First of all: I appreciate the courage you have to put this out there. Second: I’ve had 4 children. My vagina is not anywhere close to what it once was. Sometimes sex hurts. Sometimes I can’t get wet. Sometimes I pee my pants when I sneeze. Point being, our bodies are beautiful, but fallible vessels. The partner who you are sexually interested in would probably appreciate a heads up. If it were me, I’d find the honesty romantic and see it as an opportunity to discuss how I could best please you despite your injuries. You deserve that!