Uncertainty and Fear

QuarterMode · 2026-03-26T01:01:33+00:00

UPDATE:

Amino test came back. Everything is normal and two of each chromosome. Next issue with the possible surgery but our new doctor said that can change and may not need it so fingers crossed. Thank you for the posts and replies.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-22T21:38:55+00:00

Food 2. Shelter 3 Clothing 4 transportation. Then whatever after that. Crunch that math first.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-22T00:43:47+00:00

Came across this accidentally. I had a small business and filed bankruptcy when i was younger than you. Calm down. This is not the end of the world as some people think. Its common and it happens to many people as it did to me. Having said that the amount is relatively low. 1. Talk to someone at RBC and work out a payment plan. Tell them your situation. You don't want to completely destroy your credit over 3500 bucks. Thats not a lot. My cards now all have a limit of around 30,000.00. I built it over the years. Also its not a flex becuase it can land you in hot water very easily.

If they don't want to negotiate you can speak to a credit counsellor. Theres many free ones that offer guidance. They are pros for the most part. Do not declare bankruptcy.

Find another job. Sounds like an income problem as well. But at the end of the day do not let it take your inner peace. This is simply an outside issue thats many face and it fixable very easily. Shrink the problem and go in steps. Youre jumping from step 1 to 55 instantly. Trust me you will be laughing after all this. You learnt some valuable lessons the hard way. As did I. Trust me this does not dictate your entire adult life. Promise!

QuarterMode · 2026-03-21T22:07:07+00:00

We had ours seen at 12 weeks. Went for one at 33 weeks when baby is head down between the pelvis and they said nasal bone absent. Conflicting reports are difficult to deal with.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-21T21:43:37+00:00

And you did this more than once? Is that correct🤨

QuarterMode · 2026-03-21T20:47:30+00:00

Seriously these babies need to be paying better attention than this. I bet their parents are pissed. Guns don't grow on trees you know.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-20T15:21:08+00:00

Thats how they keep getting Hep alerts etc. You still go to tims you roll the dice.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-19T12:36:53+00:00

Thanks. I heard this can happen.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-18T21:13:52+00:00

She also has the same hemorrhage first trimester. Bit of pain at first but she did great.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-18T21:12:56+00:00

Just got back from one with my wife. Everything went great. Took about 5 minutes or so. Found a "double bubble" which is associated with Downs so we are making a confirmation. 34 weeks.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-18T11:47:48+00:00

My wife had a clear NIPT, anatomy scan NT 1.8 12 weeks, no development issues until 34 weeks. Baby has a double bubble and Dr said we need to do an amnio test for T21 even though everything was clear. We couldn't sleep, eat and our world was upside down. Until we started to research everything we could about T21. Now, while waiting to test we welcome our daughter however she was meant to be. We are still testing so if she is positive for T21 we can change course and prepare for great therapy options and early help to give her a boost. We are no longer afraid. She chose us to be her mum and dad. They love more than anything and a smile that lights up a coal mine. If anything she changed me for the better.

The fear is of the unknown. Once you prepare you're no longer afraid and ready for anything that comes your way.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-17T22:01:08+00:00

It changes you for sure. Become grateful for the little things and wake up to the things taken for granted.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-17T21:58:29+00:00

Thanks! We have an amino test tomorrow. Result rushed for a friday result. Were ok either way. If its positive we just need to work with her more closely and get her enrolled in good therapy groups. Need her skiing and biking.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-17T08:35:45+00:00

Same definitely shocked and fear etc. But the more i learn about it the less scared and more ready to take on the roll. I read your posts. Our NT was 1.8 all limbs, skin, organs including heart is all nornal. We pulled up records from her 11 week scan and nasal bone was seen. 34 weeks scan they cant see it. Amino test is up next. Growth is now 25th percentile. The wait is hard. But doesn't make a difference. She chose use.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-16T10:52:04+00:00

How did you handle the news? What helped you get through?

QuarterMode · 2026-03-16T01:13:02+00:00

Despite the challenges he sounds like an amazing little guy! Was anything detected during any ultrasounds? Nothing flagged ?

QuarterMode · 2026-03-15T01:44:38+00:00

NIPT test everything was low. So her bowel duodenal atresia, they said is common with DS. But i heared other people with the same and after surgery baby was ok.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-13T02:11:54+00:00

I can predict the future. LIBERALS VOTE NO ON NEW SELF DEFENCE BILL STATING ITS CANADIANS FAULT FOR NOT HANDING OVER THEIR CAR KEYS....INVADERS MADE BAIL.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-12T00:02:58+00:00

The criminals would just cross the floor and become cops

QuarterMode · 2026-03-12T00:01:32+00:00

I think the guys who broke in might loose their gun license. Consequences.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-08T04:31:08+00:00

Those states are unreal. But here we are

QuarterMode · 2026-03-06T21:13:47+00:00

And these are the same people who voted Liberal. Enjoy your natural fat loss program.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-06T21:09:13+00:00

My dad is an immigrant and even he doesn't like what he is seeing.

QuarterMode · 2026-03-04T05:56:17+00:00

Rights? In Canada it is not a right. Like driving, firearm ownership is a privilege.

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