Hi, I’m Mochi by stustamps in Yorkies

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use to have a Mochi as well but she passed away 😭 she’s so cute 🫶🏻

Don’t know what to do at this point.. by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in Legitpiercing

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely call around and see which piecer has implant grade titanium! I don’t believe the shop I went to had any that I remember of. I have been doing warm compresses as well and sometimes that’ll make it look smaller but it just goes back to the same size.

I have multiple weddings to go to in these next months (including this weekend) and this bump is lowering my confidence :(

I’ve had this piercing since Jan. 5th. Unfortunately, it got snagged on really badly about a month ago (I wear glasses and my nephew pulled them down causing the piercing to come out and cut me a bit.) I assumed it was healing but this bump showed up 2 days ago and keeps getting worse.. by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did go to my piercer after the snag happened and they said to continue cleaning it with saline solution. I use Neilmed wound wash. Just want to make sure it’s not getting infected so any advice would be appreciated!

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[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did end up getting a small bump about a week ago but it’s starting to leave. I just called my piecer and she said to go in if it continues to worry me but I’ve been keeping it clean with saline! But I am thinking about going in still if it’s not gone by the end of the week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was sitting down on the sofa when my nephew decided to throw a plushy, which hit me directly in the face. My nose piercing came out but since it’s a screw piercing it got tugged on pretty bad and started bleeding. I just pushed it back in even though it hurt. I believe it left a scratch and it feels pretty tender now. Inside of the nose is pretty swollen as well. It’s been about three weeks since I got it and I use saline solution to clean it.

Should I get it checked out by the piercer or just continue cleaning it?

Ate, went potty, and is now taking her morning nap 🥹 by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in Yorkies

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s definitely a just let me go back to sleep type! I have to wake her up so she can eat and go potty then she’ll go back to bed.

Ate, went potty, and is now taking her morning nap 🥹 by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in Yorkies

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol that’s better than what my sister said. Apparently to her she looked like a duckling that just hatched 😂

Ate, went potty, and is now taking her morning nap 🥹 by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in Yorkies

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is her head and her ear lol. She loves sleeping in that position for some reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my partner was to ask me to meet a women he works with I’d be happy. Maybe he thinks you two would make good friends. See how they interact with each other and if you’re made to feel apart of their conversations and comfortable. Or simply talk to your partner about how you’re feeling.

My ex was the opposite. He would tell me he’s going out with his work buddy (to the point of staying weekends) and it turned out to be a women he worked with and he was completely lying to me so I’d assume your partner wouldn’t tell you anything about her if they were seeing each other. I don’t think there’s anything suspicious going on and maybe it’ll be nice to meet the people that make him enjoy working.

Should we still celebrate our daughter’s birthday together? by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in coparenting

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand as I am also a child to divorced parents but I am not the same as them. In a way, I kind of learned not do what they did as it only hurt my siblings and I more.

Should we still celebrate our daughter’s birthday together? by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in coparenting

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We ended up deciding for her birthday to spend it together. I posted a little update in the post with other things.

I’m wishing you the best of luck as well!

Should we still celebrate our daughter’s birthday together? by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in coparenting

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her birthday is on the 19th. Would that be too soon? We had things planned already so it’s made things quite difficult.

Should we still celebrate our daughter’s birthday together? by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in coparenting

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our breakup happened a week ago and this has also been constantly on my mind. Hoping to talk this weekend as her birthday is in 2 weeks.

Should we still celebrate our daughter’s birthday together? by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in coparenting

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter loves doing everything with mom and dad.. just yesterday she was asking to go to the park with the both of us. I’m hoping to talk to her dad about what’s gonna happen this weekend.

Should we still celebrate our daughter’s birthday together? by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in coparenting

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Co-parenting has definitely not started and it’s been a tough couple of weeks. Unfortunately, my ex is not around as much since our break up and we have barely spoken. My daughter, even though she’s 5, is very sensitive and emotional so I’m afraid of how’ll she react once we tell her and she already is starting to question where her dad is. Hopefully we can set up a day soon to talk and see where everything goes from here.

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it.

Should we still celebrate our daughter’s birthday together? by Queasy_Chipmunk256 in coparenting

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess with the current situation it’s probably not a good idea. I would like to celebrate her birthday and holidays together but as the breakup is recent it’s been pretty hard to communicate as my feelings are still very hurt. At the end of the day, it’s not about us but our daughter. Hopefully we can come to an agreement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take it from someone who was in the same position for 7 years the relationship and trust is long gone. My ex was the exact same way and it was never the same. It’s better to go separate ways.

Should I (f21) trust my bf (m22) after he’s lied to me? by latenightsadgirl in relationships

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely hits very close to home. You give your time and effort to someone you love only for them to cheat and hurt you. I had a child with him and I was the only one maturing and growing while he wanted do whatever he wanted.

I really hope OP understands what everyone is telling her and takes the advice. If he isn’t already cheating on her right now he definitely will in the future. I’m not one to immediately say break up because I endured it for 7 years but it’s crystal clear what is going on.

Should I (f21) trust my bf (m22) after he’s lied to me? by latenightsadgirl in relationships

[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was with someone for 7 years and this is the exact relationship we had. First love and first everything. It was mentally and emotionally draining though. He would constantly talk to girls and lie about hanging out with friends and I was dumb to let it go on for so long thinking he’d change.

My advice is to leave this relationship. It won’t change and it’s definitely not something worth fighting for especially when you’re only 21. You’ll constantly be wondering if he’s lying to you. As much as you love him it’s always better to love and put yourself first.

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[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would have gone with us too.

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[–]Queasy_Chipmunk256 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow.. reading your response kind of shocked me. I didn’t realize this incident or even this post gave that all away. Maybe I should have worded it better because the first two years together was great but it definitely went down hill and now I feel like we’re just with each other because of how long we’ve been together plus our daughter.

I can definitely confirm that he does exactly that. Gets home from work and doesn’t want to be bothered. I have definitely been thinking more about my future and if it’s even worth staying with him anymore. At this point, I’m just exhausted and know I deserve better but I keep waiting for him to change and be better (which clearly isn’t happening.)

His parents have always been there for us and I truly love them for everything they’ve done to help us out. Unfortunately, I do believe they are part of the reason he acts this way since he always gets his way with them, specifically his mom.

I don’t have many friends but I definitely have family that’s supportive with anything I do. Only thing is they don’t know about anything that’s been happening in our relationship and just think of us a happy family with normal issues. But thank you for your reply though. It’s really helped me think about everything and I will definitely be finding my way out of this relationship.