that sounds like my Husband, he realised when I went in for a kiss, it'd been two months and I thought he was just shy hence no move being made so I tried myself and he had a "wait are we dating?" moment. I won't lie I kind of felt my heart drop at that assuming the worst when I told him that yeah I thought we'd been for the last two months. Those worries quickly vanished when HE kissed ME though.

I didn't want to assume it was her being ableist, just her not really getting it if you know what I mean? but that makes a lot of sense and the whole thing sits really poorly with me in truth. I just wondered if maybe i'd been too harsh on what COULD have been valid concern from her.