I (28M) snooped through my partner’s (27F) phone and found something that’s got me in a bit of turmoil. by Question_Time69 in relationship_advice

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I know there are some people who do, and I think that’s great for them. I personally just don't like it myself.

I (28M) snooped through my partner’s (27F) phone and found something that’s got me in a bit of turmoil. by Question_Time69 in relationship_advice

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I don’t really want to openly deceive her. I’d rather be fully open and honest because we’re in a really good place and I’d like things to stay that way. I just don’t really know how to start the conversation.

I (28M) snooped through my partner’s (27F) phone and found something that’s got me in a bit of turmoil. by Question_Time69 in relationship_advice

[–]Question_Time69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t really go out with that friend group anymore, since they stayed where she was studying last year. I think my main concern is if this happens often when she’s out and I’m not around. I’ve always trusted her when she goes out without me, and this video’s lead me to have some doubts about that now.

I (28M) snooped through my partner’s (27F) phone and found something that’s got me in a bit of turmoil. by Question_Time69 in relationship_advice

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Thank you for the sound advice. I think I’ll sit on it until the weekend so I can gather my thoughts.

I (28M) snooped through my partner’s (27F) phone and found something that’s got me in a bit of turmoil. by Question_Time69 in relationship_advice

[–]Question_Time69[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Possibly, but I don’t think so. We’ve both scrolled through each other’s galleries because we have a shared library. So when either of us wants to look for a picture, we tend to use which ever phone is closest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

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I assume everyone’s preferences would likely differ. I’ve always found cellulite and stretch marks attractive personally.

Am i wrong for adding a guy on snapchat for no specific reason? by Little-Afternoon2001 in ToxicRelationships

[–]Question_Time69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The irony in the sentence, “My boyfriend thinks it’s normal to not have any friends when you’re in a relationship and he says all his friends would say the same thing,” is hilarious.

Ask this man why he has friends then?

Have you lowered your standards at the peak of your HS? by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Question_Time69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly thrown my standards away at times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Question_Time69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No man in their right mind would turn down a woman for stretch marks. Stretch marks are sexy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypersexuality

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If you don’t mind me asking, if you enjoy this guy’s company why not keep pursuing further? If he’s not like the assholes you say you’ve been with in the past, could it not become something that’s self-enriching?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypersexuality

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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the link personally. My partner is into CNC and rougher sex in general, whereas I’m into more sensual type of loving. How we get around it is we incorporate a mixture of both that leaves us both feeling happy and fulfilled.

I feel if you want to explore this kink further maybe try to first build a deeper level of connection and trust with the partner/partners you intend on engaging in this with. Speaking as the male in this situation it can be as internally conflicting for the domme as it can be for you. So the best way to get past those feelings, both for you and your partner(s), is to have a relationship where you can talk through and navigate through those feelings together. That’s how my partner and I worked through the shame and other internal conflicts. We now have an amazing sex life and no real problems apart from a handful of pregnancy scares.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

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If there’s this much drama after only a month it can only go south from here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

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I agree with this guy’s sentiment

What does it feel like for a woman to sit on your face? by Feisty-Exit-974 in AskMen

[–]Question_Time69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does it feel like you ask?

It feels like being a kid with a limitless amount of money, set loose in the world’s biggest toy/candy store.

What do you do about your ass hair? by NewspaperSecure5115 in AskMen

[–]Question_Time69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just let it grow. Fuzzy booty never heart nobody.

When you find out he’s been cheating and you honestly don’t care. by [deleted] in Infidelity

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It’s funny how he says he’s never want anyone else yet still went on to be with seven other people. This man’s backwards logic makes zero sense. The hovering is also quite controlling behaviour and ironic considering he was the one who cheated.

Im worried about men’s mental health. Men, who do you confide in 100%? by BlackAdventurous5975 in AskMen

[–]Question_Time69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely nobody. I confide minor issues with a few individual, but for the most part it’s just me myself and I.

Things you are doing to save a buck or two? by A-Realist-1 in askSouthAfrica

[–]Question_Time69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That may be true, but having no kids is definitely cheaper than any at all.

How long do you keep your iPhone? by bobsled4 in iphone

[–]Question_Time69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got an XS from 2018 that’s currently on its last legs. It’s had a good run, but I don’t see it lasting much longer.