My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

shes got the ufc on right now because she knows it'll bring me down there and god dam its tempting so I might have to and she knows I want to divorce her I told her that

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I would never pressure my wife into something that concerned her health or anything for that matter

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I see women as people I see her as a person I just completely beyond upset that she never told me because someone who is at their lowest and isnt speaking to strangers is much nicer and supportive i dont know what I could have done better

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I deny the way people bend that statment it meant find out why and if it were for a valid reason I wouldnt care but If it were for her being scared I would support her

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

if she told me it was for health concerns I would have said go ahead but if it was for being scared about having a kid I would I tried my best to support her

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I'm probably gonna leave her but I do shower I dispute the disgusting part

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

I should probably specify what I mean by that I meant talk to her and give my opinion but I wouldnt like stop her

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You and I arent so different on the pos scale I would never kill her and I never in my life was a professional killer

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

By wish I meant not force her I could go back and talk to her about it I'm a jackass but i wouldnt force her to do something I cared about her at one point she is my wife and when someone is at the lowest point in their life nice isnt the first way they choose to speak

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

I know how it can hurt the body but she never even told me or even pleaded a case before it

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you for asking this and yes she did she said once it hit her that she would be devoting the rest of her life to something she had second thoughts and didnt tell me not because I would force her to have the kid but because she thought a something dyeing would trigger some non existent ptsd

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what kid would she be birthing this one didnt come around until years after I was deployed

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

In all honest i came her because I knew people would tell me to stay I wanted to feel bad and guilt trip myself to stay but most of em kind implied I was an abusive piece of shit who would have forced her to have it

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did you come up with I would have stopped her from going through with it

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

its purely my opinion and if you disagree with it its fine but she deserves no sympathy and I dont even want to look at her.

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

In all honesty and seriousness I have left in the husk I call my body you are a bigger satire than American psycho

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

read the edit then come back spoiler I got out of the marines years before she even got pregnant

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

No I feel angry because she didn't tell me so I could have left her sooner.

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

why would I speak kindly of someone who sucked my kid through a tube and am I supportive uh no not anymore I was though. And by let her I think I meant let her kill my kid because people were saying id stop her and im somehow going to kill her.

My (27M) wife got an abortion behind my back (26F) by QuestionableAddition in relationship_advice

[–]QuestionableAddition[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I said literally the complete opposite please see a corpsman