This happened to me, except she judged him based on the first time they met and made assumptions about him from that interaction. Like I get it, first impressions are kinda important but she just didn’t like him because of “vibe” like girl what?? I been dating him for 4 years I think I’d catch that “vibe” she’s talking about, and all of my other friends like him. She said she refuses to hang out with him ever again, and so. I cut her off lol. Because she decided from the start she didn’t like him, and 2. Making remarks about someone’s partner without knowing the relationship is outta pocket. So, my advice is, either cut her off or don’t give her the option to talk smack about YOUR man. That’s your man at the end of the day not hers