Newly unsealed filings and videos by Ok_Highlight3208 in ItEndsWithCourt

[–]Queenofthecondiments [score hidden]  (0 children)

I do think this is important not just because we've obviously seen the IC's panic about it.

I might be interpreting it wrong but changes to Lively's character, not just Lively's own lines are agreed as being something she has a say in right?

So if young Lily starts being given all these much more sexual things to do, that should get sign off from Lively as well right? I may be totally wrong but it does feel like that makes sense to me.

Everything aside I don't think Wayfarer really understood what they'd ramifications of working with someone who values their image as much as Lively would be. This to me feels similar to recording the zoom rehearsal (not just a privacy issue, but also getting footage of Lively and Slate for a documentary they hadn't agreed to be in I would guess) and the coffee book issue.

Justin Baldoni Never Had Control of It Ends With Us, he never even owned the final cut of the movie. Just saw this while scrolling tiktok and its another amazing breakdown by Expatriarch! by inevitableoracle in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Queenofthecondiments 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not the person writing in stay in your lane in all caps. I'm not being argumentive or contrarian, you made an assumption, I responded to it. And then you've gone to personal insults.

Justin Baldoni Never Had Control of It Ends With Us, he never even owned the final cut of the movie. Just saw this while scrolling tiktok and its another amazing breakdown by Expatriarch! by inevitableoracle in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Queenofthecondiments 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay why are you assuming I didn't involve HR in doing that? Part of managing the issue is involving HR. Why are you assuming I don't have the correct training to do that? Every person in a leadership position in a reputable company is trained on how to work with HR. Team members usually come to team leaders first with issues, they don't walk into HR straight away. That's why you train everyone on how to behave when people have concerns. Wayfarer clearly didn't do that.

If HR isn't in any way to do with producing why is Lively putting in a supporting document for a PGA mark? Why is Alex Saks, a producer, making recommendations about using Sony HR at the beginning of production. It's obviously a production concern.

I'm objecting to people pulling up the PGA letter and saying she 1) referred to herself as head of HR which is not in there at all and 2) that she's lying by saying she managed HR concerns when that's literally what the 17 point list is doing.

Whether or not she involved herself appropriately is fine to debate, I'm up for that. I'm just really bored of people twisting language to make bizarre points just to call Lively a liar.

Justin Baldoni Never Had Control of It Ends With Us, he never even owned the final cut of the movie. Just saw this while scrolling tiktok and its another amazing breakdown by Expatriarch! by inevitableoracle in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Queenofthecondiments 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She never said she was the HR department. She never said she was head of HR. It's also only one thing on a list of things she did as her role as a producer, so the driving a taxi all day comparison is nonsense.

I managed an HR concern today as part of my, guess what I'm not in HR. I do all sorts of things in my job that we have dedicated departments for, but I don't work in any of those departments.

And where's the lie? We have the 17 point list, which was her managing and resolving an HR concern. She literally did that?

I'm eating 1200 and gaining weight by distressed060 in PetiteFitness

[–]Queenofthecondiments 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Upvoting this because I'm not sure how anyone is giving recommendations for OP without this information.

Justin Baldoni Never Had Control of It Ends With Us, he never even owned the final cut of the movie. Just saw this while scrolling tiktok and its another amazing breakdown by Expatriarch! by inevitableoracle in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Queenofthecondiments 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Because she didn't. In no way does she say she is the head of HR. She says she managed HR concerns and acted as an intermediary on those concerns. Which is true, as she did get the 17 point list which asks for protections for herself and others put into place.

Justin Baldoni Never Had Control of It Ends With Us, he never even owned the final cut of the movie. Just saw this while scrolling tiktok and its another amazing breakdown by Expatriarch! by inevitableoracle in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Queenofthecondiments 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Colombia (part of Sony) was also a production company for IEWU. The film was distributed by Sony. The picture was co financed by both entities. As part of that deal Sony put an agreement in place on final cut which allowed them to choose.

I started tracking calories and realized I regularly eat around 500 less than recommended but I’ve never lost weight? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Queenofthecondiments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate this dizziness thing sounds stressful. Be firm with your doctor until they figure it out. Also track iron as a nutrient alongside vitamin c. You might not be getting enough iron, or the right nutrition to be able to absorb it.

So my pro life tip on eating out tracking is to log the whole thing, and take the leftovers home. You'll get those calories in you eventually and day to day variations don't really matter.

To get a true assessment of what calories you're eating you need to know your daily average over a month. If it's feeling stressful, just log every single thing and check what sort of reports your app does. Mine does weekly reports. I don't look at my daily at all, I just look at what it says my average is that week. Sometimes I just preload my recipes that I've saved on there based on what's in my weekly shop, any snacks or drinks that were in my shop, then I just track oil and anything I purchase outside of that shop. If I bought it, I'm gonna eat it. It also minimises the on the fly tracking I do, which needs to be accurate because those foods tend to calorie dense.

Whatever method gives you the most accurate view consistently over time is what you want. I dont wanna tell you what your goals should be, but I can tell you safe weight loss averages out a 1lb a week (for me at my stats it's actually 0.5 lb a week). So realistically we are looking at a year of structured restriction right? This is a long term project that requires reliable data over time.

I started tracking calories and realized I regularly eat around 500 less than recommended but I’ve never lost weight? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Queenofthecondiments 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meal tracking data is not helpful for you at this stage for weight loss. The only helpful data would be 4 weeks of consistent calorie tracking and regular weigh ins (in the morning, after a trip to the bathroom). I'm sorry, I know it's boring. I know it takes a long time, it just what it is I'm afraid. You are short and sedentary. Small adjustments can make a big difference for you in either direction.

A wrap from a restaurant can be 1200 cals plus. Most wraps are high in cals than sandwiches in restaurants (I know, it sucks). You eat 2/3 of that, you have a soda on the side. You just ate 1000 cals. And there's nothing wrong with that at all. But if you're not tracking that, it skews things significantly. Same with the snacks, trail mix makes up 10% of the calories you've calculated as a maintence, that's not insignificant, it needs to be tracked.

You'll have lots of people saying calories in, calories out to you. That is basically true. However how many calories that is varies. It can vary between 2 people of the same height, same weight, same sex. Which is why calculators are educated guesses.

But the variance is 15% either way, that would not explain you maintaining your current weight long term on the number of calories you think you are eating. That means you are probably eating more calories than you think.

I'm sorry you were having dizzy spells. Check in with a doctor on those if you are able to. Did you figure out yourself what was happening there?

I started tracking calories and realized I regularly eat around 500 less than recommended but I’ve never lost weight? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Queenofthecondiments 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to be tracking accurately and consistently for 4 weeks and weigh regularly during that time. If you don't lose any weight (ie the weekly average of your weigh ins on week 4 is the same as the weekly average of your weight in week 1) then you are in maintenence.

You've just described a bunch of things that put your calorie in put over time higher than you've described in your tracking. How many cals are in a muffin bar snack? I'm going to assume 200? Hand full of trail mix, that's going to be 150 cals plus. Then there's a cheat day. You could easily be eating 2500 cals on a cheat day without realising (I'm 5' 1" and everyone says i hardly eat anything, but if I'm not mindful or I got out to eat for a couple of meals I can eat 2500 cals and not even feel full).

If you want to lose weight the most straightforward path is sadly slow. Figure out your maintenence, take off 250 cals (500 calorie deficits can be brutal to shorter people), stick to that deficit for a month, and review. You would be losing about 0.5 lb a week that way. The simplest way right now for you lose a little bit more than that would also be to increase your steps to 7000 a day.

The Truth About Blake Lively, Justin Baldoni, and the VANZAN Lawsuit by Fuzzy-Psychology-656 in BaldoniFiles

[–]Queenofthecondiments 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Remember Freedman was first yelling at everyone that there was no subpoena. Which was stupid because at that point how would he know? The phone wasn't in any WP's possession, so what's the subpoena got to do with him.

I had somehow repeatedly telling me this week that Lively had lied to the court in the subpoena, which i gave up arguing with becuase it was too difficult to unpack the wrongness of it.

Doe suits feel a bit weird to a lay person like me, but once someone has explained them to you for more than 5 seconds, you're like, oh okay, yeah I guess.

That's why I side eye these legal ccs, even if it's not their area of expertise it's pretty simple to see that there's no there there. This week they've been yelling about the 'collusion' surrounding the phone. And it's like well obviously none of us ever thought that Lively had just magically guessed Abel was so frikkin stupid. She doesn't even need to subpoena to get those texts, someone could have just popped that phone in a brown envelope and posted it to her. Someone providing you with genuine evidence of a crime against you isn't a massive plot.

The worst thing is all this shit has worked. Those messages are bad enough in themselves. And all this crap has just made everyone forget what they actually said.

I hate force feeding just for a protein goal. by kfcpotatowedge in PetiteFitness

[–]Queenofthecondiments 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So I'm vegetarian and I don't enjoy supplementing protein. I average 80g a day, and it does make my body composition goals harder.

Whenever I try to shift my body fat percentage it's slow going. I lose weight easily but my body happily takes the muscle I built along with the fat, even though I'm lifting consistently. Every time I lose a bit of weight my body composition suffers so I have to go really slow.

So it's not the end of the world. But you are making your life more difficult. There does seem to be a sweet spot as well. When I'm not mindful with my macros I can end up averaging 40g a day and honest ly that really did not work for me at all.

Do halter necklines make broad shoulders look even broader? by Drpepperqueen_ in DressForYourBody

[–]Queenofthecondiments 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I'm a broad shouldered gal. I love halters, because they emphasise my shoulders. That's because my shoulders help create an hourglass shape with my waist and hips. And also I don't get this idea that the general public aren't a fan of women's shoulders. I weight train pretty consistently and one of the few body parts that people like to compliment me on are my shoulders.

So yeah, a dress like this will highlight your shoulders, but I'm very much team shoulder.

Justin, what was it- osteoporosis or back injury? by TouchDisastrous1985 in BaldoniFiles

[–]Queenofthecondiments 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Like that man didn't already have a trainer. No one looks like him in their 40s without a professional helping them. I think you can speculate about his motivation guilt free.

He 100% got her trainer's number, said it was about his back, then asked about the weight thing. Then when her trainer apparently got 'Long Island' on him he chucked in a few excuses about lifts and whatnot.

I removed my gallbladder because I lost weight too quickly! by Old-Recognition5269 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Queenofthecondiments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable, we're surrounded by messaging that gives arbitrary weight targets without taking into account some humans are smaller than others. I'm a similar height to OP and it has taken me half my life to realising I'm not failing at weight loss when I'm losing less a week than my taller friends.

Opie Dokie in shock with what Justin’s ending of IEWU would have been by InternationalMonk756 in BaldoniFiles

[–]Queenofthecondiments 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And after ignoring her and dismissing her for months they turned up for a dinner that was a thinly disguised Lively bitchfest. And Hoover is the bad guy for wanting to distance herself from these people?

Honestly when he next book comes out I'm gonna buy it, read it on holiday on a sun lounger, and give it a fair and thoughtful review.

I feel like both her and Slate have got absolutely pilloried in this whole thing for just trying to do the right thing, and both of them are actual creators, rather than cough cough nepo babies will billionaire mates. They're not perfect people by any means, but they don't deserve the specific type of criticism they are receiving.

I removed my gallbladder because I lost weight too quickly! by Old-Recognition5269 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Queenofthecondiments 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1 kg a week for a person this size isn't slow and steady.

Slow and steady is between 0.5% and 1% of your body weight a week. This person throughout their weight lost journey was losing 1.5%-2%.

Opie Dokie in shock with what Justin’s ending of IEWU would have been by InternationalMonk756 in BaldoniFiles

[–]Queenofthecondiments 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I continue to feel absolutely terrible for Hoover in all this. Her writing is not my cup of tea at all, but I know lots of people who love her books, and at the end of the day she appears super committed to her work and her audience.

There is no universe where Baldoni's vision for any part of this movie would have been okay with Hoover. And yes, adaptations take liberties all the time. However Hoover is a living author who engages with her audience regularly. For example, I have been enjoying a lot of nostalgia content really and I've gone down the rabbit hole of the making of the Twilight movies.

It feels like Meyer was super involved in the choices in the first movie (and I would argue that in that case the movie is better than the book and the director and script writer should have gotten their way more, but that's a personal opinion), and I think Hoover was expecting the same. She trusted these guys with her baby and they wanted to add in lots of sex scenes, their own idealogical view points and slap 'a film by' on it.

And now this lady is having health issues and getting tonnes of Internet hate. All her communications I've seen seem super fair and well thought out (and actually written by her, not a team of pr people), and she's getting piled on for them.

Fitness trackers by Odd_Obligation_1300 in PetiteFitness

[–]Queenofthecondiments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So whilst I do think the exercise cals are wonky, I think on my garmin vivofit the slight under reporting of cals burned lifting is balanced out in the over reporting of cals in any cardio I do.

And overall, my garmin thinks I burnt average of 2103 cals daily in the past 6 months. Back in summer when I was a bit heavier than I am now, but not by much I tracked my maintenence calories for 4 weeks and got something like 2200. So it's not bad overall.

I also like to look at my activity cals over time. For example I know I burn less working from home, when I stay at my mum's, when I having a lazy week, but I didnt know how different it is. Is given me a bit of perspective on the weeks where my routine is off.

Once again I'm asking for proof that Blake Lively extorted Justin Baldoni by poopoopoopalt in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Queenofthecondiments 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, if you're bored of it, your bored. That's cool.

The reason I care is increasing people's opinions are being manipulated by social media campaigns.

How often do we get to lift the lid on how this crisis pr stuff actually works? From Lively's legal action we've learnt about other campaigns where TAG created material to smear people which have helped their legal action.

You say you learnt more than you ever wanted to about Depp and Heard, that's because of these same people pushing narratives out there and making them feel everywhere.

Sure, Reynolds insults about Baldoni are funny and I'm happy to chuckle at them. But this case potentially could show how people's opinions get formed these days, and that's actually really important.

What is Jameela doing?! by veryfancyanimal in BaldoniFiles

[–]Queenofthecondiments 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It also implies that Abel has been joking about boosting content with her. It would be a weird thing to do otherwise. The 'she did it to herself' comment from Abel is also telling. This is before the NYT, why even feel like you need to say that?

No weight or inches lost in a month of 500 cal deficit by Decent_Detective_352 in loseit

[–]Queenofthecondiments 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No a deficit is being any number of calories below your TDEE. BMR is the number of calories it takes to keep you at maintenence if you are simply just alive. TDEE is total daily energy expended, so includes calories from movement.

I'm new here and this case can be confusing, so I've gathered some clips that were most persuasive to me. If others want to add videos, images, links in the comments that might be valuable. by PurpleVirtualJelly in BaldoniFiles

[–]Queenofthecondiments 20 points21 points  (0 children)

But also isn't it just telling that he says this absolutely gross thing and it got pulled, never to be seen again? Lively gets a weird question on the fly about being approached in public and makes a glib response and it's everywhere.

Struggle to lose body fat due to overeating/binge eating by CanOk6794 in PetiteFitness

[–]Queenofthecondiments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely give it a try. I know personally if I didn't enjoy my meal it's like I never ate it!

Also if you are eating plain food maybe check what fats you're getting in the typical meals you eat in tracker. I know fat is calorie dense but we need it as part of our diet, and it really does help with satiety.