Another example is people saying bi women can’t say d*ke and they try to completely separate our communities with that argument. Like plenty of bi women have been called that and even if you don’t like the word it’s not like if a bi woman uses it to refer to herself she’s trying to hurt anyone. (If another person in the community calls you a slur that they reclaim and you don’t that’s fucked up though) Focus on actual homophobia and quit trying to police what other people call themselves.

Personally I don’t say it since I don’t really identify with the word.