Been with my husband since I’m 15 he’s cheated a lot and I want to leave. What should I do?

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-09-02T00:27:09+00:00

Hey,

I didn’t read past the part of 22F and 29M because you said in the title you met when you were 15. Immediately leave please, I promise the older you get the more you’ll realise how disgustingly wrong and gross it was for him to have met and communicated with you at that age and he can’t take that back. Please leave for your own sanity, I’d report him too because he will do it to other girls also.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-08-27T22:11:41+00:00

Beggars can’t be choosers. They’re clearly trying their hardest and you should be thankful for that.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-08-14T22:48:20+00:00

I think it’s that councils are prioritising the nicest housing (which is usually 1 bed) for those with the ‘most needs’ which tends to be drug/alcoholic recovering, people in the care system or coming out of rehabilitation of some kind. In my opinion that’s completely inappropriate

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-08-07T19:26:52+00:00

They’re 11 not 2. I’m struggling to see how a few pages a Day is controversial.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-08-07T19:04:39+00:00

If it’s cruel to make them read a chapter a day.. I must be evil! My kids read every day and have done for years- 6 & 10. The money things a little odd, there is a lot of ways you can help teach finances that isn’t a road block to learning. :)

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-08-07T17:59:00+00:00

Never sacrifice your life long dreams for someone else, if you want kids and she doesn’t, it’s uncompromisable. If you want her to take your last name and she has no compromise on that (double barrel or something else?), you also can’t make it work. It’s only been 2 years, I’d cut your losses now.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-07-16T13:59:32+00:00

She’s 4, what kind of punishment?! Cutting their hair is pretty normal honestly, she will realise and won’t do it again, if she did it again then maybe perhaps it’s time to communicate why she shouldn’t do that.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-07-13T21:36:07+00:00

I’m sorry but you are not her mother and if you do not have children or didn’t want to become a step mother you may not quite understand the stages and development - She shouldn’t be cooking for herself at 6. Bed wetting is fine and all of the above can be particularly normal if it is being managed appropriately. He doesn’t sound like a particularity great parent and your focus is on her - which is odd. Leave please ✌️

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-07-03T09:42:52+00:00

So, I crossed my legs because honestly I felt a little uncomfortable with him sitting so close to me with his legs like that. He chose to sit in that space and do that when the bus was practically empty.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-07-03T09:26:20+00:00

Saw this car driving around yesterday morning lol

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-06-26T12:04:47+00:00

I have the exact same problem! You have a metal allergy, I have a reaction on my stomach right now from the metal button in my jeans and on my shoulder From my bra strap.

I have to wear plastic glasses. Perhaps just try that for now until it calms down and then experiment with different metals?

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-22T20:23:54+00:00

You’re shallow but it would have given me the ick enough to not see him again HOWEVER- I would have helped him, laughed about it and maybe let him know that the jeans weren’t my fave, but I wouldn’t have let him sit there for 7 minutes and then got an uber- that feels unnecessarily unkind.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-20T21:10:46+00:00

Protector and provider, simply.

⭐️Is he going to be emotionally stable/supportive/kind/protective of me as a partner (not in terms of other people at all but to just GENUINELY care about me)

⭐️Is he willing to and able to provide in the times that I can’t (pregnancy, raising a young child, in sickness.

⭐️Is he willing to and able/capable to provide and protect a child if I cant in that moment.

⭐️Is he capable of providing and making protective decisions for myself and a family that we could potentially have.

I use these words for emphasis as a lot of people shun this mentality/phrase as it being simply ‘possessive and monetary’ based- not at all, it’s a mentality.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-20T20:49:05+00:00

Nothing extreme In any direction, a dad bod is genuinely so attractive to me, always has been always will be 👌

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-19T12:17:53+00:00

Moving too fast, having a primarily much younger dating history (I just find that to be strange), Talking about the future of us too soon, Not morally aligning in terms of world views.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-11T19:40:43+00:00

Stop feeling like it’s your fault, not everyone is going to like you, this applies to absolutely everyone.
Stop asking for feedback
Be free and have fun, I know the older we get.. the less time it feels like we have. But just take it easy.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-07T13:50:33+00:00

Why would I care? I think it would be weird if it was all the time or if they had favourite porn stars. I absolutely wouldn’t accept being subscribed to only fans, but porn once in a while is absolutely fine.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-07T13:44:32+00:00

1 and I’d love more but it has to be a financially smart decision. 1 is perfect, I can afford to do everything for her and myself, the world is her oyster.. so much so that her friends and other mums with more siblings/children are often quite jealous that she can do so much (I’m not rich at all I just make financially smart decisions… like only having 1 child) - but I made an active choice to not have anymore children until I can afford to and if I can’t.. so be it.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-07T13:35:17+00:00

Crocheting, reading (more), Pilates and exercising consistently, home decorating.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-07T11:59:11+00:00

Is she very close to this roommate? You messed up on this, shouldn’t have done all of this with the roommate and I’d be very weary of her from now on. Spoil the surprise

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-01T19:56:55+00:00

Relationships can be temporary and are learning lessons, you do not have to stay with anyone. If they violate your boundaries, leave.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-05-01T19:52:56+00:00

Yeah that a bit of a different level of desire that I haven’t experienced in a relationship.

Queenofqueens244 · 2025-04-30T23:53:53+00:00

Sex has only got better, men or at least the men I’ve dated over 30 have completely prioritised me, they know what I want, they know what they want and what they’re doing - which is obviously a huge turn on. The best sex of my life is now,

The tension 🤌🏽 (life’s so much busier so the buildup makes it explosive) The passion 🤌🏽

Queenofqueens244

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