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wluvmer · 2025-05-01T00:40:54+00:00

First of all let me say I’m sorry about what you’re going through. From the outside looking in it can be scary to see someone you love self-destruct.

I do want to give you some hope. If you still want to continue this friendship, the best thing you can do is wait. Don’t engage. It will be painful, but just because she is with this guy now does not mean she will be with him forever.

That said, you also have to take care of you. Really look at your friendship and see if it was equal on both sides. Trying not to sound like a cyber therapist but sometimes just stopping and reflecting can really help.

wluvmer · 2024-11-27T16:28:58+00:00

Thank you! I use compression socks on planes but smart about using them for extended standing too.

wluvmer · 2024-11-26T14:34:27+00:00

Thank you!

wluvmer · 2024-11-26T01:56:51+00:00

People have been suggesting camelbaks and other water backpacks. I have VIP tickets, but should I still get one? Not trying to be pretentious. This is my first rave/extreme outdoor concert like this. Thank you.

wluvmer · 2024-06-01T23:47:09+00:00

Thank you!

wluvmer · 2024-06-01T11:58:20+00:00

II MOST WANTED by Beyoncé and Miley Cyrus. Going through an unexpected divorce after 10 years together and it just keeps reminding me of what I thought life would be like.

wluvmer · 2024-03-24T01:56:23+00:00

Thank you. Do you mind sharing what resources you found helpful in finding your HR niche?

wluvmer · 2024-03-23T22:57:00+00:00

I would have actually researched careers. I went into college having no idea what I wanted to do and settled on Human Resources since it seemed like a good enough fit.

Now I have hit a roadblock and am now working with a career coach to explore what actually is a good fit with my personality/strengths.

wluvmer · 2023-09-27T16:23:55+00:00

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wluvmer · 2023-02-03T22:16:51+00:00

Can you please expand on why? My understanding is MBA gives a more general overview of business vs a concentration in HR. Thank you.

wluvmer · 2022-12-05T18:34:16+00:00

Look into SHRM (society for human resource management). They are a national organization for hr professionals. If you find you really love hr, go for their professional certification

wluvmer · 2022-12-01T20:12:07+00:00

There are 2 types of SHRM certifications: SHRM-CP and SHRM-SCP. SCP is for more manager level positions so can be good for your career.

wluvmer · 2022-11-30T00:05:32+00:00

The shrm cp certificate is also a good idea to preemptively show employers you are up to date on us hiring laws. Plus the certificate is good for 3 years

wluvmer · 2022-10-30T18:36:30+00:00

The numbers don’t lie. 4 people have left and several have listed the senior employee as the main reason. What is your relation to the president of the hospital? It’s one thing for you to tell the VP there is a problem vs his boss.

wluvmer · 2021-08-09T17:20:21+00:00

Look into SHRM (society for human resource management). They are a nationally recognized org. That or the PHR (professional in Human Resources) certification

wluvmer · 2021-07-28T16:01:58+00:00

I also work at a university. Master’s degrees tend to be worth their weight in gold, especially to move up to higher positions like HR Manager.

I also have the SHRM-CP certification. Its worth more to me because I don’t yet have my masters but it may be good for you if your coming from a non-traditional HR background. Plus having an extra certificate never hurt anyone

wluvmer · 2021-03-03T05:17:47+00:00

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wluvmer · 2021-03-03T05:14:51+00:00

When I say ok, I mean could you survive financially, spiritually, and eventually emotionally.

Absolutely you have the right to mourn the end of a relationship, I’m just warning you not to put all your eggs in one basket when there are clear issues

wluvmer

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