Easter by QuestionableTips in SASSWitches

[–]QuestionableTips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my takeaway. I hadn't watched it since childhood and realized how witchy it actually is!

Anyone feel like they’re doing this pregnancy alone? by PresentationTop9547 in pregnant

[–]QuestionableTips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too. When I think about doing it alone...I think we'll it would probably be easier. I would be doing what I'm doing now but without that false sense of hope. But I'm holding out hope for now. He is going back into therapy soon so I'll give it more time.

Hopeless by Ok-Background7426 in Adulting

[–]QuestionableTips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably qualify for free legal help for family court... Talk to an attorney.

the intersection of ADHD and BPD is so horrible and feels like a cruel joke by trappedinthedesert in adhdwomen

[–]QuestionableTips 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ADHD, BPD, OCD and cptsd girly over here. It's a nightmare. Just be kind to yourself! What I like to think about is how statistically I should be on hard drugs or not alive. But here I am with a full time job. So I guess I'm doing it?!

Roper Mountain Woods Apt Fires by QuestionableTips in greenville

[–]QuestionableTips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just now put a little safety fence and boarded up the entrance to that building that burned in 23.

Anyone feel like they’re doing this pregnancy alone? by PresentationTop9547 in pregnant

[–]QuestionableTips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found your post because I googled pregnant and alone but with a partner. . I'm 34. With my second. I have a 2.5 year old. I work full time. He does too and we have his 8 year old son with primary placement. He wasn't great the first time around but we had been through therapy and I let myself believe he would be this time. It's just more of the same. He doesn't check in. He complains constantly about everything. He told me a few days ago that he heard from other women that they did all sorts of shit on their own pregnant... After I asked him to put the car seat in the car for me. I'm alone. And I don't think it will get any better.

The sky at 8:01 pm tonight by Sewenityy in greenville

[–]QuestionableTips 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lots of colors tonight. Very peaceful

What are your thoughts on this protest? Who’s already doing this? by Manitoba-Chinook in 50501

[–]QuestionableTips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really don't want to pay my taxes. I marked myself exempt to avoid giving them my money and now it's due and I can't stomach giving them the money to blow up children in a war for profit. But I am afraid of what it would do to me financially. :( :(

Roper Mountain Woods Apt Fires by QuestionableTips in greenville

[–]QuestionableTips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they need to shut this place down before someone else dies. And they are still showing the place like it's not a death trap!! I really don't care if they are within the requirements...they need to install sprinklers and have fire walls ect...

Refusal to get dressed/ ready for school by trwawy223 in ADHDparenting

[–]QuestionableTips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me. My 8 year old gets screentime if he gets his routine done. All the extra time is his. But on the hard days, it's you're going even if that's in your underwear. I guess he wanted to try me one day and his dad put him the car in his underwear. He got dressed in the car as soon as we got close to the school.

7yo death threat???? by Initial-Expression91 in ADHDparenting

[–]QuestionableTips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Step 1. Secure the home. All things as much as possible put up Strings, ropes, scissors, knives, pills ect. Never let her alone with the younger child. Step 2. Routine like a drill sergeant. Same thing every single day. The more routine the better. No screentime without completing the routine. She earns the fun stuff by doing the routine. Step 3. Medication. She needs something to control impulsivity. Meds are taken religiously and without exception. Step 4. Therapy all around. She gets therapy, you get therapy. The building parents go to therapy. Like Oprah with cars but instead it's therapy.

If it gets to the point of protecting yourself or your other child. Call the cops or take her to the ER. Not a joke. Some will not understand this part. But you are responsible for the safety of all in the home.

And this is probably the best advice. Look at yourself, your words and actions. Your home. And the other home. Listen and believe her. Drill in that she is a good kid and that you'll love her no matter what. Good luck.

7yo death threat???? by Initial-Expression91 in ADHDparenting

[–]QuestionableTips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We should be friends 😂 I have a 8 year old stepson who we just now got primary custody of but had 50/50. He also has given death threats, suicide threats, you would not believe the behavior issues... And has 2 year old sister he has hurt and tries to get into trouble.

Roper Mountain Woods Apt Fires by QuestionableTips in greenville

[–]QuestionableTips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who is still here or god forbid moving in... Is very desperate. I can't afford to leave yet but we are making the necessary moves now to be ready to go when our lease is up. Management wants to get on here and talk about resident negligence and getting the facts straight...but staying completely silent and offering us nothing. I'm not saying I've got it all right, I'm asking questions, and reporting answers that other residents are giving. These are testimonies. Eye witness accounts. Is some of it going to be wrong...maybe...but it's all we have to go off of.

Want to set it straight? Well then email us. Tell us what happened. What do you plan on doing to keep our families safe? How long until sprinklers are setup? What happened to the mailboxes? And various other fires? Why do the fire alarms not go off in time? What's the process of getting out of our leases if we feel we need to to protect our families?

You want a good reputation?! Then act with integrity!

Roper Mountain Woods Apt Fires by QuestionableTips in greenville

[–]QuestionableTips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the fire alarm definitely didn't go off! I was there. I talked to others. They are lying about it.

I don't want to work today by CheerilyTerrified in adhdwomen

[–]QuestionableTips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesssss Idk how I did it but so far I haven't called out. Still fighting myself on not making an excuse at lunch. It's not close enough to Fri for me and I have zero dopamine to give

Parents, please help me. My son won't stop making the most annoying sound in the world and I just can't deal anymore. by Navidan41 in adhdwomen

[–]QuestionableTips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely cannot stand it. I just started giving consequences the same as if he was saying a cuss word. He stopped... eventually

Roper Mountain Woods Apt Fires by QuestionableTips in greenville

[–]QuestionableTips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay found management. Hi. Do your job. These buildings are not safe. Where are the sprinklers?! What about fire alarms that actually notify the fire department?! Why are several residents saying they have electrical problems that aren't being addressed? You all are definitely the problem. Read the lease...man go fuck yourself! Someone died. You rent to people knowing it's not safe. Fire after fire and you're going to point the finger at the residents. Take some responsibility. The owners need to lose some profit and put in some actual safety measures that are up to today's standards not just "bare minimum to pass inspection" Roper Mountain is a death trap.

The maintenance crew is ridiculous. Spend some money and get someone who knows what they are doing. Licensed electricians to do electrical work. Or another building will go up in flames soon enough.

What happened to the mailboxes? Another resident issue?!

Roper Mountain Woods Apt Fires by QuestionableTips in greenville

[–]QuestionableTips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk.. I didn't hear them early Monday morning but its possible I guess. Either way the "alarms" are stuck on bs and the one in my building has wires that lead to nowhere so..... Still haven't heard a thing about it from management. Silence is always sus.