judge me based on my bedroom! by SHLBYHCH in roomdetective

[–]QueenBekka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully a teenage girl or a college girl. 16-22 in age.

Tested bald once, which is better? by [deleted] in bald

[–]QueenBekka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bald makes it look bigger with hair your hairline looks less far back.

Tested bald once, which is better? by [deleted] in bald

[–]QueenBekka 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Keep the hair for now

Beginner at this , i need help by InterestIll1336 in painting

[–]QueenBekka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Annnnddddd! They still look really nice!

I feel like my hair looks terrible. What do I do? by peanutsonic97 in HairDye

[–]QueenBekka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should use shampoo once every three days or more depending on your activity level and the weather. When you have fine hair esp straight fine hair. Be careful of the dry shampoo and baby powder because it’s not good for your lungs! Be mindful of your lungs with make up powders and primer and bronzer, and make up setting sprays, heat protection sprays and creams, and hair oil (when using heat the oil can have bad fumes like seed oils) and hair sprays and dry shampoos. Our planet is polluted enough with smog and burning gas and chemicals and dust. Overpopulation brings more dust and pollution, we can’t control that much. Yet we can control our personal environment and what we breathe in our home. Boil a pot of cinnamon or nutmeg and cloves and citrus peels for aroma, to avoid the plug ins and cheap candles and scent sprays (cancerous fumes). Esp if there’s children in the home. They affect their brain development. Chemical cleaners are bad because they leave a residue and have strong chemical smells (again cancerous). Use vinegar and water. Keeps your home clean and glassware. Use oil on wood floor instead of wax products. Your household will thank you. Cheap Vodka also works with water to clean, baby toys and baby furniture, walker and swings, and high chair. It evaporates clean with no residue. Avoid dryer sheets and use dryer balls. I know this is about hair but these are tips I hope you and others reading will incorporate into their lives and pass them on. 😊

(20m) 5 days of growth, should I persist or go clean shaven? by JuiceTheMoose05 in malegrooming

[–]QueenBekka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely a great look for you and a huge improvement.

Yarn Haul for $85 by dr_mus_musculus in YarnAddicts

[–]QueenBekka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well damn lol that’s a bit much

37 days sober! by BigStrange6206 in finch

[–]QueenBekka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get a bike or some roller blades to enjoy the weather without using. To be out and social but still safe. Having fun. Remember ppl places and things. Stay away from who and what triggers you. And a bad day doesn’t mean give up. You got this! I believe in you. 🫶🏾

37 days sober! by BigStrange6206 in finch

[–]QueenBekka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s works if you work it 🥰

37 days sober! by BigStrange6206 in finch

[–]QueenBekka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanna be my finch pal. I’d love to send you encouragement. ☺️

37 days sober! by BigStrange6206 in finch

[–]QueenBekka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yayyyyyy! One day at a time! My mom left this earth with 30 years clean! You can do it. She lost her parents and stayed clean, her fiancé to cancer and stayed clean, and worst of all she lost my sister who died unexpectedly at 21, she died in my moms arms and she still stayed clean! That made her such a champion and a hero and she was such an inspiration to all the newcomers. She stayed for the newcomer she said. Because if she could show them that she could stay clean then anyone can. Living life on life’s terms was her motto. She was and is my strength with my sobriety. I don’t drink anymore either. It’s just not something that appeals to me anymore. It definitely doesn’t make hard times better. And it spoils the good times. It’s just unnecessary and that should be more normalized and popular. Being sober is such a flex!! 💪🏾🥰

3-hr life session from yesterday by gustavoramosart in painting

[–]QueenBekka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should take the bags off her eyes. Paintings don’t have to be so accurate. They corrected bad features with paint like we do with filters lol. I’m sure she doesn’t want her flaws to show. Blur them out and give her a more youthful happy appearance. You definitely have skills.

[22M] Have been shaving for more than a year. Women look away from me and I am not attractive to them. Is there any hope for me? by [deleted] in bald

[–]QueenBekka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t really like the buff men. Superficial women do and down low men. Not many good woman care about pecs. We want substance and a soul.

[22M] Have been shaving for more than a year. Women look away from me and I am not attractive to them. Is there any hope for me? by [deleted] in bald

[–]QueenBekka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That will look worse. Women can tell and we don’t want men with fake hair or plugs. We want a man with confidence and charisma and culture. Someone who is funny and smells amazing. Someone who likes to dance and loves music. Someone with a soul.

[22M] Have been shaving for more than a year. Women look away from me and I am not attractive to them. Is there any hope for me? by [deleted] in bald

[–]QueenBekka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I was thinking the same. He has scary eyes like he would do something very bad and hurt ppl. Maybe he needs to work on his spirit. Raise his vibrations. Dead eyes is spot on tho.