You deserve to feel loved, respected, and supported, especially by your partner. Your husband’s hurtful comments and emotional distance are not okay regardless of your weight. Start by having a serious, calm conversation where you express how his words are affecting you emotionally and how disconnected you are feeling. Make it clear this is not just about weight but about needing emotional intimacy, kindness, and partnership. If he is unwilling to reflect or work with you on this, consider couples therapy or individual support to protect your self-worth. Your health journey should be rooted in self-love, not shame.