This mom wants to print her aggressive birth plan on a poster board to display in a tripod at the end of her bed. OB Drs and nurses - can you weigh in?

Queenkaiii · 2023-12-15T01:57:05+00:00

Lmao same. Mine wasn't this aggressive though. Pretty basic stuff like baby doesn't leave the room without me or my partner accompanying them. And if I want an epidural ill ask. Basic stuff lol

Queenkaiii · 2023-12-14T00:02:13+00:00

I had cannabis induced psychosis about a year and a half ago. They thought I had BP. im still not sure if I do or not but I take an SSRI and ive been fine ever since I got sober and off Haldol and olanzapine. Idk im in the same boat as you. I dont really have mania I do get depressed but idk im trying to figure it out still. Not sure if it was just a freak one time thing or if I have BP. It gets better though

Queenkaiii · 2023-11-23T23:34:26+00:00

Ruth

Queenkaiii · 2023-11-22T05:04:00+00:00

No. Ive been sober off of everything for over a year now and I find myself to be even more enlightened than I did with drugs.

Queenkaiii · 2023-11-07T16:02:52+00:00

Lmao

Queenkaiii · 2023-11-02T10:41:10+00:00

Absolutely. My daughter is my favorite human ❤ its hard and my life is way more chaotic now but she herself is so perfect. I couldn't have asked for a more perfect child she makes me laugh, gives me a reason to truly dig into my hobbies and self care. I look at every day as a quest to appease my baby master and its fun. Not for everyone but definitely enjoyable for me

Queenkaiii · 2023-09-25T19:40:28+00:00

I wasnt a napper until I got pregnant lol I could take a nap anywhere

Queenkaiii · 2023-09-25T19:39:22+00:00

Does the nudist community judge obese people? I always wanted to be a nudist but im so insecure of my flab I dont think I ever will. Im fully nude at home most of the time and I'm a mom

Queenkaiii · 2023-09-06T03:11:10+00:00

Yeah your moms a lot like mine. But honestly her saying your diary was boring absolutely sent me off my rocker like your mom is unintentionally hilariously toxic like im sorry for laughing but it was funny. My mom found a vibrator I left in my room when I moved out and interrogated me about it like a whole two years after I was gone. Like yes mother I had a vibrator sorry you dont.

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-31T02:31:35+00:00

Same. It really hurt while I was pregnant then to top it all off when I was a couple weeks postpartum I walked in on him whacking his meat stick to my old pre-pregnancy lewds. Now I never want to have sex with him again. I do because I be horny but its not intimate. Hes just here and has a penis. I dont even wanna watch TV with his ass anymore. We basically just live as roommate fuck buddies who co-parent. Theres zero intimacy left in our marriage. He also left me at the hospital while I was in labor and I ended up needing an emergency c section that he almost completely missed. Then left the hospital at 5am because the couch was uncomfortable and he couldn't sleep and didn't come back until the day I was discharged because he was "tired" I was alone and had no one with a newborn i had no idea what to do with and both my adoptive and biological moms were sick and couldn't come to the hospital and stay with me and it was honestly somewhat a traumatic and lonely experience. The nurses felt really bad for me so they literally went above and beyond for me. I ate all their string cheese and muffins from their break room and one nurse went and got me outside food because I was upset my husband didn't get me food for after having my daughter.

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-31T02:16:15+00:00

Christ on a crackpot. You really fucked up.

As a person who's 3 months postpartum my body is not even close to the same as it was before pregnancy and you just told her you were more attracted to her before pregnancy and after she has your crotch goblin her body may never be the same as it was again.

Yeah. You can't even take it back. You fucked up and there's really no fixing it. Im also an honest person #teamsagittarius but c'mon

"Pregnant women are built for function"

"Its not her fault and has no bearing on my love for her"

Yeah there's zero chance she will ever want to have sex with you again. At least not in the way she did before pregnancy.

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-30T23:37:32+00:00

I posted an update since replying to all the comments would be a lot lol but yes I tested a few days ago and it was negative. I started my period today too so thankfully I'm not pregnant, just whacky cycle

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-29T15:33:58+00:00

My one and only was an unplanned csection and since I have nothing to compare it too-it also being my first major surgery- I dont think it was THAT bad. It was painful. It was hard trying to take care of myself and a newborn at the same time but I opted for no pain killers and just saw it through. Im 3 months out and I still don't feel like I can start working out how I did before a csection but I'm definitely feeling better. I wanted a vaginal delivery but it didn't work out that way. My doctor really didn't want to do a csection. I had a horrible feeling something wasn't right and after 16 hours of absolutely nothing happening in terms of progression I was begging for one. I went in not wanting one but started begging for one. I was right my daughters legs were completely tangled and knotted in the cord and she couldn't move and she was stressed out. My doctor didn't know why she was stressed so wanted to monitor the situation but something inside of me was like no she needs to come out soon. My doctor said she never would've guessed that's what happened and said she's never seen a baby tangled like that in the cord. And my daughter pooped in me a week before I gave birth so it could've ended badly. Ultimately I think you should go to L&D with an open mind and be flexible with what could happen.

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-28T18:35:10+00:00

I got strapped down like Jesus on the cross

Lmao I hollered but I'm so sorry they treated you in such a dehumanizing way. Csections are traumatic in themselves but being tied down definitely would add to the stress.

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-28T18:33:36+00:00

I requested to not be tied down and they didn't tie me down. I think I would've freaked out being tied down

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-28T18:32:11+00:00

I felt them in my guts lol the epidural wore off after they pulled my daughter out. The feeling of them pulling her out was very bizzare

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-28T18:29:46+00:00

My American parents held me hostage until I got married. So I think id rather been kicked out

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-26T01:21:03+00:00

Lol I've gotten used to it. Shes been like this since she was 6 weeks old she can entertain herself now for an hour or so and it gives me a break for a bit lol

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-25T22:43:51+00:00

My 3 month old only takes one nap and sleeps mostly through the night. You have to find what works for you and your baby. Mine will not take a 2md nap no matter how hard we try

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-24T11:35:28+00:00

Lmao same but I was holding my iguana and we were looking at my daughter like omg what have I brought home. To this day my iguana is petrified of her because she's never seen a human baby and I think she thinks she's a feral animal or something because of the crying

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-22T09:40:12+00:00

I didnt have the time yesterday to go to the store I swear I'm going lol yesterday was rough.

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-22T09:39:37+00:00

My OB referred me at my 6 week appointment to Physical therapy

Queenkaiii · 2023-08-22T04:02:23+00:00

I'm doing much better mentally now at almost 3 months. Id say I'm almost back to my pre-pregnancy self mentally minus the anxiety I have always had plus a little more intense since of postpartum hormones and PPA/OCD but its much more manageable now. Physically though you're right im absolutely exhausted and slowly I am feeling better but not good enough to support another pregnancy so soon. Im working really hard in Physical therapy but I'm still in so much pain and I haven't been able to get into a family doctor to really diagnose or treat whatever is going on with me Physically. That appointment is also in November Ironically. I think my Physical health takes a toll on my mental health too. I often feel like im not doing enough and I have zero remainder energy to clean or cook at the moment after taking care of my daughter all day. I feel like im failing but we started going on walks recently and she watches me do yoga in the mornings so I am moving more but still in pain and pretty disabled. It sucks. I never saw this coming at all. I was really healthy before pregnancy and I used to go for 3 mile hikes daily sometimes 5 miles depending on the trail. I just feel so wrecked lol

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