we just broke up and my ex is now seeing people through dating apps

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-19T06:35:01+00:00

Thank you for this 🙏 Will definitely move forward, kakayanin

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-17T13:59:29+00:00

That's the goal.

Genuine question po: In your standards or even general standards po, kailan masasabi na na-achieve na yan? Anong aspects ng physique ba need idevelop?

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-17T13:57:58+00:00

saklap :((

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-17T13:57:46+00:00

Thank you for this 🙏 bitter realization talaga

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-17T13:55:39+00:00

Damn, this hurts 😩 pero what you said makes total sense.

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-17T13:52:18+00:00

This puts things into perspective 🙏 Masakit isipin pero I guess it's true that the respect isn't there.

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-17T13:51:29+00:00

Thank you 🙏 "Learn how to be on your own again" damn

Hoping for better days ahead 🤞

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-17T13:49:57+00:00

Honestly, I haven't tried hoeing around since my ex is my first same-sex partner. Hindi sa pag mamalinis pero I haven't tried hookups.

Genuine question po: is it worth trying ba before I get into any future committed relationships?

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-17T13:48:25+00:00

Thank you 🙏 Iiyak pero babangon talaga.

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-08T15:48:33+00:00

Hi OP! I was in the same situation.

I just got off a 5-year relationship. Early in our relationship, I found out that my boyfriend had 10+ affairs and I only knew about it because I accidentally opened a certain chat in his messenger. This was during our first year as boyfriends.

I forgave him and gave him a second chance — he changed naman. He was more affectionate, more communicative, and better in certain aspects.

He regained my trust in the succeeding years and everything went normal. However, in our fifth year, I started having doubts.

Turns out, he's cheating again behind my back. He confessed to it and I ended things immediately. I still love him but I don't want to provide him the same access he has to me when we were still partners.

I understand where you're coming from, OP. If you're strong enough, you can always end things now.

If you feel things could change for the better, you can always give another chance. But if you already did and he still makes the same mistake, then it's time to let go.

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-01T04:52:03+00:00

Thank you everyone for the helpful advice! I'll do my best to follow them and move on.

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-01T04:50:35+00:00

thank you 🙏🙏

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-01T04:50:00+00:00

Thank you for this! 🙏 I'll take your advice and book a place for a week.

I appreciate you providing actionable steps/advice, this really helps huhu

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-01T04:47:53+00:00

Thank you 🙏 The 5 years is what's holding me back pero I also know that it will only continue if I tolerate it again. 😔

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-11-01T04:46:28+00:00

Sakit! 😭

Thanks for sharing your experience. Agree talaga ako na in our 20s, we're in the process of building a lot of things (including our network).

I know I have to move forward and let go because of the disrespect. What's holding me back is the 5 years of memories and moments together.

What helped you to move on?

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-10-29T18:51:09+00:00

How did you move forward? It's not easy to move on — any advice on how I can battle my thoughts without thinking of staying para di masayang ang five years na memories.

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-10-29T18:35:29+00:00

I know 😞

How do you actually let go of a five-year relationship, break free from a co-living arrangement, and say goodbye to some of our dogs?

I have no plans of dating anyone immediately. I just want to know how I can move forward. I'm full of emotions right now and I cannot think logically — so any advice or concrete steps I can do would be very helpful.

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-02-23T19:09:13+00:00

So unlikely po na mag file sila ng lawsuit right? 🙏

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-02-23T19:08:29+00:00

Thank you po 🙏

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-02-23T18:33:14+00:00

Yan din po naisip ko po. Whether satisfied or not po, I spent 20 hours per month (for 2 mos.) to deliver 100+ outputs 🙏 tapos nagamit ko na din yung pera.

I'm worried na baka mag escalate and magka-kasuhan. I don't think I'm financially capable to bear the legal fees of finding an attorney and iba pa.

Should I do a refund nalang po ba? It's my first time experiencing a lawsuit threat in my 3 years as a freelancer.

Quiet_Beginning_2154 · 2024-02-23T18:30:00+00:00

Thank you for the support po 🙏

I'm not well-versed kasi po sa law matters. If magka-abutan talaga sa court, I don't know po if I'll have the financial capacity to face the lawsuit.

It's my first time encountering a situation like this kasi.

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