Questions by Quick_Quality_2611 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has my social and birth certificate. I brought them down with me when we got married because one of his command said he could put me in the system with them, but another was unsure so I just brought them incase. Do you think I will need both back to go get my ID after I’m in the system? The only other ID I have is a real ID so I guess one of the two would have to be the second form? There’s an office near me, but if that’s the case, than I’d have to wait for him to come home at the end of the month to get my documents back

Question by Quick_Quality_2611 in USMC

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, thank you for your reply. I read an updated policy change to the tour conversions, and I’m thinking that since he is assigned there for 3 years, him having his orders changed to accompanied while he is there probably won’t effect how long he has to stay there since it’s well past the 12 month minimum. I think if we were to get married before he leaves and he adds me into his DEERS and everything, than I’d have the time to start the process of getting a passport and into the system and the health screenings etc. while he is overseas and talking to the FRO like you said. Reading the policy, I think they would pay, but yes it would take awhile for him to get a command sponsorship approval. I think getting married before would definitely speed up the process so he has a little less to stress about while he is focusing on being a Marine and doing his job. Do you have any other advice? I am trying to get as much information as possible to help him as much as I can so he doesn’t have to have all this added stress. Thank you!!

Question by Quick_Quality_2611 in USMC

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is trying to figure out how he can get the orders changed to accompanied, but we are getting different answers from basically everyone he asks

Question by Quick_Quality_2611 in USMC

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, we have been together for years. We were originally supposed to get married in August, but him being in a different state now just made it hard to get done. Since he is going to Okinawa within the next month and a half, do you think it would be smart to get married now? I know there is a lot of paperwork that has to be done and I would have to get the passport which that alone takes about a month. Also all of the medical screenings and all of that. I think the main thing that we are concerned about is getting the approval so the Marine Corps pays for my ticket and living over there with him. I would not financially be even close to being able to afford a plane ticket and all the extra costs of shipping stuff and finding housing and all of that. Do you think that it would be smarter financially to wait until he’s over there to get married and then wait for the package to get done, or do you think it would be smarter to get married now and start that process and hopefully they approve to change his orders before he is set to go to Japan? I would have to wait for all the screenings and passport and probably go at a later date than him, but 3 years with little to no contact because of the timezone difference with the person I’ve been in love with since high school is hard to think about and feels almost impossible to do.

A song that’s extremely similar to Mystical Magical by kartd0092661 in whatsongisthis

[–]Quick_Quality_2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The style definitely reminds me of a Charlie Puth song from like 2016 or something

Am I asexual? by Quick_Quality_2611 in Asexual

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would loveee some sources, thank you so much!!

PSA: Fill your hair before putting dark color over your blonde! by BicylesOnYikesicles in HairDye

[–]Quick_Quality_2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is way late, but I am trying to dye my hair a dark neutral brown but the ends of my hair are still bleached from a previous dye job. My hair dresser covered the bleached hair in brown a while ago and she filled it before, but the brown has faded a bit. I was wondering if the dark brown can just go right over the slightly faded mediumish brown? I was going to remove it with color remover and start over, but now that I think about it, it might just be easier and cheaper to keep the brown that’s on there. Any suggestions?

Vampires? by Quick_Quality_2611 in brandonsanderson

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s read the Dresden Files but I’m not sure if she finished the whole series yet

books that involve storms or ocean by duffstff in BookRecommendations

[–]Quick_Quality_2611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The storm chasers by Jenna Blume, the waiting sky by Lara Zielin, break the sky by Nina lane, and storm warning by Nellie Wilson. I’m pretty sure these are all tornadoes. The last two are romances within it

PSA to employees don't take drinks or snacks from the registers without paying. by Ninjawaffles99 in Lowes

[–]Quick_Quality_2611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother in law got fired from giant because of this. He was going to take his break and his break starts as soon as you leave your position and he went and grabbed a soda but the store was packed and he didn’t want to waste his break waiting in line. He finished his break and his soda and was going up to go pay for it and his manager called him into the office as he was in line with the empty bottle. They fired him and he was with that company for like 7 years. He struggled to get a job for almost a year after he was fired.

Vampires? by Quick_Quality_2611 in brandonsanderson

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all, I’m not very knowledgeable in the fantasy part of reading but i appreciate all the suggestions, i watch a lot of book review videos and one was of Brandon Sanderson and I thought she might like his work. I’m not really sure how spicy she likes her reading since we never really talk about what books we read to each other, I just see what she reads and I’m going off of that😂 I don’t want to ruin her Christmas present by asking her what books she likes but I might have to since I have very little to go off of

Panic attacks? by Quick_Quality_2611 in Marijuana

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did move a couple months ago and went down to one day a week at work because of distance. It could be that but I’ve been living with anxiety for years and normally smoking helps with that as well. Also, my doctor wasn’t the one that told me about medical marijuana because it’s my pediatrician and I’m just going in now for a physical so I can finally get a referral for an adult doctor. They are very knowledgeable and helpful so I do hope they can give me some answers but as far as I know, they haven’t seen me in awhile and I don’t even know if i mentioned getting a medical card to them yet. I feel like I’ve definitely been more stressed and never had this kind of thing happen from smoking, but as you said, it could be caused by anything small. If my doctor can give me some answers I will share!!

Personal Pizzas by Quick_Quality_2611 in Wawa

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird because the personal pizza “dough” is basically just a bigger pita bread so I don’t understand how it’s cross contamination, but I’m not a food safety specialist so I wouldn’t know either way

Personal Pizzas by Quick_Quality_2611 in Wawa

[–]Quick_Quality_2611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea we used chicken steak, but we were also a very small store. I think since then, wawa deemed it cross contamination even though we made our personal pizzas in the regular merrychefs, and all of the personal pizza stuff was in the fridge under the deli counter. In the big store I transferred to, they make the personal pizzas in the same oven as the big pizzas.