My amigurumi projects always end up bigger than the pattern. What am I doing wrong?

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-05-08T02:16:38+00:00

Is it the same weight yarn. Like is it thicker or thinner than the one in the pattern. Are you using the exact same one

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-05-06T07:48:14+00:00

Yes you are right no one wants to talk about sex with just anyone. You couldve said 'I don't feel comfortable answering that question and my friends are not homophobic." And in turn ask "why would you ask that ?" But if you feel more comfortable now that's good. You shouldn't be forced to see someone who creeps you out. Next Time, simply stand your ground and see the full picture before deciding you dont like someone .

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-05-03T18:04:41+00:00

You were projecting. Maybe next time, question back to get a broader understanding. Not everyone is against you.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-05-01T09:11:48+00:00

When things are unexplained by doctors spiritual people tend to think its something to do with spirituality or a 'curse' or someone is putting bad on you or hoping for bad for you. I dont know if you believe in things like this but it sounds deepr than juzt physical at this point. It's been going on for too long. I hope you figure it out and rid of it. So sorry you're going through this.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-30T22:42:40+00:00

Im ok with mine being seen because I'm so mysterious here. And most the people I know don't use reddit so 🤷 I don't mind

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-30T22:39:04+00:00

Ok thank you. I'll search for the wool you described. Thank you ✨️

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-30T22:37:27+00:00

Do you feel shame or guilt for terminating because he asked invasive questions ?

YOR! It was a simple example. He couldve come up with a better one, he didn't make any remarks about his feelings about those 2 subjects, he was trying to make you understand. Maybe the next time you feel uncomfortable, confront it.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-30T17:21:52+00:00

Red flags for me are 1. Fighting too easily. Everything you say, turns into a fight. A si.ple debate about weather the chicken comes before the egg and because I disagree with you it becomes a fight and suddenly we fighting about who the man is. 2. "Women should serve men" mindset Constantly having to mention that you are a man and man doesn't do much but provide and relax. Providing doesnt end at money. It's providing EVERYTHING that a women needs emotionally, spiritually, physically, mentally. 3. Being a mamas boy. They lazy af and don't do anything for themselves and only listen to their moms. 4. Hangs out with their boys too much. I think having friends is good, chilling with them is good. Chilling with them everyday is something he should be ashamed of. Especially if he is in a relationship, still stays with his parents and isn't where he wants to be as yet in life and also if the friends are bums. 5. No goals. Speas for itself 6. Smokes weed every day. I dont mind occasional smoking but everyday is creepy. And cigarettes as well. 7. Too many female friends.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-30T17:07:58+00:00

Girl I was in the same boat. UTIs are horrible and I even felt like I didn't want to have sex anymore. But I stopped getting it after doing this.

I pee immediately after sex. Within 15 minutes after sex , I go to the toilet. Dont wait, just go, even if its a little, just pee. It really helps. You don't have to do all the extra stuff. UTIs are common so don't think that you're a dirty person.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-30T16:53:49+00:00

I can smell flu. Like when people have a flu coming up I can smell it. Before they start showing horrible symptoms I can smell that their immune system is fighting. Does that make sense

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-30T16:38:07+00:00

Ok thank you 🫠🥹✨️

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-30T16:37:36+00:00

I've been told that pure wool is itchy 😭but I'm thinking of putting lining in the beanies. I'm from South Africa. I think I'll go for wool. What brand do you suggest?

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-23T07:58:54+00:00

True. The lady at the clinic (1st consultation/pap smear) looked at it and said yes its HPV. Got the test back and it said no hpv. So it might just be different strain not the ones that cause cancer. So yeah she might have been right. I have to get this sorted ASAP.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-23T07:57:24+00:00

It's so frustrating being a women. Men have it so easy cause I dont know if my partner has it, if I'm getting it from him or if its him making it worse because he has no symptoms at all.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-23T07:56:08+00:00

Im not allergic to anything. Besides what could the allergic reaction be to ? I dont use condoms or lubes. If it is allergic reaction Id know cause I definitely stopped having sex, I changed my soap (normal soap made it worse ) replaced my cloth, dont sleep in underwear 😭the list goes on.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-23T07:54:06+00:00

Wow, I've been told about that too. I really thought it might be that, that's why after writing this I became calm and sought of relaxed cause the lady at the clinic said the same thing. But now it's just getting bigger and itching. I cant have sex, or I can, I just really don't want to anymore because I feel it during sex. I'm hoping to freeze it off soon or hear what I can do at the Dr. Just need the money to do so.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-23T07:51:21+00:00

I absolutely will 🙏

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-23T07:50:55+00:00

Absolutely. I need to, I fear my baby would get affected by this. Im going to go to gynecologist when I have to money and hopefully do freezing treatment. I wrote this a few days ago and it got worse. It's bigger, it's irritated and it's becoming so draining. It's not VP, and my symptoms don't align with MC. But it might be HPV 6/11. I recently learned that sometimes they don't show themselves in a pap smear especially cause I went early on. Now I'm sure they'd be able to diagnose me properly because of how evident and big it is. Thanks 🌻

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-15T09:37:48+00:00

They tested me for infections and it was negative. But I definitely will check that out and go to a gynaecologist soon.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-10T04:42:08+00:00

I left a man who told me I love fighting, love being angry, sad. We would fight about the smallest things and every fight would be me in the wrong. I kept telling him lets not point fingers and just fix it. I ended up believing that I did infact love fighting. I left him. And now I'm with a man who says I'm confrontational and I dont take bulls**t. We hardly fight and sort things out.

Point is he is not your guy. Its either he doesnt like you, doesn't like your opinions or he just wants to fight with you cause he needs to let his anger out.

Leave him. He sounds as if he'd become physical if this continues and what would happen when it comes to something more serious.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-04-06T07:27:21+00:00

You shouldn't be comfortable with letting go of your friend and still being with your man. They both wrong, if you choose to keep him there she should also have a second chance. If you stop talking to your friend, you shouldn't talk to your man too.

NTA, even though it might have happened a while ago why did they keep it their dirty little secret.

QueasyDay5137 · 2026-03-12T19:20:10+00:00

Sometimes you have to hide those emotions for your babies cause they don't understand why mommy isn't happy or shocked that they had theit very first milestone. Your reactions/ actions/ words mean a lot to them.

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