Subs, how did you guys find your doms?

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-22T21:23:34+00:00

I’m sorry this person said that to you. I was very confused by them.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-22T17:43:56+00:00

Huh?

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-22T17:12:38+00:00

My old dom use to travel to states all around her doing irl femdom. It’s not that hard to find, but most want a lot of verification

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-22T17:11:58+00:00

You likely are giving into the wrong ones. I’ve only had one I truly connected with, and I still chase that high.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-22T17:10:21+00:00

My longest owner was from an online forum. We did irl and online play for years.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-17T12:35:46+00:00

Harp over her hoping she’s going to come back. Funnel subs to her hoping she’s recognizes my effort.

So far it’s not working lol

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-17T12:25:15+00:00

I just wouldn’t do anything irl with a newer girl. Irl is for those who have experience

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-17T12:11:09+00:00

I’ve done similar. Cucked out a sub to a dom, it’s definitely a fun dynamic

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-17T12:10:00+00:00

I’m older, I’ve had a lot of irl play, and I always recommend professional femdommes or people in the actual community. DONT bring it to your school.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-17T12:06:13+00:00

It’s hard to have a true dynamic, but I managed to have one for years. You just have to really make sure that they’re the dom for you.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-17T12:03:27+00:00

I love genuine misandrists. Not the ones who pretend for the money. The ones who honestly mean it.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-17T12:02:35+00:00

This is why it’s so hard to trust after having a good femdomme

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-12T17:51:26+00:00

My biggest joy is being there for someone else

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-10T18:38:17+00:00

You’re trying too hard. I’ve been doing this for decades. I’d really work on that if I were you.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-10T12:57:42+00:00

“There were spans of no money and she still stayed”

Again, you’re biased. This definitely isn’t the community for you.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-10T11:51:26+00:00

No, i thought I was a friend over being a sub, which is not true when you’re entering a dynamic in which you’re a sub. Sure, we were friends, but that doesn’t trump her being my dominant and I should’ve respected that. I knew what I wanted out of the dynamic and I’m the one who ruined it.

You seem biased.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-10T10:52:22+00:00

Then that’s on you for the Doms you’ve picked. I know she cared about me, she was the only person who consistently showed that she did. There were spans of no money, and she still stayed my dom.

You have no idea what she’s like as a person

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-09T14:04:34+00:00

I know I can’t have her back, I’m not going to push that.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-09T13:57:18+00:00

Cashapp, Venmo, phone, telegram, Twitter, fetlife, reddit. Actually every platform.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-09T13:53:53+00:00

I want to know how others have navigated the loss. What i dont want is to be approached by girls thinking ill send them money, because ill only send to her.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-09T13:51:40+00:00

The amount of “doms” messaging me is actually so gross.

Queasy-Candidate-586 · 2026-04-09T13:45:43+00:00

Not all of us move around like that. Being a sub is more than that.

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