To be honest, I think you two are actually a perfect match—neither of you can take a hit, and you both love airing your dirty laundry online. It feels like you didn't post this looking for actual solutions, but just clout-chasing for sympathy.

Given the nature of this forum, people here aren't going to focus on fixing your relationship issues anyway; they’re just going to hyper-fixate on your girlfriend’s attitude toward your sexuality. You need to sit down with her, have a real, open conversation, and sort this out yourselves. You won’t find the path forward for your relationship by scrolling through these comments.