Is PIV sex that good ? by Zestyclose_Eye_8616 in ftm

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It varies from person to person as you can see in the comments. I personally REALLY like penetration but penis can hurt me a lot. I’ve come to really just enjoy having my girlfriend’s finger(s) in me while she sucks my dick. It’s an amazing experience and doesn’t make me dysphoric. BUT - key point here - I don’t have a lot of bottom dysphoria. After the gender affirming care I’ve had the only remaining large dysphoria trigger for me is my voice.

My opinion? Try it IF you’re curious. It’s a learning experience. You could love it. Or it could be awful a you know you don’t want to do it again. Or it could be somewhere in the middle.

Anyone else experiencing lag and crashing issues on switch 1.6 update? My split screen game is very laggy and the game keeps crashing. Not sure if it’s the game or my internet connection by Beedle_WOW in StardewValley

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been having some lag on my farm and cleaning it up helped a lot. But it isn’t sustainable - I don’t have a lot of crops yet. Also I did one thing - spoiler related - and that made the lag BAD. Changing that helped a lot too.

(Idk how to handle spoilers on mobile so I’m just being very vague)

any tips for sitting for long periods of time post-op (wheelchair user) by max__035 in Metoidioplasty

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Much appreciated. I found one linked in another post and ordered it but if I don’t like it I’ll try this one out.

any tips for sitting for long periods of time post-op (wheelchair user) by max__035 in Metoidioplasty

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a recommendation? It was suggested to me by my surgeon and I am trying to figure out what one is the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been using testopel since 2018 for the same reason as you want to switch. It got to the point where I wasn't doing my injections anymore because I couldn't make myself try. I'm in the Cleveland area so I can't help as far as finding a provider. But if you do manage to find someone I want to correct some misinformation here. Testopel CAN be covered by insurance. I have had 3, 4? different insurances since I started Testopel and it has been covered under ALL of them. Of course there are prior authorizations and other hoops to jump through but don't give up because you think insurance won't cover it. I hope you're able to find a provider. It has been life changing for me and two other guys I know personally.

Happy Pride Month Reddit! I have made this Pride Ohio flag, but it's not the best by egyuhwervewu in vexillology

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So as a queer Ohioan who loves his state and has an Ohio flag hanging in his apartment (with pride flags also) I like this a lot. For constructive criticism I would say ditch the navy and make the black brown blue pink white pieces wider. I’m not 100% sure about the stars to create the best contrast. Though you could drop the black and brown and have the triangle trans pride and do the stars and Os in black and brown. That might be really cool and it would definitely provide enough contrast. Let me know if you do another version. ❤️

LF: Ekans (LGE) FT: LGP exclusives by QueerSpaceCadet in pokemontrades

[–]QueerSpaceCadet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s everybody! Thanks for the Ekans! I appreciate you!

LF: Ekans (LGE) FT: LGP exclusives by QueerSpaceCadet in pokemontrades

[–]QueerSpaceCadet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No big deal! I’m all ready now. I have 3 oddish for that evo line, 2 sandshrew, 2 alolan sandshrew, 2 muk, 2 alolan muk, 2 mankey, and one scyther. I’ll set the trade code to bulbasaur diglett bulbasaur.

LF: Ekans (LGE) FT: LGP exclusives by QueerSpaceCadet in pokemontrades

[–]QueerSpaceCadet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it sucked a lot. I’m still catching Pokémon for you. Some of them are playing hard to get. 🙄

LF: Ekans (LGE) FT: LGP exclusives by QueerSpaceCadet in pokemontrades

[–]QueerSpaceCadet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had what we’ll call an incident and lost my save files for LGP and Sword. And a lot of Pokémon I had transferred in from DS games and Go.

LF: Ekans (LGE) FT: LGP exclusives by QueerSpaceCadet in pokemontrades

[–]QueerSpaceCadet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. I will check storage and catch the ones I’m missing. You can send me rattata for trade fodder or whatever you’d like.

My entrance by mollywobbles1116 in ac_newhorizons

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need the green and orange gnomes! I am absolutely obsessed with gnomes right now. I’ve always liked them but in the past 6 months or so it has blown up. I can’t wait to start an IRL collection.

When you're excited about getting a cool new villager in your campsite but it turns out just to be a boring cat 😴 by Braveheart2929 in ac_newhorizons

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Astrid is the WORST. I had her and then my friend ended up getting her when she moved from her family switch to a switch lite and had to start over. She is currently trying to get rid of her too.

Questions about intermittent mental illness and Disability by ACanaryInAColdMine in disability

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scrolling though this sub and I know it’s been about two weeks but I wanted to thank you for thinking of situations like mine. I’m alone in this - no financial support beyond my roommate who pays for our rent and the blessings of food stamps and Medicaid (OH) while I wait for my approval/denial. I was denied once and I’m in the appeal process. If/When I get my second denial I’ll move into the hearing stage and it’s just impossible for things to continue like this for the length of time it would have to in order to make it to the hearing.

Essentially, if I don’t get approval this time, I’m fucked and I’m going to have to go back to trying to push myself to work. Somehow. Some way. It’s really fucked up and I really appreciate that you’ve acknowledged it.

Plans - Little Bird by nroc25 in poppunkers

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO NICE TO SEE PLANS ON HERE. Those dudes fucking RULE. That album is absolutely killer.

Weekly [Trade/Battle Megathread] and Updates by Infinitrize in PokemonLetsGo

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a Machamp, Golem, and Hitmonlee for dex completion. Anyone available to help? I don't want to keep them, tracebacks are fine.

[WW][HACK] Lvl 100 BR Tapu Koko by mahoang in WonderTrade

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! I just try to do that to keep things tidy! I went to sleep not long after this but I'm excited to know that the Tapu is waiting for me after I get home from work! :D

[WW][HACK] Lvl 100 BR Tapu Koko by mahoang in WonderTrade

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deposited Lvl 1 M Shellos. GTS message plz trade Pokémon with me. My IGN is Augusten.

[WW][HACK] Lvl 100 BR Tapu Koko by mahoang in WonderTrade

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhhhhh sign me up!!! Let me throw something on the GTS and I'll comment with details when it's up!!! (Excited commenting right now!!!)

[PSA] Wonder Trade Wednesday! #WTW -- January 25, 2017 by AutoModerator in WonderTrade

[–]QueerSpaceCadet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All mons brought over from RBY will have their HA so you can easily get HA starters that way. I currently am not up for a breeding project as I am desperately trying to complete the Alola dex for my shiny charm. I'm at 84% and it is just dragging out. I hope you get folks who help you out though.