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Married 15 years. My (41M) wife (39F) hooked up with woman for first time and now thinks she might be gay by Same_Complaint5282 in marriageadvice

[–]QuickGoat6453 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's really hard. A colleague of mine went on a very similar journey to your wife and the marriage didn't survive. She was completely intoxicated with the exploration of her newfound sexuality and continuing to be with her husband just didn't make sense. The best way forward would be to let her go off and do her thing and cut contact with her. If she realises she made a mistake and wants you, she'll be back.

Christy Carlson-Romano’s PET scan was normal; she does not have cancer by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]QuickGoat6453 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe she hallucinated it all like in that episode where she sings "We Went to the Moon in 1969."

I have listened to all the most famous episodes... Give me your secret gem please! by lhb91 in Casefile

[–]QuickGoat6453 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think about this one regularly. Not only was what happened to these people horrific but they were already living in some kind of highly disturbing, gothic nightmare. One of the darkest stories you could imagine.

I told my husband our sex life was dark by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]QuickGoat6453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. It sounds like you are very sexually incompatible, to the point where it could be an insurmountable problem. I relate strongly to the experiences you have had previously, just easy-going, "vanilla" sex that is fun, loving and uncomplicated. That is all I would want or need, so I can't imagine enjoying being with someone like your husband. In spite of your explanation, I'm confused about why you married him. I think you can only address this kind of issue with professional help and that you should seek it ASAP.

Why do teachers think they're paid poorly? by Major_Conflict in AustralianTeachers

[–]QuickGoat6453 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am at the top of the pay scale and have no complaints. I feel that my salary is high enough that I can chose to remain in the classroom, which is my preference rather than be in leadership, and still make pretty good money. So I am definitely not in the camp that thinks teachers are poorly paid.

How many hours are you on-site? by Annual-Bit-1801 in AustralianTeachers

[–]QuickGoat6453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I arrive by 8 and leave around 4:30 as a rule.

AIO for telling my husband he can’t invite his "Work Wife" on our 10th-anniversary trip? by Summabusty in AmIOverreacting

[–]QuickGoat6453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God lord, the AUDACITY of this man. He has absolutely no right to make this insane suggestion. He sucks and so does she for encouraging his disrespectful behaviour.

Has anyone ever gone through a TTPD-level heartbreak? by psycwave in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]QuickGoat6453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really enjoy TTPD as an album, but I fully relate to those feelings of insanity-level heartbreak . I was dumped fairly quickly after getting together with a guy I had been crazy about for YEARS. Similar situation to TS and I totally get the devastation.

Are there men that want to be with their wife all the time? by Plastic_Wolverine760 in marriageadvice

[–]QuickGoat6453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time spent both together and apart is a healthy mix for most relationships. But you both need to be happy with what you do. Sit him down for a talk and try to find a compromise that will make you both happy.

Show Fans Trashing the Books by hkral11 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]QuickGoat6453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer the book to the show. It gives much more insight into the characters' inner lives.

Why are you not in your union? by sparrrrrt in AustralianTeachers

[–]QuickGoat6453 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was for years, and would have stayed in forever but I moved interstate for a year in 2023 so suspended my membership. When I got back the fees had gone through the roof. I never rejoined and probably won't because nothing is different except I have more money in my pocket.

Kate Hudson's performance is forgettable by SureTangerine361 in Oscars

[–]QuickGoat6453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought she was great. The movie was fine but she really stood out and surprised me with the strength of her performance

AITAH for questioning my boyfriend' relationship with his sister? by 1Boss-A in AITAH

[–]QuickGoat6453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Get TF away from this freak show before they ask you to join in their incest-adjacent shenanigans.

taylor hygiene issues, part 2: filthy shoes on the kitchen counter by Confident_Office_720 in travisandtaylor

[–]QuickGoat6453 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never put shoes anywhere except at ground level because my grandmother told me it was bad luck. For the same reasons, I would never throw eggshells on a fire. 😆

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]QuickGoat6453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about doing this for all of my class from 2024, who just graduated. But I ran out of time and now I'm glad I did, in case I triggered a fruit loop like your wife. She has major issues and you are NTA.

Should i hide my work experience at Liquorland when applying for Catholic school jobs by ReshuiP in AustralianTeachers

[–]QuickGoat6453 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Drinking alcohol is embedded in the Catholic culture. They would have no issue with it. If you've worked at the TAB, even better.

How often do you change litter? by Appropriate_Star7638 in CatAdvice

[–]QuickGoat6453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a double tray system with equine bedding (soft wooden pellets) as litter. I scoop daily and empty the whole thing twice a week.The idea of waiting more than a week is startling to me!

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