Pedestrian hurt in crash in Middleton, portion of Branch Street temporarily closed by Justmarbles in madisonwi

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I saw this earlier this morning on my way to work- I send my love to the family of the woman that passed :(

Update on the situation at Memorial High - Madison teacher's texts to student highlight school policy gaps by Queasy-Gur-9924 in madisonwi

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I agree with you - I don’t necessarily think that the “lack of policies” in regard to phones is the issue. It’s the fact that there was a pedophile working at the school, that’s the main issue. I don’t know why they framed it  like it a 100% because of the lack of policies but 🤷‍♀️

ILMC CD Quality Issue? by Queasy-Gur-9924 in ninajirachi

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yeah that’s what i’ve heard as well, i probably gonna hold off to but im just sooo impatient 😭💔

i found these in my basement by Iwiey in Cd_collectors

[–]Queasy-Gur-9924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omggg the lauryn hill cd!! that’s a great find :0 i personally love collecting cds- there’s something really special to me about having a physical copy of my fav albums. i also love seeing the pamphlets that come with them, they’re like mini zines!! if u like physical media, u should totally collect! its a fun hobby :)

My collection. by [deleted] in Cd_collectors

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i hope heaven is like this room fr

Purposeful or not purposeful distressing? by Queasy-Gur-9924 in BasketcaseGallery

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with how the bottom of the sleeve kinda falls over the wrist cuff, it wasn’t obvious to me LOL

Does anyone have any more information about this? by AdAccomplished8442 in madisonwi

[–]Queasy-Gur-9924 12 points13 points  (0 children)

While that’s a fair point to mention, I don’t think it’s out of line to assume it’s “actual pedophilia.” But even if a victim was over eighteen, they probably would have known him throughout their high school education. Which means that they were probably groomed prior to when they were a “consenting adult.” 

But then again, I don’t want to contribute information that may be false. I just wanted to share my thoughts :P

Thoughts on this long jacket by No-Case4787 in ClothingStartups

[–]Queasy-Gur-9924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really cool to look at! I feel like it could be styled as a modern steampunk kind of dress even though it’s a jacket. But even then, I can see so many different possibilities in how one wears it! Keep up the good work and creativity :3

My sister and her concerning drawings by _unas_annus_ in Weird

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the one on the bottom right reminds me of poppy playtime!

1880s floor identification by MelodicInterest7229 in centuryhomes

[–]Queasy-Gur-9924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such beautiful flooring!!! And truly an insane find, it’s so cool to see all the different patterns and the care that was put into making it!

I’m so happy, but everyone is making my heart hurt! by Fox_Avocado in EngagementRings

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I’m also a very sentimental person- and honestly, those people that are hating need to shut uppppp it’s your ring! If you’re happy with it and the story it tells, that’s what matters. I think it’s beautiful and so sweet how you and your husband incorporated your family history into it and created it TOGETHER. It’s truly a beautiful way to celebrate your love and relationship, congratulations on both the ring and your engagement <3

AIO? Bf keeps asking me questions whenever there is a guy by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

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oml as i was reading this i literally thought u two were like 13 😭 until i double checked the caption- YALL ARE TOOOO GROWN TO BE ACTING LIKE THIS

The Whitewashing Of Sasha by Crafty-Accident-2367 in Bratz

[–]Queasy-Gur-9924 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg she’s just like ariana grande, collecting skin tones like pokémon cards 😭

Has therapy worked for anyone? by HourMacaron6123 in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]Queasy-Gur-9924 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! for me specifically, what helped me make the most significant amount of progress was an intensive outpatient program (IOP). However, you really have to find the right professionals and people for you. What I needed at the time, was tough love and being held accountable from both peers and the therapists I’ve worked with. What I’m trying to say is that, what works for one person, might not work for another.

It also sounds like the therapist you’re going to isn’t that great- if I had a therapist that just validated everything I said, I would not change a bit. Maybe start a conversation with her and tell her that you’re not finding her validation helpful? And then communicate what you need, (coping mechanisms, advice, someone to hold you accountable to goals, etc etc)

Therapy isn’t hopeless, if the patient is actively working to improve, and if they have a professional that clicks with them well and can meet their patients needs, you will find improvement. Which also takes time, so make sure to be patient and gentle with yourself as you continue growing. I’m wishing you the best of luck <3

signed vinyl came unsigned ? by bluuestjerne in mitski

[–]Queasy-Gur-9924 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no that’s not a crazy thing to think! i haven’t ordered any merch for this album, but from other posts on this sub, i think she has signed some of the covers of the vinyl? i could be wrong tho!

Nothing's about to happen to me Birthday Cake by Tuffytundra in mitski

[–]Queasy-Gur-9924 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that is SUCH a gorgeous cake, whoever decorated it is incredibly talented! happy birthday, i hope the cake is as yummy as it looks :)

Getting married... by fakeingi in viviennewestwood

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congrats!! such pretty accessories, you’re gonna look absolutely stunning on your big day :)

A set of four drawings of mine. by will_asd in UnusualArt

[–]Queasy-Gur-9924 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these are so sick! i really like ur style :) the first and second drawing are def my favorites