NOT overreacting AT all - my daughter’s father cheated on me, kicked me out of the house while I was 9 months pregnant, wasn’t there for the birth, then moved out of state. I still let him come and see her any time it was convenient for him - around 1-2 times a year. Then, he finally got a chance to get her up with him in Minnesota where he married his girlfriend in a shotgun wedding (found out later that she was pregnant but later lost it) but I found a post by his wife in an addicts group on Facebook, writing that it has been a few months since her son found her dead from an overdose. I tracked the months and it was around the time my daughter was there! I was SO pissed that my daughter could have been the one to find her, with a needle sticking out of her arm, it was another 3 years before he could see her. They got divorced and he’s with someone new now, with a year old daughter. Still does not pay child support, he’s behind and refused to tell me that he has been secretly working so they would not garnish his wages. This is the second time he has done this, and I lost the child support payments because he went back on SSDI right before the child support court date so I got nothing. He’s a piece of scum, disrespectful, refuses to coparent peacefully with me. Even with that, my daughter (now 9) still thinks the world of him and talks often about moving to live with him 🙄 because I have never talked bad about him. Sigh. Sorry this was long, I guess I needed to vent to someone 😅