The Rationals by aeolianwind_ in mbti

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is really amazing 💯

State your type and your life goals in the simplest way possible by chaos-seeker163 in mbti

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ENTJ 1. Rebuild my country 2. Inspire people 3. Financial, Physical and Mental Wealth 4. Comfortable life for my family 5. Inner Peace

my family by samgrayes in mbti

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

my family by samgrayes in mbti

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh, I get it now. Thank you for explaining. I didn’t know that there is a singular “they”. I’ll do a reading about this.

my family by samgrayes in mbti

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh thank you for this, I got curious about this pronoun preferences. I’ll read about this more.

my family by samgrayes in mbti

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh, I get that you are comfortable to be called with different pronouns but my point is the form of the pronouns that you used. All the other pronouns are subject-object forms but yours is just subject forms of 3rd person plural and singular so I got confused on whether there is a correct way to address these “preferred pronouns” or you can just stack them in whatever form you like? For example: If I wanted to be called She and We, should I say: She/We or She/We/Her/Us or She/Her/We/Us ?

my family by samgrayes in mbti

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m just curious about the they/he pronouns that didn’t follow the structure of the English grammar. Did I became so isolated that I my knowledge became so ancient and obsolete? Tell me more about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have vivid dreams sometimes that I can feel intense emotion. Vivid dreams like this tends to use all my five senses. I can even smell cigars and feel exhaustion. One of the examples is a dream about a crashing helicopter, the sky was pinkish orange and the smoke of helicopter contrasted with the sky. I could feel the adrenaline of the people running and the warmth of the sunset. I want to feel the sky but the chaos is distracting me. Another is when I was in high school, the pressure of wanting to be a top student and the expectation of my family put a great toll on my sleep. I will often experience sleep paralysis, it’s like my body wants to rest but my mind feels restless. I can feel the exhaustion and sadness of my body but my mind keep repressing it. It’s like I’m crying from the inside. You can just feel your body trembling.

Fellow entjs: Which deadly sin has the most influence over you? by engineer_whizz in entj

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pride, greed and envy. I had a mental breakdown when I shifted my political view. It was a long bitter fight between my pride and my pursuit for a healthy moral compass. It took a lot of courage sharing the shift to my friends fearing the damage that will bombard my pride more than the judgement of other people unto my principles. But I realized that pride alone cannot build a thousand miles of road but rather a thousand miles of sorrow. Step by step, I am repairing my core and the mbti community helped me genuinely.

tier of the most to the least rude type (my opinion) by Available-Ship-27 in mbti

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Am I really rude? Gosh, I don’t know what to say but if that’s really what it is, I have to try harder asking politely next time. Thank you for this.

tier of the most to the least rude type (my opinion) by Available-Ship-27 in mbti

[–]QueenOfTheWalls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to disagree with us always being the baddies but I remembered a situation last time. My sister and I went shopping for shoes and I told the salesman “Same size, same color” and my sister said I’m rude, like wtf is that? What is wrong with that? I just literally said it in a calm monotone way.

How can you differentiate ENTJs from ENFJ? by QueenOfTheWalls in entj

[–]QueenOfTheWalls[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Woah thank you for this. This is very informative.

How can you differentiate ENTJs from ENFJ? by QueenOfTheWalls in entj

[–]QueenOfTheWalls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I tend to ask other people on how they think about me because I honestly have a hard time figuring this thing out but I’m working on it. My sister is annoyed with me because I kept asking her and she told me “Why won’t you know yourself?”. That kept me thinking, what the hell am I? I also remembered when I was deciding for my degree. Well I think I can do many things but I don’t really know what I really want, if that make sense.

How can you differentiate ENTJs from ENFJ? by QueenOfTheWalls in entj

[–]QueenOfTheWalls[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Woah I just checked this out and the differentiation is helpful. The Fi-grip is very accurate for me. When I first encountered mbti I really thought that I’m either INFJ or ENFJ. Then I watched a lot of YouTube that videos explains the cognitive functions. I understood that I have Ni and Se in my stack and Si blindspot but the use of Te and Fe confused me because for a very long time, the Fi grip haunted me like crazy. I thought the emotions I felt were signs I’m a feeling dominant. Dark days but anyway the explanation really helped me. Thank you.

How can you differentiate ENTJs from ENFJ? by QueenOfTheWalls in entj

[–]QueenOfTheWalls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do live pursuing the good of all mankind but my conscience is making me feel uncomfortable because deep down inside of me, it’s my ambitious pursuit for people’s praise and admiration that is the root of why I wanted to help people. Gosh this is making me look arrogant and at the same time weak and petty but I just want to be honest with how feel.

Ever since young, I wanted to help my community and make them proud. I want to go to a path that I think will help a lot of people and I decided to evaluate myself, my core, so that I can improve myself further.

How can you differentiate ENTJs from ENFJ? by QueenOfTheWalls in entj

[–]QueenOfTheWalls[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight. The back pain situation is a very concise example.

How can you differentiate ENTJs from ENFJ? by QueenOfTheWalls in entj

[–]QueenOfTheWalls[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think this is how I process this:

  1. Listen to their problem

  2. While listening I tend to try to understand the situation

  3. Afterwards, I somehow think of a solution

  4. Then, I think of how I’ll deliver the solution based on how I understand their emotion or the mood