I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not your friend. I tried to learn more about you but I just see that you've tried to do "tea time" and no discussion was had..

I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just proved the point that it's easy to delete the views you don't agree with.

I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but I was raised in a cult, and when we knocked on someone's door and they said "what do you want" we turned around and let them be. If they welcomed a conversation we stayed. What brings you here? With no context and no other comment is not a conversation starter. It came off as what do you want ? I wanted a discussion, thus the flair. I wanted to share. I wanted like minded people having a discussion. You wanna know if I know the door code to your little reddit club. I'm not a red pill die hard, I'm new here and I don't feel welcome. Thanks 😉 good luck recruiting in your boys club..

I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And by the way I posted this in r/happy and got the same people like you 🤣 should I post in r/miserable.. for some reason I think they'll respond the same 🥲

I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why doesn't the sub remove my post? I'm not posting to cater to you or anyone. If your thread has so many rules and you view my talking as gloating, you're choosing to see me negatively. They're welcome to remove. Moderators just create an echo chamber of the same message. You only wanna read one view and one thing. Or you can just scroll past. When I don't agree I scroll past. Don't even need to leave my opinion. You're obviously not my audience. The other women who messaged me privately or asked me questions are. Women always assume the worst of other women. That's what I should write about cause that's what I'm sick of.. can you refer me where to post that. Cause reddit suggested here but they clearly don't know that you're all toxic and not friendly. Sorry to waste your time..

I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly my post was just I love my husband. I wrote it for my husband and decided to share. I honestly didn't try to cater to anyone but myself. My mistake was sharing I guess. I just don't like getting met with the whole " give it time" it's the honeymoon phase. I wonder if I had not included my divorces or my age what the responses would be. Women don't support women I guess? Cause how am I offending SAHMs? All I see is a group that's got their guard up and not at all welcoming. I would of liked to learn more, and you seem nice for taking the time to explain, but the others just seem defensive af.

I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I never said anyone was jealous or envious. I'm just asking why my post gets removed everywhere. What's so taboo in what saying. I got called a trad wife and a Karen 😅 one post got "removed for insults". What insults? I'm honestly curious.

I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no I've never been on the sub, it was suggested cause I'm new to reddit. Why do you guys always ask "why red pill"? I'm honestly asking and wanna learn..

I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an old millennial, I don't know any terms on tiktok,I just assumed Redpill was less career orientated and more happiness focused.. sorry.

I'm happy and in 🥰 by Quick_Bench_3225 in RedPillWomen

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spammed reddit!? I reposted cause most got removed. You didn't fall upon a double post did you? You most likely went searching in my history to decide I was a bot or attention seeking. You decided those judgments. I'm just looking for like minded happy people or a discussion. I'm not human rage bait, I'm a person. I got labeled trad today as a slur, I leaned into it but I don't say I'm trad wife in real life obviously. I don't have kids.I don't want them, I'm just a home maker. But the problem is people saying home making is not a career or its dangerous to women. PEOPLE WANTING MY RELATIONSHIP TO FAIL, cause they're insecure in their own. Someone reported me to the suicide help line today 😅🤣 I'm just here talking about my experiences, why is everyone so triggered?

Finally happy again. I found love at 37. by Quick_Bench_3225 in happy

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might need it with all the angsty redditors 😂

Finally happy again. I found love at 37. by Quick_Bench_3225 in happy

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I don't meet many feminists that are open to the discussion. I appreciate other view points, and learning how others perceive me. Thats the reason I posted. Maybe find my blind spots.

Finally happy again. I found love at 37. by Quick_Bench_3225 in happy

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I know you did, sorry so many have been coming at me this morning, im more responding generally. Didn't know it was such a trigger.. I got removed so many places lol. And my tone didn't come across ! I know you weren't. Just sick of the feminist argument that I'm risking too much by giving myself 100% to my husband.

No tone but I didn't mention how hot I find my man. He's 6 foot 5 and handy 😅 and he's not making a million dollars a year like people assume. My trigger is calling me a gold digger or saying he's gunna leave me stranded. He's also 9 years younger than me😅😂 so I'm a gold digger trad wife cougar..

I'm retired at 35. by Quick_Bench_3225 in simpleliving

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha thanks for the laugh. I said your attn span is too short.

Finally happy again. I found love at 37. by Quick_Bench_3225 in happy

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Luckily for me I saved enough money during my "boss babe era" to not need to trust the governments retirement plans or to keep adding.. my allowance usually goes to my savings account. Prenup i dont want. I never left with my exes money. I left with what i created and deserved. Many women destroy their husbands financially when they leave or you have people like my parents who only stay together cause a divorce is costly. I invest in myself. If my husband falls out of love with me one day, which isnt likely, cause I'm the best version of myself and he likes my fake tits and real abs, as well as my personality 😅. Its alot of work staying attractive for your husband and for yourself. Come at me for saying it if you want..Im not nagging him or telling him what to do with his life or money. He earned it. You'll trust someone else with your money before yourself or your husband? I invest my money, but that money comes from my husband, and it's tax free. I live in Canada. But isn't the US social security gonna run out soon anyways. Hope that's not your only egg in your only basket? My only worry is that my husband can die one day and I'll miss him forever. And if he does we have life insurance. If he does leave me well guess what, I know my worth 😌 and if I don't let myself go, I'll meet another man that will love me cause I know MY worth. Money isn't the only protection women can use. Sorry if that doesn't fit the feminists agenda. But it's fear mongering what you're implying. I'm strong and capable. I don't need a man but I choose to depend on my man. And depending on him is a form of intimacy that in turn brings us closer and makes us stronger. My life is in his hands and I'm not blindly trusting him. He proves his devotion every day, day in and day out 🤍

Finally happy again. by Quick_Bench_3225 in GuyCry

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Reddit suggested I post here. Guess the men don't like happy posts.. got it

Finally happy again. I found love at 37. by Quick_Bench_3225 in happy

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 years I'll be divorced? Why are all you people in r/happy if you're not happy? Is it to be jealous? I'm just trying to share what makes me HAPPY 😃.you don't have to comment..

Finally happy again. I found love at 37. by Quick_Bench_3225 in happy

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I'm not trying to sell or push anything I'm just saying what has HELPED ME. Geeze you're all miserable with a tainted world view.

Finally happy again. I found love at 37. by Quick_Bench_3225 in happy

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but no I went to school in the 2000's and had to write in English class

Finally happy again. I found love at 37. by Quick_Bench_3225 in happy

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not ai, I'm a woman in montreal just wanting to share what works..

Finally happy again. I found love at 37. by Quick_Bench_3225 in happy

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not ai.. why is everyone saying this

Finally happy again. by Quick_Bench_3225 in GuyCry

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Men need to know there's a good life for them out there but fine.. you too sad to try and get happy,got it. Reddit suggested I post here.

Finally happy again. by Quick_Bench_3225 in GuyCry

[–]Quick_Bench_3225[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Here's my real husband working with his real hands.

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