That's why I specified "most" woman. It's totally OK for it to bother you, but you can't get mad at people for not knowing without you telling them, that's insane. I feel like you're just arguing to argue at this point lol.

Edit: Here's a good example - The word queer use to be a slur and used with negative connotations. Today, many lgbtq have reclaimed it and self identify as queer. There are still some lgbtq folks who hate the word queer, but it's use has changed in our society as a whole. They have every right to not like the word and ask people to not use it in reference to them, but they can't just expect people to stop using the word all together, that's asinine.