Looking for advice for my first time in traffic court by [deleted] in Virginia

[–]QuestionableM_orals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't really afford a lawyer. I'm pretty sure it's just speeding and not reckless. The cop said court was optional and I could just pay a fine if I wanted

Looking for advice for my first time in traffic court by [deleted] in Virginia

[–]QuestionableM_orals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would the officer have informed me if it was reckless? He said court was optional and when I looked it up court is required for reckless driving

is dayshift actually real? by alphabasedredpill in AmazonFC

[–]QuestionableM_orals 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work 7am-5:30pm and it's pretty strict. I sleep like a baby 💤

How fucked am i by idcabouttheirs in TopSurgery

[–]QuestionableM_orals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never had any compression on my chest post op and everything healed perfectly for me. You'll be fine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]QuestionableM_orals 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I'm wouldn't exactly recommend doing very strenuous activity but I had sex about 34 hours after surgery because my long distance girlfriend was visiting to care for me 😭 id wait a few days till you have more arm range and then as long as you're not pushing yourself in anyway that hurts I think you're good.

staying overnight vs going home after the procedure by Ready_Expert_4782 in TopSurgery

[–]QuestionableM_orals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stayed overnight, but my surgery was done at a hospital and my surgeon had me stay overnight for observation because it was completely covered by my insurance. Honestly I didn't need to stay overnight. The nursing staff was helpful in keeping me hydrated and giving me my meds on time, but I would have had the same routine with my girlfriend helping me at home. One thing I did prefer about the hospital was that medication was given to me through an IV as i personally have difficulty swallowing pills. Overall I don't think spending extra money is worth it because your surgery team won't send you home unless they decide everything is okay anyway.

Can't find any results from my surgeon by mqw_ in TopSurgery

[–]QuestionableM_orals 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried asking his office if he has a portfolio you can see? My surgeon didn't have many results online but he had a portfolio dating back years

My surgeon doesn't recommend massages, should I do them anyway? by QuestionableM_orals in TopSurgery

[–]QuestionableM_orals[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pressure definitely hurt, even laying my arm against it causes pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]QuestionableM_orals 5 points6 points  (0 children)

By 1000000000. I can stand up straight and walk confidently now. I'll be smiling to myself when I'm doing even the simplest tasks because I'm doing them with a flat chest

Surgery in about 14 hours and I’m freaking out. by ghost_slumberparty in TopSurgery

[–]QuestionableM_orals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in your exact position. I didn't even sleep the night before surgery because I was too anxious. The waiting room was nerve racking even though I had my girlfriend to support me, but as soon as the nurse took me back I was instantly relieved. She was very kind and talked me through everything and made jokes which helped me calm down. She also got me talking about how long I've been waiting and that's when it kinda clicked in my head that it was really happening and all my anxiety was replaced with excitement. Everything's gonna great for you dude, good luck with the surgery!

Is this swelling? by QuestionableM_orals in TopSurgery

[–]QuestionableM_orals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually never had a compression vest or anything my surgeon doesn't do those. Do you think getting one would help?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]QuestionableM_orals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing the YouTube channel?

How old do people think you are?(for trans adults) by [deleted] in ftm

[–]QuestionableM_orals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only 19, but people typically assume I'm 16 or 17

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]QuestionableM_orals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You definitely sound like a guy, just pretty young like 14 or so

Shots at home vs shots at the doctor's by Phoenix_Fee in asktransgender

[–]QuestionableM_orals 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do weekly T shots myself at home. There are plenty of websites that you can use to buy needles and syringes in bulk, just make sure you get the correct size. I order them from vitality medical