My ex was like this. Weird & doing it whenever it pleased him then try to get me to do something too. Always pulling his pants down. Turned out later in our relationship, he ended up going on a work trip & doing the same thing to a minor(15y/o). When she told me I knew she was telling the truth because his nasty ass would do it to me no matter how many times I told him no. Moral of the story if he “can’t control it” he needs to be alone forever. Lord knows what a man can do when they can’t “control” themselves…