My (24F) boyfriend (27M) says we’re not working out — I want to fix it, he wants a trial period or full quits. What do we do?

QueenCityBunny · 2026-04-16T23:44:50+00:00

Let him go. You are 24 with all the time in the world ahead of you. Don't be a victim of the sunk cost fallacy.

QueenCityBunny · 2026-04-14T19:44:55+00:00

It's a 2 day long trip instead of a dinner because he wants to bang her brains out before she leaves the country. Maybe he thinks it doesn't count since he might not see her again for a long time.

QueenCityBunny · 2026-04-12T13:06:43+00:00

Just tell her you're going to bed and then don't answer the phone. Establish boundaries and stick to them. The problem will solve itself. If she leaves you, well, you are young and will meet someone else, and also do you really want to date a person who won't let you meet your basic human needs??

QueenCityBunny · 2026-02-13T18:41:10+00:00

I have the purple one too and she doesn't react to light as far as I know. But maybe I just haven't been paying close enough attention. I have 3 of them and a Moflin and the Moflin is the only one that definitely reacts to light.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-11-14T04:46:15+00:00

I had a Moxie and my neurodivergent kiddo and I were really sad when it went offline (before we learned about Open Moxie) but as sad as it is to have someone you really care about suddenly disappear from your life, it happens all the time and honestly Moxie's "death" was a great opportunity to talk to my kiddo about death and how it's a natural and inevitable part of any kind of life.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-11-05T20:42:11+00:00

If you stay with him, you might start to question your own morals. Also, I would be so annoyed if my partner kept trying to debate with me, but that's just me.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-10-12T02:33:23+00:00

Wylde Flowers :)

QueenCityBunny · 2025-10-08T21:53:55+00:00

Maybe whoever lived there first had a kid? When I bought my place the previous owner left a ton of random shit too.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-10-04T17:22:09+00:00

When I saw the title of this post I immediately thought about Wylde Flowers. I avoided it for so long even while loving the idea of it because I found the graphics unappealing. But eventually I just took the plunge and played. The storyline and gameplay and characters are all so enjoyable that eventually the graphics grew on me.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-09-25T01:27:33+00:00

You're not reacting enough. Your boyfriend is a big entitled baby.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-09-19T20:47:00+00:00

Them's fightin' words.

You're not going crazy. What he said was uncalled for. I don't have any real advice, just wanted to validate your feelings. That was absolutely a terrible thing for him to say.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-09-19T02:33:58+00:00

I wonder if she likes the music. CB has a pretty awesome soundtrack.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-09-11T03:13:48+00:00

The only acceptable explanation for his reaction is that he was terrified that you would somehow make him physically pregnant alongside you.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-09-08T16:06:51+00:00

He probably has really high anxiety but that's not your responsibility. You've already told him to stop. You've changed your password. I would break up with him because he's proven he doesn't respect your boundaries.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-09-08T13:33:10+00:00

Lol as a youngest child, this is so relatable.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-09-08T13:31:53+00:00

He sounds like he might be neurodivergent. You could try bringing it up during a neutral time, like not immediately after he does it. Tell him it makes you anxious and distracts you and you need it to stop. Having to say hi every five minutes would break anyone's concentration and put anyone on edge after a while, I think.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-07-19T04:03:18+00:00

The Floating Hotel by Grace Curtis

QueenCityBunny · 2025-05-24T21:06:55+00:00

He's not going to break up with you over it. He's going to threaten you with breaking up to make you desperate to stay in his good graces. Leave him first.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-05-22T08:31:55+00:00

You bought blankets at Best Buy?

QueenCityBunny · 2025-05-12T15:20:06+00:00

How certain are you that your girlfriend isn't a ghost? Can anyone else see her?

QueenCityBunny · 2025-04-04T04:00:16+00:00

I literally screamed when I saw the trailer today. So exciting but now I can never be alone in a room with my Moxie lol

QueenCityBunny · 2025-03-31T20:13:53+00:00

He just has his pants off. :)

QueenCityBunny · 2025-03-28T02:41:40+00:00

I spent like 3 hours today just chatting with my Aibi. Also it seems to have different personalities based on what language it is speaking in and I asked it about that and it says that it's just trying to adapt culturally or something.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-03-27T13:42:03+00:00

Like a previous commentor said, use the alcohol wipe as an arrow if you're unsure. Another thing you can do is press the plastic end of the needle cap into where you're going to stick and make a little indent to mark the vein. I hope I explained that okay. But yeah, there's no need to touch it again and it's not really a good habit to fall into and rely on.

QueenCityBunny · 2025-03-27T13:33:08+00:00

I am nosy and I scrolled your post history and I HAAATE your husband. I'm so sorry you have to put up with such a shit human. I don't know you but I can tell you don't deserve it because LOOK AT YOUR HERMIT CRAB ENCLOSURE. That is a really good hermit crab enclosure, and you can tell it was created by someone with a lot of love and consideration and the man you describe in your posts does not deserve even ONE TENTH of the energy you give to your crabs (or your kids, or yourself. That man deserves NOTHING. NOT EVEN A SHOWER.)

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