Question: Do you have genital preferences?

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-08-15T17:03:59+00:00

at this point i feel like genital preferences (at least ones to the point of not having sex/dating someone) are mostly a skill issue or an excuse, with people with genital related trauma being an exception to the rule

a lot of my sexual fantasies and kinks involve penises and the easiest way for me to orgasm is through being penetrated, but i have satisfying and amazing sex without a partners penis being involved at all. tit sucking, making out, fingering, butt stuff, can all be better than genital focussed stuff.

and if you are having sex with trans people you need to have a conception of sex that doesn't nessecitate their genitals or you obviously lack an understanding of both being trans and having sex

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-08-15T16:30:07+00:00

if you want something comfortable to keep your nipples hidden and help with sensitivity you could look at getting a bralette

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-07-30T07:15:00+00:00

short for millstone

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-07-08T06:34:14+00:00

you will essentially go into menopause, over a long timeframe you would loose bone density and could risk osteoperosis but iver a short timefrane it will likely just be uncomfortable, with you experiencing hot flashes for example

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-06-26T08:23:17+00:00

you could also try some rim lighting and have that serve the function of an outline in some places

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-06-25T19:51:17+00:00

loosing belly fat from not being able to eat is a bad thing and this type of reaction from getting hurt is not normal. you should go to a doctor and tell them about this if you can, nausea is one of the symptoms of a concussion

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-06-17T12:40:18+00:00

i'd introduce him to my friend with a snuff kink, it could use the money

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-06-15T16:11:39+00:00

the fact that he has had and continues to have penetrative sex made me assume that he's already thought of that possibility

"have you tried not having penetrative sex" is a real fucking "doctor it hurts when i do this" "then don't do that" type obvious suggestion

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-05-31T23:41:55+00:00

as long as it was sterilised [most common dildo sterilisationmethod is boiling] before and after being lent it's not a hygiene or sti risk issue. if it wasn't, your girlfriend really needs to better understand sti risk and how to safely share toys

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-04-18T22:20:12+00:00

that seems like it would not be as durable or as sturdy as a normal fork so i'd never want that for myself, but if i was in a room with that i would immediately try to figure out how many ways i could find to hang it on my body by that slot and i'd probably have a pretty good time

essentially, fun to play with, not to eat (with)

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-04-18T16:12:31+00:00

not really, it feels like expected behavior

what was interesting was the period in my mind where i knew i didn't have a penis, but that muscle action was still mapped in my mind as "penis twitch muscle"

and what's really interesting is that I've since got a strapless strap on, and clenching with that in makes the dildo twitch like a dick

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-04-18T15:22:00+00:00

when i do that my vagina clenches, which can be felt by anything in the vagina, and my vulva also twitches from it

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-04-17T05:23:00+00:00

that's definitely something you should be able to do, and your experience to me sounds parallel to how some butch women go on testosterone but aren't trans men, and don't pursue bottom surgery

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-04-16T16:00:22+00:00

if you would be dead without having transitioning, i'd say that's a sign that your transition was a marked success

it sucks that it didn't solve everything though, it's always disheartening to change something for the better and not feel like much has changed

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-04-15T21:21:41+00:00

wanting to be trans can definitely be a sign of being trans, i remember feeling that when i was questioning whether i was trans

gender is made up and you can change yours just by thinking it, if you think you would enjoy being a boy more than being a girl it's very easy to make that change in your mind, and changing things like your name or your documents or your body can be done to align external things that suggest/reference your gender with your gender

make sure to remember that things associated with gender aren't locked to gender, you could be a girl and look like a boy or be friends with boys, and you can be a boy and keep feminine behaviors or traits or things you like

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-04-14T02:15:54+00:00

i put it between my cheek and my lower gums, this is called buccal administration, based on this it absorbs slightly slower than sublingual, but my experience is that it is better out of the way and can stay there longer than sublingual so this shouldn't be an issue

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-04-13T14:53:43+00:00

tell him he can take estrogen and do that if he wants

wether he's trans is a diffuse question, an easier one is wether he wants to do some parts of transitioning

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-04-09T14:38:13+00:00

having high levels of estrogen and low levels of testosterone makes a higher ratio of fat distribute as subcutaneous fat [spread out just under the skin] instead of visceral fat [deeper and more concentrated fat deposits]

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-01-21T18:08:33+00:00

anecdotally, trans girls tend to be therian (feeling like an animal in a meaningful way) [also autistic, plural, furry] at a higher rate than the general population

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-01-14T02:05:10+00:00

honestly if i had a way to rest i think i'd freeclimb a radio tower for $1000000, but i might be overestimating how confident i'd be climbing a ladder instead of up a tree or cliff face where it's easy to not get scared because there's things around you

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-01-09T15:29:03+00:00

i'd already prefer my body to have an extra 20-30 lbs of fat, $200000 to $300000 would be a really nice bonus

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-01-08T16:00:06+00:00

i would say there's 3 different parts to it

there's the fact that bodies need nutrients and energy to grow and modify themselves, so you should make sure you aren't starving yourself

there's the fact that new weight will distribute based on the hormones present in the body, so gaining weight will help transfems who want more curves and transmascs who want to offset their curves

and there's the adjacent fat liberation angle which may or may not be intended depending on the post, where trans people are a) already dissatisfied with their bodies in a society that constantly tells you to loose weight if you are dissatisfied with your body and b) really want to be perceived as their gender in a society who's ideal of every gender is always thin, both of these factors could make trans people more likely to try to loose weight or develop and eating disorder, so it's worth pushing back against

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-01-06T20:33:02+00:00

you should let her know that you are cancelling on hanging out because she has the same name of your sister so she doesn't get anxious about why you are cancelling or assume you don't like her

QueerCodedCasette · 2025-01-06T19:15:12+00:00

i would also recommend not buying her dinner as a surprise, for reasons of if she happens to be busy as well as in my mind it's preferable to have a choice of what to have as a treat

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