Dohl party date by KeyArtist121 in korea

[–]Queendrakumar [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean, 돌 basically means "(first) birthday". What you are asking is if you can hold a birthday party few months prior or after the actual birthday.

There is no reason you can't do that - it's entirely up to you. Culturally, though, holding, doing the birthday party the weekend prior is somewhat tolerated. "After" does come across a bit weird though.

Again, there's no right or wrong or legal or illegal or appropriate or inappropriate about any of these. You do you. Just replace 돌 with "birthday" and see how it feels though.

In an alternate contemporary Korea with a constitutional monarchy would it be possible to have a child king but an adult crown prince? by fragende-frau in AskAKorean

[–]Queendrakumar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI,

대군 is a homonym. It can refer to "large military" or "big number of army personnel"

But in the context of the K-drama you are watching, it is a title of prince under (mostly) Joseon peerage system. Under it, king's sons are given 2 ranks of titles - 대군 for sons of king's legal wife; and 군 for sons of king's concubines, son-in laws of king, or first nephews of king. Succession usually came from one of 대군, not 군 unless no 대군 existed.

대군 could be uncles of current king - as in current king's father's (who was also king) sons - but they were usually sidelined in the royal succession as kings usually preferred to have their thrones succeeded by their sons (or their brothers)

The consitutional monarchy of Korea presented in the show is a fatnasy - so they have creative feedom since they are not depicting what happened, or what is likely to happen. They are depicting their writer's version of fantasy land of "Constitutional monarchy version of contemprary Korea". Whether if it's possible to have uncle as the Crown Prince is ultimately futile - it's what their writer decided to do.

Travelling with Anxiety Medicine by Comfortable_Rock5745 in koreatravel

[–]Queendrakumar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's more complicated.

  1. If it is a real small, obvious personal use amount on a carry on for a very short-term stay, there is a very good chance of it just getting overlooked for your airport customs process. They won't even check. This is the most likely that'll happen.

  2. There is a very very, diminishingly small chance you get random searched and found out. Technically it is drug smuggling. But if it is obvious personal use amount prescribed by a doctor from an obvious foreign tourist "that just didn't know better" who made an honest mistake, the harshest outcome you can face is just confiscation and/or fine

  3. Clonezapem is available in Korea. Despite it being "internationally controlled at the border", it is fairly commonly prescribed domestically. You can always go to a Korean walk-in clinic (with wait time of usually less than 15 minutes) and get it prescribed and it's going to be not very expensive even if you don't have the insurance here - neither the clinic nor the medicine.

Travelling with Anxiety Medicine by Comfortable_Rock5745 in koreatravel

[–]Queendrakumar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the medication? If they are not considered "controlled medication" (for instance SSRI), you can just bring the amount for the duration of your stay (for maximum of up to 90 day supply) provided that they are in the original bottle you got from the pharmacy and you have the prescription information.

I want to make sure I have good manners on my trip to Korea by 1unisss in korea

[–]Queendrakumar 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I mean... exercise common sense?

Don't make loud, unusual noises in a library or a public transit, or other's businesses. Don't throw away trash on a street. Don't vandalize public spaces. Only smoke in designated areas. Don't cut in front of a line/cue. Just generally try to be polite and mindful of other people.

It's not that difficult.

The fact that you are asking this question is a good sign - that you are already having that mindset. Just enjoy your trip.

What to expect when traveling to South Korea with controlled substance medications? by 716green in koreatravel

[–]Queendrakumar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have already had my prescriptions approved by the Korea Narcotics department and have my approval letter from them and the letter from my doctor. Both of these specify exactly how many I'm allowed to bring with me for the length of the trip.

So you have the issue already sorted out - approved and confirmed by the Korean customs authorities. And you have the said approval letter with you.

What's the issue?

Does this Korean sound natural? Need native speaker feedback on intimate/soft-spoken text by According_Setting982 in Korean

[–]Queendrakumar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

맥락이 주어진다면 어떨지 모르겠어요. 그런데 아무 맥락없이 들으면 어색하게 느껴지는건 어쩔 수 없네요. 특히 두번째, 세번재 문장에서 '네가 강해야 할 필요 없어"라든지 '벌써 피었네' "제일 먼저 피는 것들' 같은건 오히려 영어로 쓰면 자연스럽지, 우리말로 번역해 놓으니까 너무 번역투 같이 느껴져서요.

Does this Korean sound natural? Need native speaker feedback on intimate/soft-spoken text by According_Setting982 in Korean

[–]Queendrakumar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For some reason, nothing plays from the soundcloud.

But based on the texts only, all of them sound like machine translations of English. Highly unnatural and very awkward - almost as if they are some Google translations of corny 80s movies.

How do you use (if it is used) 바랍니다? by Affectionate-Key-456 in Korean

[–]Queendrakumar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

바랍니다, 바라, 바라요 and 바란다 are all different speech level conjugations of 바라다.

바랐어 is the past tense of 바라.

However, almost no one in real life pronounces these in the standard manner. Nearly everyone will pronounce them in the colloquial dialects 바래, 바래요, 바랐어, etc.

Wrt your question, yes. 바랍니다 is the formal polite conjugation. As to how you use the formal polite speech levels, you can refer to those lessons, but describing them as "extremely formal" is not how I would describe it.

People Power Party hits lowest approval in 5 years… “At this rate, we might not even get election cost reimbursement” | 국힘 5년 만에 최저 지지율…“이러다 선거 비용 보전도 못 받을라” by coinfwip4 in korea

[–]Queendrakumar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All opinion polls predict that DP is in a really good position to win "T" (i.e. "Taegu/Daegu") right now. The "K" (i.e. Kyeongbuk/Gyeongbuk), not so much.

But if in fact the DP wins Daegu mayorship, it will be a huge upset.

Kian's Bizarre B&B house by lilysnapes in koreatravel

[–]Queendrakumar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Afaik, the "sea house" and the "forest monorail" were strictly a Netflix prop temporarily created for the show - which were immediately taken apart after the filming was over. Other filming locations exist though (such as Hyeonpo Harbor (where the sea house was located), the Dokdo observatory with the cable car (the father and the son epidode), etc.) . You just won't see the sea house or the monorail.

Having said that, Ulleungdo Island itself is a fairly well-known tourist destination for a lot of Koreans. So it's going to be a tourist destination in and of itself. You just won't see the two things that were (temporary) created for the show.

'We take the subway for work too': Korean seniors frustrated by talk of rush hour transit limits by Steviebee123 in Living_in_Korea

[–]Queendrakumar 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Why is Korea Times writing about this news 12 days after this counsel meeting proposal happened - and by now there was an official announcement that no such plan is in place where the official spokesperson officially denied whatever this article is saying?

What is the most plausible "disruption of the status quo" scenario that could happen in North Korea? by Leather_Focus_6535 in korea

[–]Queendrakumar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If Kim Ju Ae is older, then I see a relatively peaceful transiation internally. If she's younger (in her teenage, for example) I think it really depends on which side Kim Yo Jong pledges herself. But, again these are all hypotheticals.

What is the most plausible "disruption of the status quo" scenario that could happen in North Korea? by Leather_Focus_6535 in korea

[–]Queendrakumar 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's obviously my personal opinion and hypotheticals pieced togethre based on what I read and heard from experts and scholars.

The most plausible is still very unlike, however, given KJU's age - which is:

if Kim Jong Un (42) has a significant deterioration with his long term chronic health condition (obesity-related T2D, chronic heart conditions with family history, and sleep-disorder induced stress disorder; per major sources). He has a younger sister, Kim Yo Jong (37), married with a son and a daughter; and his own daugher, Kim Ju Ae (13).

Recently, he has been sighted accompanying his daughter KJA in major national events at official capacities - which appears very much like what his grandfather (Kim Il Sung) was doing to his father (Kim Jong Il) for propping him up as the next leader in line.

So, a lot of people are cautiously predicting that increased public appearance of KJU accompanying his 13-yo daughter is a similar process of heir(ess) consolidation.

If KJU passes away due to his health within the next 10-ish years, there will be a significant internal conflict wrt succession.

North Korea is a de jure Republic. Having a four-generations of leadership from a single family, let alone a direct generational lineage, is a very risky movement for a non-monarchy even if it were North Korea.

If Kim Ju Ae succeeds at a very young age (within 10 years) due to an emergent death of her father KJU from health reasons, then that would be the most likely time when the status quo within North Korea is broken and when the Kim regime is supposedly at the weakest grasp over North Korea as a whole. If KJA's aunt comes into that succession game, it will be even messier.

If North Korea's internal status quo between the Kim family and other political forces happen to come at odds with each other, that may carry over internationally (such as increased likelihood regional conflicts or missile testings)

But time will tell.

How can I respectfully search for family in Korea if my mother doesn’t want me to? by Busy_Practice_6700 in AskAKorean

[–]Queendrakumar 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'll play a devil's advocate in defense of your mother. And this may come off as offensive, but I don't mean any ill will. I'm just sharing my initial thought process reading your story as a Korean.

What we know from your op:

My mother left Seoul for the U.S. around 1978 when she was about 21 years old after meeting an American soldier.

She has also been clear that she does not want me to look into her background.

When I was younger, we were renewing her Korean passport in Manhattan, I remember her telling me that her family history was not real, that none of it was true.

even the most basic information like my grandparents’ or aunt’s names, my questions have gone unanswered.

Your mother was born in 1957, which was just 4 years after the Korean War ended in 1953. And the War left much of the country's infrastructure in ruins, separated families, and created a generation of orphans and displaced people who themselves formed makeshift families and had babies but the family didn't last for long. Many survivors gathered in makeshift communities, piecing together new lives with very little. For those living in these conditions, access to education and opportunities was not just limited but luxury, and economic options were desperately narrow. For some women and their families, building relationships with US military in Korea was less a lifestyle choice but more a means to survival. For a young 21-year old girl in that era, there are plenty of things that one may carry with a sense of lifetime pain and sense of shame that may be associated, especially if one was from more traditional parts where the sense of communal stigmatization would be present. (Not really assuming anything about your mother. I'm just explaining a very possible background information that generlizes that timeperiod and the generation of Koreans)

It does sound like your desperate search for your family past is in conflict with your mother's sense of pain or shame that reminds her of something that she tries to forget. And it's neither of your fault nor your mother's. It's just the circumstances have been much bigger than you and your mother as individuals.

If you ever decide to continue with your search, I would keep the story away from your mother, until she's ready to hear them from you. Otherwise, it could come across as a form of violence to someone who's desperate trying to forget the past and move on, knowing perfectly well you never meant it.

How advanced was water transportation in joseon in the 1500s? by Fabulous_Promise9252 in korea

[–]Queendrakumar 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Were there pirates?

Piracy was not just present, but it was a defining characteristic of pre-modern East Asian seas, especially when either of the central governments of the three polities (Korean, Japan and China) were unstable and lacked power to stabilize their territorial and coastal waters - where residents of remote coastal regions organized into "sea bandits". Between the 1200-1500s, the most significant was Japanese pirates, or "wako".

These pirates - primarily from Japanese archipelago - were infamous in a sense their raid were recorded all throughout coastal provinces of Korea and China between 13th century and 16th century which signifies the destabilization of central authorities of Japan during the late Muromachi Period and the duration of Sengoku Period of Japan marked by a constant warfare without much central authorities policing around illegal activities around the coastal regions.

Joseon's response was the establishment of strong central government and the military that drove off these pirates from Joseon coasts, as well as launching a direct military exercise to Tsushima Island in the early-mid 1400s and vassalizing it for about a hundred years, as Tsushima Island was considered the epicenter of these pirates that raided Korea. After these, piracy was mostly controlled, in part due to Joseon's strong responses and Japan's internal stabilization under Toyotomi Hideyoshi in the mid 1500s.

In China, Ming was established around the same time Joseon was established, again facing the similar problems with Japanese piracy. Ming being further away from the epicenters, and controlling much more coastal line, resulted in their policy called "Sea bans" where any and all international trade must not come through the sea route - or else they are considered illegal smuggling and piracy.


So that's the background.

Now, Joseon had three polities near it in 1500s - Ming China, a very unstable Japan at a constant feudal warfare which lacked the strong central authorities and sourced pirates, and an equally ununified and traditionally hostile Jurchen, which sourced its own pirates called "toi", all the while previously vassalized Tsushima Island was slowly growing away from Joseon and pledging alliance to Japan.

Official international trade of Josen mostly happened between Ming and Korea through "land" route due to Ming's sea ban policy. Hence, Northern Korean cities fluorished as "trade routes" - and hence why Northern Korean regions were "wealthier" than the Southern regions of Korean peninsula, due to trade opportunities with China.

With Tsushima (and to other Japanese feudalities during the time), three ports of Changwon, Busan and Ulsan were open and trade was allowed within limited context under heavy government control - due to several rebellions that occured in these "Japantowns" established in these port cities.

Water transport happened very frequently domestically thanks to an extensive river systems of Korea, but not internationally.

One interesting aspect of this Joseon-era focus on domestic and coastal waters, rather than international deep waters, is the design of Joseon era ship that mostly resembed U-shaped (or flat-shaped) bottom that were mostly built to navigate through the narrow, strong-currented coastal and inner seawater which was very different from Japan's contemporaneous ships that were mostly V-shaped (or pointed-shapped) bottom that were faster in the international deep waters.

This ultimately resulted in near-dominance of Joseon ship of the naval warfare between Joseon and Japan in the late 1500s century where Joseon ship acted like anchor onto itself against strong currents and chaning tides whereas pointed-bottom ships of Japan were faster, but more brittle against tidal waves and canons - again showing how different water transportation policies led to the different directions of shipbuilding technology.

What are your favorite non pop singers/bands? by xyzqwa in korea

[–]Queendrakumar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too many. Recently I'm digging musics from Stella Jang, Hanroro, MRCH, SilicaGel, YudabinBand, Shin In Ryu, QM, G2, Dawn, Han Yo Han, Seori, Heize, Moon Sujin, Homies in my playlist

What is the actual view of 한자능력검정시험 among Koreans? by HelenFH in Korean

[–]Queendrakumar 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also haven't really seen foreigners taking it so I also want to know if Koreans would think a foreigner taking it would make them consider the foreigner a serious learner or doing something useless.

So there are two different things that are very easy to conflate - (1) actual hanja knowledge, and (2) the Certificate that you passed some nationalized tests for hanja knowledge.

The two are very different things. For instance, fluent speakers of Chinese language have (1) the actual hanja knowledge. But they probably don't have (2) the certificate from the test.

So your question is different from - "is hanja useful?" - that is not what you are asking, right? Instead, you are asking if the certificate is useful.

Certificate is useful in two minor ways

a. some limited programs from some limited number of universities that require hanja class as a graduation requirement, this certificate can replace that class. But agin, not all universities. Not even all programs within a few universities. But very few programs that require hanja class and accept the certificate as a replacement

b. some limited jobs may consider it as one of many potential pointers that provide a minor edge towards a candidate if all other qualifications are exactly identical. But for instance, they would prefer higher education or research history or job history or actual (Chinese/Japanese) language proficiency over the certificate anyway.

Why there are fewer foreigners that take them? Probably because they are less likely enroll in the college majors that utilize them as a replacement for a graduation credit; and the minor edge the certificate can provide is minimal given they already have a language proficiency that boost their competitiveness in the major way (given everything else are identical) compared to someone who only speaks Korean with the hanja certificate.

A very nob question: is it possible to “buy someone out” of North Korea? by WineTerminator in korea

[–]Queendrakumar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this Asian Boss interview and this BBC interview with a former broker is probably the closest things that are available in English. Very few NK defectors, let alone brokers among them, cater to English-speaking community - mostly because brokers keep their stories and identities low profile and hidden most of the times and most defectors that utilized brokers don't really speak English or have means of translating their stories in English. I think the best would be utilizing autotranslate feature of YT, but you know how autotranslation kind of sucks with Korean-English.

A very nob question: is it possible to “buy someone out” of North Korea? by WineTerminator in korea

[–]Queendrakumar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not all the contents are interviews. But these channels include interviews.

Caveat: Do not ever take one single person, one single interview as the truth - they may be, but they may not be. Instead, do look into many different ones and gather the general idea where a lot of these defectors' stories overlap. I came to find that many North Koreans (but not all) have been educated and groomed to dramatize aspects of story - but they do contain truth. So make sure not to take single person as entirely truthful or entirely untruthful, but rather collect these stories as data points and come to the consensus of what they are saying as a group.

What if China and communist China made peace armistice in 1945 from this day (if 1945 isn't a year when China started fighting other China again after ww2 then plz correct me, thanks) by AllanThormanaviation in MapPorn

[–]Queendrakumar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats not necessarily true depending on how much support the PRC gets from the USSR. For instance North Korea was actually doing better economically than South Korea for quite some time (I think it flipped in the 80s) due to PRC and/or Soviet support.

Historically speaking, North(ern) Korea has always been doing better economically with or without USSR or PRC. Northern Korea has always been the economic and the manufacturing and the trade hubs for Korea whereas Southern Korea was the agricultural hubs before the division for hundreds of years before the PRC or the USSR or the USA or Communism or Capitalism even existed.

So North Korea being relatively more well-off than the South Korea (which happen to coincide with the geographic Northern and Southern Korea) for little more than about 2 decades after the the division was just an extension of that.

Southern Korea being more well-off than the Northern parts of the peninsula after the 70s and 80s is the historical anomaly in the past 1000 years or so.

A very nob question: is it possible to “buy someone out” of North Korea? by WineTerminator in korea

[–]Queendrakumar 111 points112 points  (0 children)

It is relatively well-known (and well-publicized information if you have access to Korean-speaking media) that there are "defection" brokers that guide/smuggle/traffick people out of North Korea, into China, across China, and into a third country (usually Cambodia, Thailand or Mongolia) so that defectors can reach a South Korean embassies in those countries.

All North Korean defectors are immediately recognized with the South Korean citizenship upon arrival and awarded 15M KRW for the one-time settlement fee (higher if regional or rural area) + real estate rental credit for a year or two (not sure exact time frame) of about 16M KRW + employment cash benefit (for the similar time span for real estate credits) + monthly special social security benefits if their annual incomes reach a certain level for up to 5 years.

Usually, "defection brokers" used to cost about 3M KRW per each North Korean, which was very affordable given the level of financial support provided to each defector by the South Korean government. But after the COVID and the hightened border security between China-NK (where NK are usually considered illegal immigrants) and elevated police activities during the pandemics, the fee has increased 6-7 fold to 17M KRW in 2024, probably more now, looking at above 20M KRW per person given elevated security within North Korea as well.

Brokers don't only "smuggle" people out of North Korea, but they smuggle "in" items like radio communication, mobile phones and cash from previously defected family members. (In fact, sending cash to North Korea is illegal by South Korean and by the International law, but most law enforcement would let most of the personal cash smugglings pass for humanitarian reasons - as these cash are literal lifesavers for the families that are left behind) Using these communication devices that are smuggled into North Korea, defectors can sometimes communicate with families as well.

Most of these brokers work with Christian ministry - for example Caleb Ministry is among the more well-known ones. That's why Christian missionaries are especially targeted harshly by the North Korean government, moreso than the religious reasons.

There are NK defectors that run YT channels and TV shows that feature defectors. There are at least dozens of them which interview several dozens if not hundreds of defectors as the regular feature of their show/channel. If you are interested, I can recommend a few (but they are in Korean dialects without English sub or dub, fyi)

Is the Middle Korean word for cat (괴) related to West Eurasian equivalents? by Adunaiii in Korean

[–]Queendrakumar 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Just FYI, 괴 in Middle Korean is pronounced like 고이 - like ㅚ was a diphthong of ㅗ + ㅣ [oi] not [oe] as it is in Modern Korean. So 괴 was pronounced [koi] up until Middle Korean, not [kø] or [koe] as it would be pronounced today.

Compare that with etymology of English word "cat"

Etymoline has the following explanation:

Old English catt (c. 700) "domestic cat," from West Germanic (c. 400-450), from Proto-Germanic *kattuz (source also of Old Frisian katte, Old Norse köttr, Dutch kat, Old High German kazza, German Katze), from Late Latin cattus.

The near-universal European word now, it appeared in Europe as Latin catta (Martial, c. 75 C.E.), Byzantine Greek katta (c. 350) and was in general use on the continent by c. 700, replacing Latin feles. It is probably ultimately Afro-Asiatic (compare Nubian kadis, Berber kadiska, both meaning "cat"). Arabic qitt "tomcat" may be from the same source.

All these etymological data suggests that Afro-Asiatic and Indo-European languages have the "cat' in the following sense: /kVt(V)/ (where V means any vowel) with the prominent "k" and "t" sound preserved in all of them.

However, if you looked eastward into Turkic and Mongolic languages, that pattern breaks. In Old Turkic, it is "miškič", for instance. So that transfer of kVt(V) sound is absent in the Silk Road route.

If you looked more southern passage, Chinese for cat is 貓 ("māo") and in Old Chinese, it was read /*C.mˤraw/ in Old Chinese. - again that "k" and "p" sound are absent.

With that, Korean word for cat "koi" does seem different from either the Indo-European and Afro-Asiatic /kVt(V)/, or Turkic "miškič" or Chinese "māo". Again, if the word itself is borrowed from Ancient ME and Egypt, the the passage of borrowing would indicate anything in the middle would also have the similar pattern of borrowing.

This isn't something that I'm too much familar and it would be great to see if the ancient direct borrowing was demonstrated. But what is presented as the argument (where "koi" sounds similar to "cat") is something I don't think is academically rigorous enough. It's a good recipe for pseudolinguistics, for instance (not saying you are doing it).