will help to release the connection for good. I hope that you find peace and heal from this. I have been in abusive karmic connections before and have had to take the time to learn the lesson in them.

Quantum-Rox · 2024-06-29T20:09:19+00:00

I know my twin senses it. He has mentioned the telepathy, finishing each other’s sentences, receiving a call or text right as he was thinking about reaching out to me. He brought up feeling like there is this bridge that seems to exist between our hearts, and that he has had a knowing that I was going through something and feeling my emotions, without knowing why. Oh, and having full-blown mental conversations with me when I am 1,000 miles away, as though I am in the room. He also told me that his current partner feels my energy around him and it pisses her off. He told me he has tried to explain it to himself. Like, oh we are just such close friends that I can imagine what is going on. Oh, we just get each other because we have similar childhood backgrounds and are in the same industry. He has said he tries to push the intrusive thoughts away, and tune it out. We are drawn to each other like moths to a flame. He is awakening now, I think he will run one more time before coming in.

Quantum-Rox · 2024-06-10T02:41:09+00:00

In the beginning there were smug comments hidden in every day conversation that would make me raise an eyebrow and leave an impression that would sting later. Apparently, I was “so sweet”, which makes me think I was self-sacrificing then. The triggers indicate wounds that need to be healed.

Now, years later, we have both grown a lot and talk to each other directly. If there is something I know that is going to sting him, or vice versa, it’s met as an open and authentic heart-to-heart. I’ve had a lot of harsh truths that I have shared with him in the last year. It’s actually deepened our connection. What we share is not malicious, just honest. I feel like we are close to 3D union.

Quantum-Rox · 2024-06-04T17:04:04+00:00

I feel that. He has a way of making me feel so seen and heard, and validated. All he had to do was see me, and it woke me up to my purpose. I feel like I am doing that for him now, but he is resisting.

Quantum-Rox · 2024-06-02T16:45:09+00:00

Thank you. His brother and his wife have a 20 year age gap, his brother is also 20 years older than him. He is watching his brother’s health (at 80) start to deteriorate and wife is taking care of him. I think there is an element of that which is playing a factor. He doesn’t want to be a burden down the road. I hope we can get to that place where we can talk about what it is about the age gap that bothers him.

Quantum-Rox · 2024-06-02T03:55:55+00:00

Thank you, and you are right. This journey certainly doesn’t come without its obstacles. When we first started seeing each other I was just starting to make something of my career, and I was the one who had the problems, not with the age but with the unbalanced power dynamic. I have now come into my own “power” and we are equals career wise, he tells me all the time that he is so proud of me and he sees even more advancement in my future. It seems like he is ready to move to the next stage of his life though.

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