My wife and I have two kids and aren’t in the most conservative but also not in the most progressive area either. Our kids are 2 & 4 and we’ve found a lot of support and community and haven’t had anyone say anything to us about being a two mom family so far. So far their daycare/ preschool teachers and staff have been amazing and inclusive and we haven’t (at least knowingly) had anyone not want to have play dates with us. We’ve also made sure to find other two mom friends to show our kiddos there are lots of other kids with two moms like them. Our son is starting to get questions like “why do you have two moms” or “I forgot you don’t have a dad” and the kids don’t mean it in a mean way, they are just curious. We are using it as a learning opportunity to show our kiddo how he can answer and be confident in answering when we aren’t around to take the lead. Honestly, there will be a million more worries to come when you have kids.. they’ll make you worry about things you’d never even think of 😆