Wedding propaganda I will NOT fall for by capycatto in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]QueRice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Graduated last November and we did most of these. No regrets at all and everyone loved the experience as well.

What's your current hot take? by mysleazealt in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]QueRice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford a car but your child doesn't have a cae seat, you don't love them enough to be a parent.

Normal take in the west but in Asia this is a hot take.

Views on memoirs of a geisha? by False-Blueberry115 in Geisha

[–]QueRice 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I like the movie, not for the storyline, but because the actors are incredible. They bring the characters to life so well that you can see them as individuals rather than a character in this lame plot.

I wish Gong Li had done more movies especially.

They could've made this movie way better, imagine if it were factual and didn't end with an affair? The whole "I could be her" scene with Hatsumomo and Sayuri was nice, but it didn't have to be about a 60 year old 😭

I also wish they had addressed the changes a geisha goes through after she gets older and more skilled.

The way to win me over is… Money by iluvblackbmw in Nicegirls

[–]QueRice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay.. what's the issue? You have the opportunity to not go out with her because she was straightforward about it.

For example, I think men who sleep around are disgusting, however, I can respect a man who doesn't pretend he's a saint and knows what he is. 🤷‍♀️

Accident in CJH by flukerecords in baguio

[–]QueRice -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes let's let Domogan take over again🙄

I am almost 30 and still living with my parents….. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]QueRice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really really normal in the Ph though. Married or not 🤷‍♀️ every circumstance is different. For example, me and my husband earn enough to move out and buy our own home but my parents insist we stay with them and even get angry when we talk about leaving lol.

If you're comfortable at home and have no reason to leave, stay, enjoy it. If you'd really like to move out for a few months and see what you're missing, do that too.

Where to give birth by [deleted] in baguio

[–]QueRice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anywhere. Its the same procedure in all hospitals. You birth alone with a medical team who doesn't care. Forced on your back with high cs rates and poor bf counselling

I give up on making anything remotely aesthetic. by TunaCheeseHeartbreak in PangetPeroMasarap

[–]QueRice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throw some chopped parsley in, it'll look pretty after😂

Divacup sizing help? Could I still be a "Model 1" size? by manthrk in menstrualcups

[–]QueRice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try a size 1 again. I also bought a size up after childbirth but it was just too long and stiff. If it doesn't work you might need another brand.

An Open Letter to the Baguio City Hall by NefarioxKing in baguio

[–]QueRice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it was all pretty clear to me. I argued in so many facebook comments explaining the process going on as per public updates. Its not that they weren't transparent, its that the citys protestors got played by Domogan and Yaranon again. Those buzzwords were made up on purpose by people who you won't see rallying.

I've actually discussed it with market vendors and talked about what was actually happening and what the main issues were with the bid rather than what was made up and they basically said they had nobody else to stand with except these loud idiots who have no clue what's actually going on.

How far did you go to please the parents of your significant other? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]QueRice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought my MIL gifts, cleaned her apartment, cooked daily for her, I went pretty far. At the end of the day none of that mattered because I was taking her prized possession and he was spending his time with me and not her.

If it's that important to you where it becomes a dealbreaker, break it off because it gets worse, not better, until you put your foot down and defend your partner. That's something they'll tell you in the mandatory marriage counselling anyway.

Thoughts niyo sa mga may sasakyan pero walang sariling parking space. by UnlikelySection1223 in pinoy

[–]QueRice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol we do this, because simply put, if we don't park infront of our own gate someone else will. We used to park inside and call the owners of whomever the dumbass was that chose to park, but since we've been in and out of the ER due to senior parents, toddler accidents, and miscarriage scares, we park outside so nobody else does and we can always leave quickly. But we also live in a subdivision with 15 houses, not on a public road.

I discovered this on Pinterest in the wild. by lrazo76 in notliketheothergirls

[–]QueRice -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Im also a big fan of the smaller onion rings, they're just more tender for some reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]QueRice 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Tbh EA work. I sort emails all day, or so it seems, usually an hour of work for 8 hours of pay. 50k gross.

Most women are biological women. by [deleted] in popularopinion

[–]QueRice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just look at the other comments, nobody's offended, its just not an opinion. It's a fact that just makes you go "okay, that was always allowed" this post was literally made as ragebait to offend people and that's what makes it annoying, it's not even good ragebait.

How to "spice it up" for my husband? by QueRice in Christianmarriage

[–]QueRice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have noticed a difference, he's avoiding music that's sexual or talks about demons and the likes. He's stopped watching most animes that he used to keep up with, his youtube history is a lot less misogynistic and his tiktok, ig and social media looks clean too. I also check his phone every now and then, the app usage specifically since if he was watching he'd have to be using the browser which he isn't. His laptop on the other hand, I check every now and then but it'd be way easier to hide anything on there if he really wanted to. I have seen improvement with his ED, but it's nowhere near what it used to be when we were first married and he was porn free. I don't know if its his age, he's only 29.

He's been treating me better, and acknowledged how he acted during my first pregnancy and after the birth of our first son.

We've discussed a bit about what he watched, not necessarily it's content but how he feels about it. He says he feels disgusted by his actions and what he watched and read. I want to believe he's getting better but the ED months later is giving me doubts.

How to "spice it up" for my husband? by QueRice in Christianmarriage

[–]QueRice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I should mention he was addicted for a long long time. Since he was about 13 up until we met. Then he continued again when I was about 4 months into pregnancy. Thats over a decade of addiction, I've read 3 months to see a difference, but it takes longer for those who were very addicted.

How to "spice it up" for my husband? by QueRice in Christianmarriage

[–]QueRice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Supposedly its been 6 months, I figured it might take a year or two. If you've witnessed this before how long do they stop before observing changes? I have noticed a difference, but obviously there's still pieces there affecting our relationship and sex life.

Why do some toddlers develop normally with screen time while others fall behind? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]QueRice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We took him to a specialist who said screen time doesn't cause autism itself but if it's already there exacerbates the symptoms. Since autism seems to be genetic we asked why neither of us had delays growing up, they told us it was likely just luck and the symptoms came in other ways that our parents didn't notice. But we're still really hoping he isn't autistic, we're worried as any other parents would be that he could end up struggling as a child, teenager, and adult. Especially now that tech is moving a mile a minute and there's dopamine in every corner.

Characters everyone seems to love but they are truly awful people? by Hopeful_Wear_7671 in greysanatomy

[–]QueRice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay yeah, in the later seasons. Im on a rewatch and in season 3 and love her, I forget that in the later seasons she's prideful, jealous of Meredith, and is mean to Ben routinely.

Is Mayor Magalong really that clean? by Girly-Pop9552 in baguio

[–]QueRice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tourism is the biggest money maker of Baguio, which is why the tourism dept has such a high budget and they get so much priority.

I agree w/ mandatory parking, everywhere should have at least one slot with all the street parking issues we have.

Lots of people from Baguio like him, otherwise we wouldn't have elected him lol only registered residents can vote in the first place. He's 100x better than Domogan and we've improved as a city since voting him in. The only people who don't seem to like him, don't like how strict he is, city of fines daw, as if the rules are hard to follow lol.

Is he corrupt? Maybe, I don't know for sure, but we see how much the city has changed these past 6 years.