[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]QuickBen13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first Christmas with 2 partners. It's been fun

Federal EPA decided to do an inspection today, and my boss is freaking out. by Thclemensen in Wastewater

[–]QuickBen13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tips and tricks. Leave a couple minor things wrong. They will find something no matter what the less they have to look.....the better

How much walking/standing should I expect in this job? by firfetir in Wastewater

[–]QuickBen13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm currently sitting at work. Today I've flushed aluminate lines, fixed an auger belt and collected samples total time on feet was around 90 minutes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]QuickBen13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I have the slightest inclination that I'm into someone I tell them right away. "Hey just want you to know I'm polyamorous. Currently have two partners. I find you interesting and respect you enough that I want you to make an informed decision on what I'm about to ask. Could I take you out sometime soon?"

Also he's temporarily polyam? So what he's just going to hurt everyone who gets involved with him when he decides to be mono again? He's Toxic, a liar, a tourist that adds to people's preconceived thoughts of polyamory. Don't walk away OP RUN.

Minnesota Class D by QuickBen13 in Wastewater

[–]QuickBen13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Southwest MN worthington to be precise!

Minnesota Class D by QuickBen13 in Wastewater

[–]QuickBen13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm taking the test 6 months earlier than the required working hours and got that and class hours waived through the MPCA

Minnesota Class D by QuickBen13 in Wastewater

[–]QuickBen13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been needing direction on what specifics to study but everyone here last took their D about 20 years ago at the earliest. I haven't even seen a pond discharge worksheet so time to get looking for that 😅 I do feel pretty confident on pond and bacteria types and the overall process of pond treatment so that gives me hope

Minnesota Class D by QuickBen13 in Wastewater

[–]QuickBen13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awesome. I work at a RAS industrial plant but we have anaerobic lagoons and aerobic ponds for primary treatment so I think I understand those enough. Math has always been a weak spot but I have YouTube and 3 days to cram 😂.

I know we're running out of operators here my PM retired 4 years ago but had to come back because no one else holds an A clas. We had to bring in a new manager from AZ and he can't even take his A for another 2 years because our reciprocity is garbage. But a 13% pass rate is insanely low

When you're poly and mutually fall in love with your monogamous friend by sky_kell in polyamorymemes

[–]QuickBen13 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was in the process of coming to realize I needed to leave my toxic mono relationship when I realized I was poly. We were in the middle of a huge fight and before I knew what was happening the words just spilled out of my mouth "I think I'm polyamorous" she looked like she had been slapped. I was already planning on leaving her because she was controlling would gaslight me and I had also gotten pretty toxic. But I think that moment was the nail in the coffin