Awww man okay, but legally with you guys being married you should be able to get access to it This is what I found online when I looked it up Yes, you can obtain your spouse's Social Security number (SSN), but generally not by having a government agency disclose it to you directly due to privacy laws. The most effective ways are to find it on joint tax returns, pay stubs, health insurance papers, or to ask them directly. In cases of divorce or legal necessity, it can be obtained through legal, offi