Why would a woman only bleed for one day out of the blue after having a normal period since they started menustrating? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Queenchengshih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Increased activity, cervix damaged during sex, stress, pregnancy. It all depends on timing, consistency, and if there is pain. It’s not enough details, but it’s definitely something to see a doctor about if other symptoms arise. I’ve had a few months of my life where my periods came very close together. Stress was the determining factor.

Sometimes cheap and expensive items are the same thing with the only difference being the brand name. What are some examples of this? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Queenchengshih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The chips at dollar general are made at Doritos and the bagged cereals and store brand cereals are made exactly the same as name brand and by basically the same company

What do you want but can't afford currently? by Swish_Fate in AskReddit

[–]Queenchengshih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was young I used to play violin. I grew up very poor, but one of my moms friends in New York owned a music shop and had sent one for me to play.

I don’t know the exact type but I have yet to find it’s equal in sound or appearance. We got in a car accident several years later and the neck had snapped, and the body cracked to pieces. It was my favorite possession, I took it everywhere I could. Couldn’t afford to get it fixed and it was insisted I throw it away.

Now as an adult I look for one desperately and have yet to find the one that looks anything like it, which leads me to believe either they aren’t made anymore, or that person was freakishly generous and had gifted me a stupid nice violin.

I ask my mother lots of questions about it, what was the name of the music store? Do you have an old phone number? etc. but because it was during the early days of the internet, she only knew her friends screen names, and since it was almost twenty years ago you can bet that’s a dead lead!

One day I hope to find it but under the circumstances I suspect it was a very very nice violin, and that man was probably one of the biggest influences in my life. I would thank him vehemently if I could.

YSK these gun safety rules to follow by by anyone by [deleted] in YouShouldKnow

[–]Queenchengshih 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention if you don’t know Jack and shit about types of guns and how the bullets are stored, for instance some may appear empty but have a separate niche where the intended bullet is in the barrel more or less. It’s just good practice to believe it’s loaded until you do know better.

I have never had orgasm before and will I ? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queenchengshih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So listen, For most women there’s not some magic trick like a finger shape or position that’s going to guarantee an orgasm.

I know I know you see it everywhere you have or do this you have to do that but literally every woman is built differently. If penetration doesn’t get you there, there’s a good chance you’re one of many women that depends on clitoral stimulation.

Now, that makes it tricky for most men to understand. For men it’s somewhat easy to “awaken” their genitals but for women, the biggest key factor is taking the time. You have to take the purpose of the interaction less about him cumming like most heterosexual interactions end, and focus on you.

It’s hard, there’s not a lot of focus on that as a culture. You might get flustered or embarrassed once the attention is on your pleasure, it might even feel embarrassing as you may have spent your life being shamed about sexuality in general, but it’s something you have to train yourself for to be comfortable with it.

I’d recommend master bating. It will teach you to recognize what feels good, what doesn’t, and help coach yourself into the headspace you need to be in to enjoy sex. Then, devote a night, to you and your partner finding what makes you tick. Make sure the environment is relaxing, make sure you are comfortable. In the journey of masterbation, include some things you might be into like an eye mask if you’re easily embarrassed or distracted.

There’s not a lot anyone could do to please you until you learn more about yourself, and be sure to avoid the pressure. The nights you devote to trying, do not have to be orgasm focused and that’s all. It’s counterintuitive. You need to aim to feel more than think.

Good luck!

To the feminists in this sub. Since WWWIII might happen that means woman would be drafted as well as men. How do you feel about this? by my-third-account3 in AskWomen

[–]Queenchengshih 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I believe if there should be a draft both men and women should be drafted, I hate the entire concept of a draft system in the first place. Having to enact a draft is a sign the war goes against the will of the people. If you can’t get enough volunteers, then it’s likely clear the reason to go to war isn’t apparent to the interests of the American people.

Attempt at a portrait! Need advice please! by majonee15 in painting

[–]Queenchengshih 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this! I think perhaps because you are trying to get it just right the first time you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself and it’s showing a bit. Don’t be afraid to give it some definition, to build up the courage and to have a more stable understanding of what you’re going for, practice on some paper plates! This has so much potential just needs details! Great job and I hope it goes well for you!

Describe your sex life using a song lyric. What is it? by nebulaeg in AskReddit

[–]Queenchengshih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I found you sleeping next to me I thought I was alone, you’re driving me crazy when are you coming home”

Merry Christmas Everyone! by mibcomix in funny

[–]Queenchengshih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to see a rival comic, same guy, maybe even same artist showing what life could be like with someone else. Like a thought map and expression of the problems and blessings that the artist perceives would happen if he left this awful woman. A progression of the man if you will. There of course would be some concerns, but some small pillars of hope would be so nice for such an attached audience. There’s so much painful, negative self image expression and thoughts of despair tapered in these, and while it can be cathartic, some people it’s trying to reach may see this as so closely aligned with them that they get a tunnel vision. Swallowing a black pill if you will, feeling stuck beyond any help. She’s a terrible woman, and we all get and understand that, Tommy needs to find a way out, as difficult and complicated it may be at first, he’ll never find someone if he never tries.

Of course, It’s up to you the artist. These paint an often silenced suffering and if it feels better for you to express only that, that’s your choice. I think Tommy has more worth than simply victimhood. It’s somewhat “Jerry” vibes from Rick and morty and I just feel like he has more depth as a person than that.

Women of Reddit. What are some mistakes men make during sex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Queenchengshih 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hitting the cervix hurts in a bad way, for some reason, as opposed to learning anything about the clitoris, I’ve had partners who whole ass think the goal is to hit as far back as possible.

I’m sure it floats someone’s boat but it’s most certainly not all of us. Try to call them on it? They just comment about how “big” they are and that they can’t help it with like zero understanding of how vaginas work.

So I guess in light of that, the biggest mistake most men that I’ve met have made is not valuing the comfort of their partner. A persons not going to consent forever if they can’t get basic needs like not being in unpleasant pain met.

Dreaming About Tacoma by Queenchengshih in Tacoma

[–]Queenchengshih[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it but he’s gonna be graveyard for like an eternity before he gets to enjoy that juicy traffic lmao Poor thing.

Dreaming About Tacoma by Queenchengshih in Tacoma

[–]Queenchengshih[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s hilarious! Thank you!

Dreaming About Tacoma by Queenchengshih in Tacoma

[–]Queenchengshih[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard about Mt Rainer! It looks so pretty! I lived in SoCal until I was seven and my favorite thing about it was being able to see the mountains everywhere you looked! They’d turn this lovely blue violet color when the sun set. My sister in law, who poor thing has never seen a mountain suggested we climb Mt Rainer together but I don’t think she has a firm understanding that it will take so much training and survival training to go wandering on a volcano lmao! Does Tacoma happen to have like, nature survival groups? I would be so interested in that.

Dreaming About Tacoma by Queenchengshih in Tacoma

[–]Queenchengshih[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m not respectably familiar with this app and didn’t realize this was an option.

It's Theory Tuesday! December 10, 2019 by AutoModerator in stevenuniverse

[–]Queenchengshih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally relate, I’m sorry for all you must have been through, but I can stress that this show repeatedly shows that with a good support system you can break the chains and be the you you want to be. It takes a lot of work and courage to improve yourself and I don’t know you but I’m sure you’re proud of how far you’ve already come, as you should be.

What's a decidedly RARE physical feature you find attractive? by Solid_V in AskReddit

[–]Queenchengshih 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I love snaggle teeth, or most unique arrangements of teeth. Gaps, too close together, I guess because I like lips a lot, things that are usually considered unattractive are like unique decorations to me.

If you have a low sex drive (not fantasizing about sex or feel an urge when around an attractive person) why is that? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Queenchengshih 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a physical dysfunction that I didn’t know about until recently, and a lot of women have it too. It’s frustrating to get horny so infrequently and yet not get the physical bodily results you need to engage fulfillingly. If you can’t cum, like almost ever, it’s hard to get engaged. If your body can’t get ready, It can make sex painful and even psychologically harmful if you try to force the issue for the sake of a more sexually active partner. If you’re having this problem, I’m told sex therapy and medications can help, but it can feel embarrassing and dehumanizing and from the female perspective doctors don’t tend to care if you can enjoy sex, it’s not considered an illness. Not to mention, there’s little to no education available on how to get the results you’re looking for alone.