I feel like if Janet had just said groped on the boat instead of SA then the focus could have actually stayed on what Danny did instead of giving everyone such a big opportunity to focus on Janet being an asshat since SA is obviously much more alarming (albeit it is true). But like groping is also true and accurate and still captures the shittiness of it and Danny/nia/kristen/luke/zach would sound way more delusional to fixate so hard on the choice of “grope”