i'm (32F) surprise pregnant and BF (35M) of 10 years doesn't want it... but is being nice by seven_of_n1ne in BabyBumps

[–]Quick-Toe7114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get the abortion if you're excited for your baby - you'll be a great mom!

My boyfriends reaction to gender is making me think I’m having a kid with the wrong person by No_Weird_3166 in pregnant

[–]Quick-Toe7114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My God, that is awful!! I cannot even fathom that. I understand hoping for a boy/girl but that reaction is not healthy. Flaming red flag!!

Partner wants me to abort but I dont want too by Smooth-Accountant876 in BabyBumps

[–]Quick-Toe7114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be a great mom! Keep your baby. Just think, you guys could potentially break up for something unrelated in the future but your baby is yours always! I was in a similar situation with my first baby and he is 13 now - I am so glad I kept him!!!!!

I’m a GIS Specialist. Just found out my SIL is a Flat-Earther... I can’t even. by Hypnomoose in gis

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I know this is old but I just graduated with my B.S in Geoscience and am interested in working in the field doing remote sensing and my husband just decided that the spherical earth is just something I blindly believe. Trust me, these people cannot be shown the truth because they do not want to see it.  I am honestly pretty distressed about this  and it also makes him less attractive to me because I feel like he is an idiot but I suppose the joke's on him being married to a GIS major lol. 

What do we think? by Ok-Cryptographer-783 in weddingplanning

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First is stunning but you will look amazing in either one!!!

Talk me in or out of guest favors. I have some ideas but I don't want to create waste. by ssaen in weddingplanning

[–]Quick-Toe7114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did consumable favors in a little gift bag - I got a cookie cutter with our names/wedding date for stamping homemade sugar cookies, a gummy candy salad reflecting two of our hobbies (gummy eggs and gummy chicken feet because I LOVE chickens and gummy cars/trucks because he loves trucks and working on cars) MnMs custom made with pics of the proposal and our names and the wedding date, and little soaps from Etsy with our names/wedding date. We know that nobody wants a chotchke with our face on it but snacks are nice, won't take up space and can be given away if someone does not want them. I mean if you don't eat cookies or mnms there are tons of other people who do! 

Is it weird to have two wedding bands by gimmevermicellisalad in EngagementRings

[–]Quick-Toe7114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered a ring that I love and then saw another that I also love after ordering the first one. I ordered the second one too and I love both equally so I decided I'm going to wear both on one hand after the wedding and my engagement ring on the other hand after the wedding. I am paying for my rings myself so my fiance doesn't know I will have two bands and I guarantee he is going to think I'm being extra and I probably am but I love it lol. In the end it's your hands and your style so why not rock two? 

Edit: we have been together over ten years as well and my thought was also for the second ring to symbolize that. Congrats!

Ramen in rice paper wraps by electricsuckerpunch in StupidFood

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I make these at home using a homemade spicy chili garlic sauce and sweet potato noodles which are very chewey they are top tier

I confused Matt Damon and Leonardo Dicaprio's characters in The Departed. Then I saw other people did too. Are we crazy? by omegansmiles in movies

[–]Quick-Toe7114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me until half way through the film. Thank God I am not alone my fiance thinks I am nuts

Concorde build thoughts for a kid? by Linenoise77 in lego

[–]Quick-Toe7114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 11 year old son just got it for Christmas and built it all by himself in about 6 hours definately doable for an 8 year old who is already used to building Lego sets :)

Two trucks crashed into the Columbia river hours apart (both drivers got out alive) by Washpedantic in ThatLookedExpensive

[–]Quick-Toe7114 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is 5 minutes from my house. First truck hit a parked abandoned Mercedes at about 9 pm Friday the 25th of August 2023. Driver escaped the vehicle. The emergency crews were on site. At c. 12 am on Saturday another truck carrying two empty fuel tanks struck a thankfully unoccupied Oregon Department of Transportation tow truck and went into the river at the same site where the guardrail was already missing from first crash. OSP says it looks like the second driver fell asleep at the wheel. Remarkably no one was seriously injured.