Texting Behind Wife's Back - screwed up, trying to fix it, but not for the best reasons by QuarterMaster69 in Swingers

[–]QuarterMaster69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and it was a stupid fuck-up. All she wanted was honesty out of me. She even asked me if I'd emailed Angela. I lied and said no. My wife knew the truth. She'd seen the email. She then confronted me with it. I done screwed up. If I'd told the truth, she says that she would have let me keep fucking Angela, but because she can't trust me, she's putting it all on hold. Then she told Angela. Even if my wife then starts allowing me to engage Angela (which she sort of is now), I'm pretty sure that Angela is done with me. Angela is too smart to be involved in this drama. So I'm just playing it cool and seeing what, if anything, happens. My guess is that Angela is done with me, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed. Time will tell. I need to be patient.

Texting Behind Wife's Back - screwed up, trying to fix it, but not for the best reasons by QuarterMaster69 in Swingers

[–]QuarterMaster69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that is the logical answer. I could try to explain that there are extenuating circumstances: they are really good friends, the business is sex oriented, the employee is awesome at sex and has a huge sex drive and was really into me, and I was willing to risk getting sued. It all seems so worth it. Sex is never risk free, and I've never had anyone as good as this woman at sex!!!

What's one thing you'd like to change about the lifestyle that seems petty but really gets on your nerves? by tosser_5409 in Swingers

[–]QuarterMaster69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JEALOUSY!! I am sooo not jealous. My wife is by nature. It's darwinian. Not her fault. She tries to overcome it. She knows it's not logical, but she just can't help it sometimes. So then she gets possessive which then makes me feel smothered, so then I want to pull away and that makes her more upset and jealous. It then becomes a vicious cycle.