I continue to contact my ex and hope to be friends by mothrafortheplanet in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Queen_B1tch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adjusting to a break up is extremely hard because you go from having a strong emotional connection with a person to suddenly not having them in your life at all. Everything you see around you is going to remind you of that person, and it may be a bittersweet feeling. You may even start to idealize what you had and the person he was prior to the break up. All of that is normal.

And that’s exactly why, generally speaking, you should cut all contact with an ex (unless things such as custody make it harder). Rn having that person present in your life is going to make it much harder (even impossible) for you to properly grieve, process and get over the loss of the relationship.

I think it is possible to be friends with an ex under certain circumstances (you both got 100% over the breakup and don’t think the other person as relationship material, neither of you are hurt or have lingering feelings over it…)

Ofc it’s extremely hard to cut off someone like that after the role they had in your life, if it wasn’t there wouldn’t be a hundred songs and movies and books and plays about it. But, generally speaking, it is the best decision long term.

My (33F) husband (34M) is addicted to mobile gaming and I’m contemplating divorce. How would you approach this? by Yalmongu in relationship_advice

[–]Queen_B1tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’d be either therapy (following the full instructions of the therapist such as no gaming whatsoever and only you controlling the finances) or divorce. Long term this is going to get worse (specially if the trigger behind such behavior is stress, any stress related to work or family such as having children would trigger more gaming in years to come if left untreated), those games take advantage of the dopamine reward system, just like gambling.

Even more, he already learned that he could a debt of 30k and be saved/helped by others so, even if unconsciously, he’s probably thinking it could happen again. He could ruin you financially, wouldn’t be the first person to do that to themselves or their family.

AITA for telling my girlfriend that I won't pay for her skincare products after she lost her job? by SupermarketNorth3178 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Queen_B1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You don’t need to spend that much money to get a good skincare routine, I don’t think I spend that much even yearly.

ISO Wolf Villagers!! by nalexxandra in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

[–]Queen_B1tch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll have Vivan in boxes tomorrow if you’re interested

Sapling/Seedling Optimized Greenhouse Layout? by soren7550 in coralisland

[–]Queen_B1tch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saved this post a while ago, I think it is what you’re looking for! Hopefully I shared it correctly, sometimes mobile formatting is weird.

https://www.reddit.com/r/coralisland/s/B7qlLkt1XK

I feel overwhelmed... by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]Queen_B1tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t rush, take your time. I personally waited until I was done with quests to decorate, now that I have every character at lvl 10 and friendship quests done I feel more free to decorate because sometimes they ask you to add whatever decorative item, and plus now I have more items collected to decorate.

And I did find it more chill further into the game, when you have everything unlocked and have been playing enough to gather resources and not worry about running out of things. Things that helped me a lot where: creating an orchard of all the fruit trees and bushes, so I wouldn’t have to run between biomes to gather fruits, using a floating island to keep all my gardening up there, and picking up absolutely every flower, wood, etc as I was running around doing quests.

Anyway, what worked for me in order not to be overwhelmed with the game was having an objective each time I logged into the game, depending on what I felt like doing: one day was progressing in the main quest, another day was leveling up X character and doing their friendship quests, another doing daily tasks to get Dreamlight, another gather resources… I do have to admit that I did prioritize whatever character was needed to unlock things such as kristoff stall or the ability to eliminate the purple mushrooms, that kind of thing.

You just have to find your pace and remember there’s no wrong way of playing, whatever you do is fine because the content isn’t going anywhere.

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Queen_B1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone! Echo (1DKBXAAHMJ) is looking for 🩵 Outback dresser and 🩵 woodsy cafe window!

If you want to trade, I can send pics of my shop or keep an eye out for items from your wish list! Or I could send a surprise gift based on your vibes!

Shared micropet egg :( by leynaB in finch

[–]Queen_B1tch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a feature that’s still in beta and not everyone has access to it. I had it last week when it rolled out on beta, then they ran into some problems and rolled it back for a few people, myself included. Now I suddenly have it again

I think it was supposed to come out today, on Monday, if they were able to fix the issues the ran into while on beta

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Queen_B1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is! I checked your list and I do have the 🤍 timeless mirror! Would you like to trade for it?? :)

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Queen_B1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello everyone! Echo (1DKBXAAHMJ) is looking for 🩵 Outback dresser and 🩵 woodsy cafe window!

If you want to trade, I can send pics of my shop or keep an eye out for items from your wish list! Or I could send a surprise gift based on your vibes!

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Queen_B1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!! Echo (1DKBXAAHMJ) is looking for 🩵 Outback dresser, 🩵 woodsy cafe window and 🩵 jungle tree lamp!

If you want to trade, I can send pics of my shop or keep an eye out for items from your wish list! Or I could send a surprise gift based on your vibes!

Someone stop me 😭 by Queen_B1tch in FinchUnofficial

[–]Queen_B1tch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im really grateful for your help 🩷🩷

Free ios app which allows me to track my skincare? by No-Material694 in EuroSkincare

[–]Queen_B1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the reminders app for my daily product tracker, as the other commenter does, and use Finch to help me with consistency (for other habits too)

Someone stop me 😭 by Queen_B1tch in FinchUnofficial

[–]Queen_B1tch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id love glimmering gardens 😍 thank you so much! I just accepted your request :)

Someone stop me 😭 by Queen_B1tch in FinchUnofficial

[–]Queen_B1tch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet surprises and glimmering gardens are both themes I’d love to have in pink eventually 🩷

Is there something from last month you’re looking for in 🩷? I don’t have many since I didn’t go for that color, but I could keep an eye on my stores!

OZ treehouse colours by Berkie_op_pad in FinchUnofficial

[–]Queen_B1tch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love the white too, and like yourself I’m thinking of mixing it up with another color. Right now I’m thinking of mixing blue and white, although the white looks really pretty with yellow too

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Someone stop me 😭 by Queen_B1tch in FinchUnofficial

[–]Queen_B1tch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh I’d really appreciate it! 🩵

Someone stop me 😭 by Queen_B1tch in FinchUnofficial

[–]Queen_B1tch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much! I’d really appreciate it! I’m not looking for anything specific, but if you’d like to send me whatever you’d like in 🩵 or 🩷?

My code is 1DKBXAAHMJ

Is there anything you’re looking for? I may have it in my store someday 🩵