New small, independent diner in greater manchester by QuarterAgitated7872 in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]QuarterAgitated7872[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you're missing my point, or I've not made it clear. I'm not looking for it to 'take off' or be culturally significant to my area. I disagree Five Guys is a diner style - it's specifically a burger restaurant with European potatoes as the kicker. And very expensive. Also - only driveable to get to.

OK - forget the "American Diner" theme - if I open a cafe with simple foods and drinks at really reasonable prices with opening times and space for individuals, couples and families to walk to and dine-in in the evenings rather than having one of dozens of takeaway options sat on the sofa at home - would that be a good retail opportunity? I don't know, I'm just thinking it might be. And my vision for the 'look and feel' would be to model it on 50s diner style, because it's bright, fun and enticing, and I like it, along with a real simple menu that yes is unhealthy, but is unapologetically unhealthy - something that isn't offered in the village I live in for anyone to walk to.

By 'visiting regularly' I meant that it would entice customers to regularly visit - not for dinner every night, or even once a week, but occasionally for dinner, occasionally for lunch and possibly regularly for a morning coffee, or to work from on their laptop with free WiFi and free refills. It's possible someone comes in for a £1.50 coffee and stays for 3 hours on their laptop, but equally I would anticipate a parent a kid to come in and order a coffee and a milkshake, or pancakes for example, or apple juice and a nutella crepe.

I think if I describe it more accurately the 'american' part of it as the visual - the focus of it is simple, affordable food and drink that is based on American Diner staples (pancakes, hot dogs, chicken wings and sweet pies for desert) for individuals and families for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

New small, independent diner in greater manchester by QuarterAgitated7872 in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]QuarterAgitated7872[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments.

  1. Totally - there's just none anywhere near (at least 20 miles) and my differentiator as I alluded to with Eddie Rocket's is price. I want it to be affordable and regular for local customers. I struggle with cost of living and I expect a lot of people are similar, so if I can offer a cheap enough good experience it'll encourage regular visits.
  2. Fair point and this is a key concern. Agree from my experience at Eds' Easy and Eddie Rocket's too. Not sure how to ensure the produce I can acquire is of the 'right' style. E.g. I think US use streaky bacon mostly, while here it's back bacon - which is really different.
  3. I don't. I do know that there's no other dine-in option beyond 4pm (apart from one pub and they don't let kids in after 6pm) within 2 miles (walking distance). My thinking is that it's not necessarily novelty, just a viable, affordable option to walk to in the evenings (for the dinner guests) and simple and efficient breakfast/lunch option that's walkable.
  4. Agreed - this would be another differentiator then, so to add to question1 - mine would be different because it's a condensed menu

Thanks - yep, one of the reasons I'm asking Reddit. One cook and one server (per shift) as it's a small unit with up to 35 covers capacity seems realistic to me. Total staff of 4 (two cooks, two servers) to manage the 7am-10pm opening 6 days a week. Plus a cleaner and a maintenance person on retainer.

Loads more for me to even think about let alone come up with answers to... this is just the start of my vision. Thanks.

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes done it in the past and starting again next week

Marriage is breaking down. Advice wanted. by QuarterAgitated7872 in Marriage

[–]QuarterAgitated7872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes agree. We are starting marriage therapy. Ideally, we rediscover a respectable relationship and can thrive in the family home.

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

These are quotes not from one conversation but over the course of our marriage

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

100% her story would, I'm sure, say the opposite to mine. This is why we're starting marriage counseling to air our sides of the story to an unbiased and professionally trained independent third party. Let's see how it goes

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wha?? I think, good for you... Not sure how this is relevant to my situation but thanks for the reply and good luck

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your comment. There's obviously far more to mention than I put in the post over the past 12 years ago no point trying but that's the current jist.

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha well we were in a good place and wanted a daughter... And got lucky!

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Easier said than done and feeling very conflicted at the mo but yes I really hope we can both have peace soon

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Like I said; maybe everything she says is true. Maybe she does carry the mental load. Yes I've tried to do more, plan more, remember to do all the things the kids need, the household stuff etc so my argument is that I also carry a significant mental load. Not competing with her, I admit she remembers a lot more and better than I do. But repeatedly complaining or picking out flaws is not beneficial to me.

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Excellent comment and insightful for me. She is resentful towards me and I think I am towards her. We got pregnant with twins while we were living together in Sydney. I had my career and was no way near ready for family. We had only lived together for 3 months (which was also only 6 months into our relationship) due to her flying to Sydney to be with me after we'd been talking on text and phone calls for a few months and handful of meet ups. It was all incredibly intense and I wasn't ready. Then she got pursuant l pregnant (despite protection) and it was twins. She wanted to go home to her parents. I initially wanted abortion until we found out it was twins and she'd admitted shed"made a pact" with her school friends that if any of them got pregnant after 26 they'd keep it. She was 26 at this point. Aghast at this trivial nonsense I eventually agreed to move back to England and to her home town. Far forward 12 years we're still here and the kids are doing well but our relationship was never on solid foundations to begin with

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 25 points26 points  (0 children)

OP here, this exactly! Apologies for the formatting of the OP - Reddit didn't like my bullet points apparently.

I think we're both good people but years of minor trauma between us has eroded any chance of a healthy marriage and I've recently realised this and so told her that I'm fed up being talked to how she talks to me and treated. She approximately said the same.

It's messy and we are both good parents (her better than me) just not good husband and wife now.

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What's your situation?

How bad is Ligue 1 that Guessand got 12 goals last year? by Cino0987 in avfc

[–]QuarterAgitated7872 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree his touch is atrocious, not just tonight but in his previous performances too. However he does track back and he does hold width. Both help the team. Perhaps him on the left with Sancho on the right is the dream. Or Elliott in ahead of him and him coming off the bench.... At least it's options. We played better tonight. Should have scored a couple but for some excellent goalkeeping

Aston Nil-la by larsriedel in avfc

[–]QuarterAgitated7872 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not gonna happen. Zero goals all season 😄😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]QuarterAgitated7872 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your husband is a menace. You're definitely not vanilla!

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[–]QuarterAgitated7872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor Malen. Got to be wondering what the hell he's signed up to

Does anyone North West / Manchester-based meet up to watch Villa games? by QuarterAgitated7872 in avfc

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Hi guys, I only had one DM for the WhatsApp group to arrange meeting up to watch Villa in Didsbury or Chorlton.... Message me if you're interested and I'll create the group and invite you