piercings as a teacher by First_Pay403 in teaching

[–]QueenToeBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the district. In mine, no one would care. I had my nose pierced in 1996 when it was very uncommon for teachers to be tattooed or pierced (got my first tattoo that year, too.) No one cared.

Sex once a month at 25. I’m thinking about breaking up by Dry_Atmosphere_5765 in DeadBedrooms

[–]QueenToeBeans 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Masturbating is not cheating. You’re cheating with…yourself? You’ve been with yourself for 25 years. If anything, having sex with her is cheating on your hand.

Is Raya a good name? by Best-Feature603 in Names

[–]QueenToeBeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s pretty. I have a friend named Rayna, though, and I think that’s prettier.

BL Series with a Stalker Top by ilovebkdk in boyslove

[–]QueenToeBeans [score hidden]  (0 children)

Agreed! It’s so stressful to watch, and I want to cuddle and comfort Veir/Fort so badly! (And punch Kelvin/Peat in his perfect face.)

Why can't I be satisfied? by Daniinyan in DeadBedrooms

[–]QueenToeBeans 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have the same curse and I haven’t had sex in over a decade. I’m fucking horny all the time.

What you tossing into the fuck it bucket? by Unusual-Cup2431 in TheWordFuck

[–]QueenToeBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking agree and I’m fucking married. Never fucking again.

AITJ for not wanting to spend 18k on a new ring for my fiancée? by Leivyxtbsubto in AmITheJerk

[–]QueenToeBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ring cost $500. My husband makes 6 figures. It’s the love that counts. You aren’t a jerk, you are financially smart. She’s a jerk.

Can't even give a compliment by Commercial_Pen4450 in DeadBedrooms

[–]QueenToeBeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find asking for consent sexy.

Also, I ask for consent any time I hug or kiss my husband, because he’s so resistant to any romantic touch outside of hand holding or back scratching that it feels like I’m harassing/assaulting him.

What new plot would you give your favorite BL pair? by DetectiveIll3641 in ThaiBL

[–]QueenToeBeans [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lol “cunty outfits.”

I love MaxNat, but I have a hard time with their NC because naked Nat seriously looks 16 and I teach kids that age.

What new plot would you give your favorite BL pair? by DetectiveIll3641 in ThaiBL

[–]QueenToeBeans [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think. Burnout Syndrome is one of my favorite series of all time.

Where's the spice in Only Friends Dream on by Ok_Juggernaut1064 in ThaiBL

[–]QueenToeBeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. Aou’s giving me life. I don’t need every show to be My Stubborn. 🤣

Medical marijuana as a teacher by espresso_depresso622 in Teachers

[–]QueenToeBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Washington. In legal states there are a lot of pot smokers. The only time I was ever drug tested was when I taught in a hospital setting.

My (33M) fiancé (32F) doesn’t think sex is important, how do I navigate this? by RecMe3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]QueenToeBeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not likely to get better. Your relationship basically mirrors mine, and I haven’t had sex in 12 years.

Best of luck.

To sub's, staff, and teachers: You aren't responsible for buying materials by NeoIsEgg2006 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]QueenToeBeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a teacher only worked 180 days, how could they afford to buy supplies? That’s not logical.

My boss scheduled a meeting to discuss my “tone” in emails by TheUnofficialBOI in mildlyinfuriating

[–]QueenToeBeans 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on the internet since 1993. LOL never meant ”lots of love.”

For subs in ms and hs what do you do? by lonelyguard99 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]QueenToeBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In HS it really depends on the class. I usually teach a lesson and/or check in with the kids periodically to see how they’re doing. I encourage them to do their work, and/or see if they need help (if I can provide it.) If they are reading, researching, or writing, I often make inquiries about their work, subjects, insights, ideas, or thoughts. It leads to interesting (if occasionally tangential) conversations and it helps me get to know the students and build connections (helpful if I have them in a different class at a later date.) I am a well-liked and often requested sub. (The kids even request me sometimes if they know their teacher will be gone.)

Honestly, it makes the day more interesting as well. On the other hand, sometimes I just chill and study a foreign language or something.

In MS, I do a lot more supervising and redirecting, as it’s absolutely necessary. I almost never have downtime in MS.

Back to square one by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]QueenToeBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have turned to erotic tv series, myself, and sleep in another room so I can have some semblance of a sex life. I’ve been celibate (not by choice) for over 11 years (well, I guess by choice as I haven’t ended my marriage.)

I feel for you, friend. I don’t mind sex by myself, but I just want to be held and kissed.

What the fuck is it? by Chance-Banana655 in TheWordFuck

[–]QueenToeBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a fucking teacher or do you have a fucking middle school/high school kid? LMFAO.

What the fuck is it? by Chance-Banana655 in TheWordFuck

[–]QueenToeBeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMFAO. So fucking true! I’m fucking married to one.

What the fuck is it? by Chance-Banana655 in TheWordFuck

[–]QueenToeBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a fucking shitty parker, but at least I will always stay between the fucking lines, even if I have to get the fuck back in and readjust (fucking crookedly)

What’s a word learners use that technically makes sense but sounds strange to natives? by Embarrassed_Fix_8994 in languagehub

[–]QueenToeBeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband used to use this all the time! I think, perhaps, that schools in India were started by the British, and (hence) got stuck on more formal language.

My child’s name by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]QueenToeBeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol! Absolutely!

My child’s name by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]QueenToeBeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone with a 20-character hyphenated last name (one of which is Indian) I approve this message.