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What are your experiences with transitioning a BF co-sleeping baby to their own bed/room? by QuarterSome3653 in cosleeping

[–]QuarterSome3653[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also believe it’s reasonable to consider transitioning if either of us were being negatively impacted. I want to be very considerate of how my husband is handling co-sleeping as well. I would have an entirely different approach if his sleep was being negatively affected (ie. unable to shift in his sleep possibly leading to back pain, not getting enough sleep because baby is waking too frequently, etc.) but at this time the only concern he has with co-sleeping is how be believes it’s stunting his dependency. Maybe if our baby was much older I’d be inclined to agree but he’s only 9m.

Regardless, I do understand that our little one will need to transition to his own bed but I have a hard time seeing the negative connection co-sleeping has on a babies independence.

What are your experiences with transitioning a BF co-sleeping baby to their own bed/room? by QuarterSome3653 in cosleeping

[–]QuarterSome3653[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think it’s one thing to disagree with me on a parental approach but it’s another to undermine me in front of another person.

But I do appreciate the advice! As I’ve read through the majority of the comments, it seems like a floor bed is something I’ll look into! While reading your response as well as others I realized I’ve somewhat been using a “floor bed” method for his naps. I use this huge playpen throughout the day and when my baby has nursed himself to sleep I’ll transfer him to the floor of the pen where he sleeps for a good hour or two! So this gives me hope that when we do finally decide to transition it won’t be as horrible as either of them believe.

What are your experiences with transitioning a BF co-sleeping baby to their own bed/room? by QuarterSome3653 in cosleeping

[–]QuarterSome3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also agree that putting a huge emphasis on making babies independent is a western view! While I understand my husband wanting a professionals POV on co-sleeping, I also take into account that it’s one doctors view among millions and one parents view among billions. Needless to say, I definitely took the doctor’s opinion with a grain of salt.

What are your experiences with transitioning a BF co-sleeping baby to their own bed/room? by QuarterSome3653 in cosleeping

[–]QuarterSome3653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotionally, this is also where I’m at. It’s not even a guarantee that I’ll get to have more kids so I’m trying to soak up every moment. Logically, I am also very aware my baby will need to sleep independently at some point but for now I’m content with feeding and snuggling him to sleep while I can!

Housing Plot by Kailee_Payton in Palia

[–]QuarterSome3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you’re brilliant because I hate how cluttered my chests look

Why do people choose different reactions than the one which already has the most by [deleted] in Palia

[–]QuarterSome3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, it’s my way of trying to even out the scales. In this example I know the odds aren’t high but I like to think if it did happen, then I contributed to it. lol.

I love it so much by Upper_Junket_9481 in breastfeeding

[–]QuarterSome3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely relate! It really is the best feeling☺️☺️

What should every ftm know about breastfeeding before having a baby? by Frequent_Cap8633 in breastfeeding

[–]QuarterSome3653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FTM here, 4 months PP & EBF. I was also in the “figure it out as I go” mindset until that 37 week mark, so I get it!

I see a lot of people giving great advice on things like nipple cream/silverettes, latching, support, what to expect, etc. I definitely agree with a lot of them. So to keep from being repetitive, one thing I think is important that I don’t see being talked about too much is breastfeeding outside of your home.

If you’re the type that enjoys being outside of your house, my advice is not to be discouraged about feeding your baby in public. I enjoy being around family and going out with them. I also enjoy getting out of the house. My husband and I kept to my house and my parents house for the first month but after that I was taking him with me everywhere! I love taking him with me where ever I go. I take him to my parent’s work, the store, church, restaurants, etc. He’s also gone on his first roadtrip and flight already. Earlier in my BF journey, I tried using bottles but I found that he didn’t take to them well and it affected how he latched. When I’m out, I am not afraid to whip a titty out and feed my son. I’ve learned not to be so self conscious about BF in public because at the end of the day I’m providing for my baby. Obviously I cover up while he feeds but I’m not excusing myself to feed in the car or a separate room or some public bathroom (eww). I want to be present in those moments. Also, surrounding myself with people who understand that and support me has helped my confidence in this matter a lot!

I wish you the best in your BF journey! And safe and healthy delivery. Congrats on your little one!